The parents of an intellectually disabled woman have failed in their bid to have her sterilised to prevent unwanted pregnancies.
The 25-year-old Victorian woman has a job and is an accomplished athlete, but struggles with basic care tasks and lives at home with her parents.
They say the woman, who is known only as ZEH in court documents, is at risk of being taken advantage of and unable to consent to sexual activity.
“ZEH’s character and personality has evolved into a person who gravitates to anyone who has a smile or shows interest in her,” her parents told the Victorian Civil and Administrative Tribunal.
“She is always a follower even in her peer group and she will always do what others say.
“Whilst that trait is to be applauded unfortunately in this ever-changing world she can be exposed to potentially serious risks by being taken advantage of in a sexual manner.”
They cited an incident a few years ago where ZEH was touched sexually by another young person at a social activity.
“(The incident) significantly highlighted our daughter’s inability to process what is right or wrong when dealing with relationships and sexual activity,” they said.
Currently taking the pill, ZEH has trialled other contraceptives such as the hormonal IUD, but has had a bad reaction to the hormones.
Her parents say the pill is not a perfect solution, because ZEH has to be reminded to take it every day, and it can have it’s effectiveness reduced when used alongside antibiotics.
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My sister is severely disabled. She cannot talk, needs help from a full time care team and cannot be sterilised as it is against her human rights. She gets her periods every month which is not only distressing for her but she needs help to use pads and be hygienic - and she cannot be sterilised as it is against her human rights. The possibility of her being sexually assaulted as a disabled woman is much more likely than any other marginalised group in Australia (and we believe she has been before from an overnight cater, but as she cannot communicate we'll never fully know). She would be unable to cope with any potential pregnancy symptoms (physically & emotionally) and she would be obviously unable to provide any care to any potential offspring - but she cannot be sterilised as it is against her human rights. The only reason she is alive is because she's had people caring for her and loving her - they should be able to make a decision which is in her best interests much like they've done her entire life. I understand that there needs to be checks and balances so people don't slip through the cracks but not everyone should have a human right to reproduce. It shouldn't come down to a judge who has not experienced the privilege and the pain of caring for a disabled family member. If you haven't lived it - you just don't get it.
And what the legal eagles and power-brokers don't understand is the carers' increased stress at the realities and the possibilities.
Our son is disabled. My husband and I care for him. The increased stress when he is violent is damaging us and our well-being big-time. And that damage is compounded every time there's an incident.
I can only cry at the thought of what you and your family go through with your sister.
My friend's sister was removed from her parents' care in the 60's and put into a group home, however, they saw her every weekend and was still a huge part of their family. She was 'sterilised' after being sexually molested - unsure by whom as she was non-verbal, but luckily did not result in a pregnancy. They then had lots of people turning up at the door to discuss her sister's rights, and her Dad put them in their place when he told them he would be dropping off the baby at their house. Add to that the distress of every month having a period and I truly believe it is the only humane thing to do. Lots of talk about "Human Rights" but what about the rights of a baby who arrives to a Mother who is unable to care for it.
If her family says she is unable to give consent for sexual acts, does this mean she would be deemed unable to give consent for an abortion if she became pregnant?
I hadn't thought of that. Not having a legal background, I don't know the answer. It is an interesting point you raise though.
The parents would need to provide consent on her behalf. Usually you are allowed to make medical decisions from the age of 14 onwards, but if you are deemed incapable, the parents or other guardian make the call.
It's strange, though. If a sterilisation requires consent of the court because of the seriousness of the procedure, I would expect the courts to be involved for abortion - which is surely also counted as serious. But it's my understanding that court approval isn't required.
Good point or give consent for a c section/ blood transfusion or other intervention during labour. As someone with a sister with mild intellectual disability I really support what this family was trying to do. Long term consequences will fall to the sister and offspring of the ID are often affected themselves. What about the families rights to choice and quality of life this scenario is a fucking nighare