[fortunately for J-Lo she is already married to someone who thinks her bottom is hot]
It is if you want to have a relationship with columnist and author Sam de Brito. He wrote a few weeks back in the Sun-Herald a controversial column about how he doesn’t feel attracted to women with big bums.
I disagree with so much of what he’s written and I’ve told him that in an email. Particularly the part about women denigrating men for how they look (did he miss the storyline in Sex & The City where Charlotte marries the bald guy with the hairy back?).
He writes……
It’s not that I consider it a fatal flaw in a gal – some of my best
female friends and relatives have huge arses – it’s just that I’m not
attracted to chicks with big patooties.
But here’s the thing – by admitting this in print – I’ve guaranteed
myself a minimum of twenty mocking emails, three angry phone-calls from
the aforementioned female friends and at least one face-to-face
smack-down with a fat chick.
in love with a short guy or a bald man, well, that’s a giggle, that’s
completely understandable, that’s 90 per cent of episodes of Sex and The City
Jessica Biel….
Sam continues:
“Millions of guys, rightly or wrongly, daily dismiss or accept partners based on their body fat.
Men are obsessed with bodies and, thanks to the influences of
pornography, beer adverts and high fashion, there’s more than enough
fodder to convince us that if a woman is not sporting a tight rig,
she’s somehow less desirable.
I’m as big a victim of this syndrome as anyone and admit that all of
my serious relationships have been with women who made me sigh
pleasantly when they disrobed.
This is because undressing a woman is like unwrapping a Christmas
present from your Grandma. If you don’t like what you get, you just
have to smile and pretend to be excited for the next two hours (or
twenty years).
Top Comments
The sad thing is that I think he is telling it exactly how it is for the majority of men and they way they think. It’s honest, if nothing else.
i respect the fact that he was honest, and hes true about the sexiest barrier.
i wish more journalists were this honest
:)
you and sams articles are the only reason i buy the paper on a sunday