A few Saturdays ago, I went shopping with a girlfriend. We didn’t mean to shop. We meant to drink coffee and eat cake. I can prove this because we had some of our children with us and everyone knows children are the natural enemy of shopping.
No sane person would ever willingly choose to try on clothes while accompanied by anyone too young to drive. It’s insanity meets extreme sport with a dollop of masochism on top to seal the deal.
Giddy with caffeine and sugar, however, we decided we could totally handle popping into one little boutique on the way back to the car. While my friend ducked into the fitting room to try on a dress, I flicked distractedly through the racks while trying to watch three children with two eyes. You do the math.
After approximately 100 years, my friend emerged from behind the curtain with a look on her face that was part rage, part mortification. I recognised that look. It meant there was no mirror inside the change room and she wanted to harm the boutique owner and then cower under the nearest chair.
As she stood self-consciously in front of the poxy public mirror, checking out her reflection, she called for some input on the dress. “Is it too short?” she asked me.
“No,” I assured her. “Not at all.” She wasn’t convinced. “Your legs look great!” Still not. “Look, it’s not like I can see your vagina or anything.”
As we were talking, the kids had gathered to loudly inform us they wanted to leave. Having caught the end of our conversation, my friend’s 4-year-old daughter began to chant “Va-GINA, Va-GINA, Va-GINA, VAa-GINA” while leaping about doing ballet on the shop floor.
Naturally, being a mature adult, I burst out laughing. But my friend was cross. With me. “Thanks a LOT” she muttered under her breath while looking like she wanted to smack me about the head with a coat hanger. I was baffled. “What?” I asked, trying to stop giggling. “We don’t use that word,” she whispered back to me.
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I call them by what they are im not squemish i mean everyones got one
I never had kids, so I'm off the hook, but I'd like to share a couple of stories about how my mother handled such things. When I was a very small girl, my mother took me to the doctor for something or other. He asked me if I’d had a BM that day. I had no idea what a BM was, so he looked at my mother and said, “What do you call it? Boom boom? Poopies? Number 2?” I’d heard “Number 2″ from somewhere, so I answered his question. I never had the chance to tell him that I would’ve understood if he’d used the word “defecate”. My mother’s a scientist, and never dumbed anything. When I was an adolescent, I asked what a circumcision was. She said, “How much do you know about the male anatomy.” I said, “Practically nothing.” (This was in the dark ages, when kids didn’t know so much about sex at such an early age. And when women didn’t normally have Masters degrees in the sciences, so props to her.) She explained in rich anatomical detail, using all the proper scientific names. When she was done, I was no closer to knowing what a circumcision was. LOL Classic! But I adore her for communicating with us kids as intellectual equals.