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		<title>By: Louise</title>
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		<dc:creator>Louise</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Jan 2013 01:18:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Not just for a second, every second. I can&#039;t imagine ever letting anyone in my life, trusting them with all of me ever again. I couldn&#039;t go through the pain of being left again, I don&#039;t think I would survive. I am sick of it, just as I am sure you are xo]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Not just for a second, every second. I can&#8217;t imagine ever letting anyone in my life, trusting them with all of me ever again. I couldn&#8217;t go through the pain of being left again, I don&#8217;t think I would survive. I am sick of it, just as I am sure you are xo</p>
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		<title>By: violet</title>
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		<dc:creator>violet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Dec 2012 09:26:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am violet life indeed is a misery and i thought i would never be happy 
again after my boy friend left me in a relationship of 3 yrs but i was 
wrong because dr okun of okuntemple@gmail.com made it so my friend in 
Nigeria got me introduced to this man through his email and i told him my 
problem so he promise to help though i felt he was like the others that 
almost milked me dry he demanded for my details and i gave them to him so 
he ask me to provide him with the resources for him to buy the items but i 
couldnt because i have be scammed before so i told him i can only spare 1300dollars and he accepted without missing word dr okun casted the spell and 5 
days later my ex called to say he was sorry that it was the devil&#039;s work  i write this for the world to see as i promise okuntemple@gmail.com i am now  married to him all thanks to Dr Okun my friends 
contact him now if you seriously need help because okun do not give room for 
unseriousness]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am violet life indeed is a misery and i thought i would never be happy<br />
again after my boy friend left me in a relationship of 3 yrs but i was<br />
wrong because dr okun of <a href="mailto:okuntemple@gmail.com">okuntemple@gmail.com</a> made it so my friend in<br />
Nigeria got me introduced to this man through his email and i told him my<br />
problem so he promise to help though i felt he was like the others that<br />
almost milked me dry he demanded for my details and i gave them to him so<br />
he ask me to provide him with the resources for him to buy the items but i<br />
couldnt because i have be scammed before so i told him i can only spare 1300dollars and he accepted without missing word dr okun casted the spell and 5<br />
days later my ex called to say he was sorry that it was the devil&#8217;s work  i write this for the world to see as i promise <a href="mailto:okuntemple@gmail.com">okuntemple@gmail.com</a> i am now  married to him all thanks to Dr Okun my friends<br />
contact him now if you seriously need help because okun do not give room for<br />
unseriousness</p>
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		<title>By: joseph</title>
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		<dc:creator>joseph</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Dec 2012 20:29:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[JOSEPH
I wanted my girlfriend back,i never stopped loving her and how i saw today,she didn&#039;t too,she broke up with me 1 year ago but she came back yesterday four days after i order a reuniting love spell from DR OKUN of okuntemple@gmail.com and she is back and her love for me has greatly increased too.Thank you DR OKUN,really thank you from all my heart and soul,THANK YOU&quot;]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>JOSEPH<br />
I wanted my girlfriend back,i never stopped loving her and how i saw today,she didn&#8217;t too,she broke up with me 1 year ago but she came back yesterday four days after i order a reuniting love spell from DR OKUN of <a href="mailto:okuntemple@gmail.com">okuntemple@gmail.com</a> and she is back and her love for me has greatly increased too.Thank you DR OKUN,really thank you from all my heart and soul,THANK YOU&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Sep 2012 23:37:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Good luck with that.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good luck with that.</p>
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		<title>By: Suzyb</title>
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		<dc:creator>Suzyb</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Aug 2012 04:28:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Love your story !
Yes there is a grieving period and then you get to re invent yourself
Thank you]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love your story !<br />
Yes there is a grieving period and then you get to re invent yourself<br />
Thank you</p>
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		<title>By: Sandra sources</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sandra sources</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Aug 2012 07:09:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My name is Sandra sources from Florida. I never believed in love spells 

or magic until i met this spell caster once when i went to Africa in 

February this year on a business summit. I meant a man who’s name is 

DR.EDOBOR he is really powerful and could help cast spells to bring 

back one’s gone, lost, misbehaving lover and magic money spell or spell 

for a good job or luck spell .I’m now happy &amp; a living testimony cos 

the man i had wanted to marry left me 3 weeks before our wedding and my 

life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 2years. I 

really loved him, but his mother was against us and he had no good 

paying job. So when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened 

and explained the situation of things to him. At first i was undecided, 

skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. And in 7 days when i 

returned to Canada, my boyfriend (now husband) called me by himself and 

came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom 

and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married. I 

didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my 

boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do. Well we are happily married 

now and we are expecting our little kid, and my husband also got the 

new job and our lives became much better. His email is 

edoborspelltemple@yahoo.com]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My name is Sandra sources from Florida. I never believed in love spells </p>
<p>or magic until i met this spell caster once when i went to Africa in </p>
<p>February this year on a business summit. I meant a man who’s name is </p>
<p>DR.EDOBOR he is really powerful and could help cast spells to bring </p>
<p>back one’s gone, lost, misbehaving lover and magic money spell or spell </p>
<p>for a good job or luck spell .I’m now happy &amp; a living testimony cos </p>
<p>the man i had wanted to marry left me 3 weeks before our wedding and my </p>
<p>life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 2years. I </p>
<p>really loved him, but his mother was against us and he had no good </p>
<p>paying job. So when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened </p>
<p>and explained the situation of things to him. At first i was undecided, </p>
<p>skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. And in 7 days when i </p>
<p>returned to Canada, my boyfriend (now husband) called me by himself and </p>
<p>came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom </p>
<p>and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married. I </p>
<p>didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my </p>
<p>boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do. Well we are happily married </p>
<p>now and we are expecting our little kid, and my husband also got the </p>
<p>new job and our lives became much better. His email is </p>
<p><a href="mailto:edoborspelltemple@yahoo.com">edoborspelltemple@yahoo.com</a></p>
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		<title>By: Rose Kelly</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rose Kelly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Aug 2012 07:06:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My name is Rose Kelly My lover and I separated Last year September; I will agree I wasn’t true to myself and him. But I did all I could let her have a good life I did put all my energy into our little family as we have 2 beautiful kids. Because I worked as a waiter he didn’t really like that for a career, he thought I didn’t want to do well in my life. Last year as the harsh finance situation hit as we’ve been suffering with our finance for a while he decided to end our marriage. Which i was very devastated!! to lose the love of my life, but a month after separation i went to France for 10days to clear my head. when i got back he wanted me back but he didn’t want romantic side of it a month after xmas he told me again that he cant do it anymore as our finance was at lowest. Then we made a decision to end it to sort our lives out…but my prayer everyday for her to realize that i am not a loser all i wanted is to do what i could to put food on the table and roof over their head. since the second separation i am qualified football coach and fitness instructor and doing more toward my career but I don’t want to get into a relationship with another man when my love and I suffered all of this years when my career takes of he is not there to enjoy it with me. I really want him back in my life so i contacted this spell caster Dr gbojoro who now help me to bring him back, we now have a happy family together with my lover. If you want his help you reach him via email at gbojorotemple1@yahoo.com]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My name is Rose Kelly My lover and I separated Last year September; I will agree I wasn’t true to myself and him. But I did all I could let her have a good life I did put all my energy into our little family as we have 2 beautiful kids. Because I worked as a waiter he didn’t really like that for a career, he thought I didn’t want to do well in my life. Last year as the harsh finance situation hit as we’ve been suffering with our finance for a while he decided to end our marriage. Which i was very devastated!! to lose the love of my life, but a month after separation i went to France for 10days to clear my head. when i got back he wanted me back but he didn’t want romantic side of it a month after xmas he told me again that he cant do it anymore as our finance was at lowest. Then we made a decision to end it to sort our lives out…but my prayer everyday for her to realize that i am not a loser all i wanted is to do what i could to put food on the table and roof over their head. since the second separation i am qualified football coach and fitness instructor and doing more toward my career but I don’t want to get into a relationship with another man when my love and I suffered all of this years when my career takes of he is not there to enjoy it with me. I really want him back in my life so i contacted this spell caster Dr gbojoro who now help me to bring him back, we now have a happy family together with my lover. If you want his help you reach him via email at <a href="mailto:gbojorotemple1@yahoo.com">gbojorotemple1@yahoo.com</a></p>
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		<title>By: jenniferp1234</title>
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		<dc:creator>jenniferp1234</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 May 2012 08:24:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Vanessa, you are strong and amazing! Thank you for being brave enough to share your story. The story of my divorce is brief and traumatic but with a silver lining. Long story short: I moved to Bangkok at 20, met an artist, said “yes”, had kids, came home to  infidelity, endured emotional abuse, studied &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.thailand-family-law-center.com/thailand-divorce-law/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Thailand divorce law&lt;/a&gt;, got a lawyer, got my kids and I out of a bad situation after a lot of time and pain. We are thriving now. I was worried about my kids, but they are so strong. They helped me, and they still stand by me. There needs to be more sharing about the dark, downward-spiraling time right after divorce. Both men and women go through this stage and never realize that there are millions going through the same thing. Time passes, life goes on, and many of us open a new and exciting chapter.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Vanessa, you are strong and amazing! Thank you for being brave enough to share your story. The story of my divorce is brief and traumatic but with a silver lining. Long story short: I moved to Bangkok at 20, met an artist, said “yes”, had kids, came home to  infidelity, endured emotional abuse, studied <a href="http://www.thailand-family-law-center.com/thailand-divorce-law/" rel="nofollow">Thailand divorce law</a>, got a lawyer, got my kids and I out of a bad situation after a lot of time and pain. We are thriving now. I was worried about my kids, but they are so strong. They helped me, and they still stand by me. There needs to be more sharing about the dark, downward-spiraling time right after divorce. Both men and women go through this stage and never realize that there are millions going through the same thing. Time passes, life goes on, and many of us open a new and exciting chapter.</p>
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		<title>By: Michael Clark</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michael Clark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 May 2012 02:00:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I work for Wanted Man Training and it&#039;s my job to train men in the skills they need to prevent unnecessary breakups.  Here&#039;s what I&#039;ve noticed lately:  Almost every breakup happens because one or both partners lack skills.  The skills for making a committed relationship work can be learnt just like typing skills or cooking skills.  When couples realise that their issues just come back to skills, they generally choose to make things work.  My heart breaks for each person who goes through an unnecessary break-up, and I am starting to believe that many break-ups are unnecessary.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I work for Wanted Man Training and it&#8217;s my job to train men in the skills they need to prevent unnecessary breakups.  Here&#8217;s what I&#8217;ve noticed lately:  Almost every breakup happens because one or both partners lack skills.  The skills for making a committed relationship work can be learnt just like typing skills or cooking skills.  When couples realise that their issues just come back to skills, they generally choose to make things work.  My heart breaks for each person who goes through an unnecessary break-up, and I am starting to believe that many break-ups are unnecessary.</p>
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		<title>By: Carys</title>
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		<dc:creator>Carys</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 May 2012 08:48:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Relationships break ups are really difficult. But not always as bad as you think. I adored my partner and when we broke up it absolutely broke my heart. However, over time you begin to see it just wasn&#039;t right for you both. We stayed friends. Not everyone is meant to be together. Very few people are totally compatible. Finding the right person can often mean searching through the people until you find the right one. 

Following that break up I haven&#039;t had another boyfriend. Almost 4 years ago. I&#039;m not sure if it was because of that relationship or not. I&#039;m 25 years old. But the thing is I&#039;ve learned a lot about myself. I&#039;ve also learnt what I do want and what I dont want and I hope it helps me make an informed decision re my future partner.

Just remember, as awful as it is at the time, there will be a point when you say, &#039;gee I am SO happy, I cant imagine NOT experiencing this with this NEW person.&#039; (which if not for that terrible separation from the other one, would not be happening). 

Beautifully written piece. Really lovely. Thanks]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Relationships break ups are really difficult. But not always as bad as you think. I adored my partner and when we broke up it absolutely broke my heart. However, over time you begin to see it just wasn&#8217;t right for you both. We stayed friends. Not everyone is meant to be together. Very few people are totally compatible. Finding the right person can often mean searching through the people until you find the right one. </p>
<p>Following that break up I haven&#8217;t had another boyfriend. Almost 4 years ago. I&#8217;m not sure if it was because of that relationship or not. I&#8217;m 25 years old. But the thing is I&#8217;ve learned a lot about myself. I&#8217;ve also learnt what I do want and what I dont want and I hope it helps me make an informed decision re my future partner.</p>
<p>Just remember, as awful as it is at the time, there will be a point when you say, &#8216;gee I am SO happy, I cant imagine NOT experiencing this with this NEW person.&#8217; (which if not for that terrible separation from the other one, would not be happening). </p>
<p>Beautifully written piece. Really lovely. Thanks</p>
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