By MIA FREEDMAN
The winner of the Dolly Modelling Contest has been announced. She’s 13 years old.
Here are the finalists of this year’s modelling contest, including 13 year old winner Kristy Thatcher. [Post continues below gallery].

Kirsty Thatcher, 13
The media has been calling me for comment all day and here it is.
One of the first things I did when I became Editor-In-Chief of Dolly in 2005 was axe their annual Model Contest. I knew this would not lead to an increase in circulation (as the Great Lisa Wilkinson once taught me: you don’t gain readers by taking something away, you gain them by adding something new to the mix) but I did it anyway and I’ll tell you why in a second.
The Dolly model contest has always been pretty iconic. Miranda Kerr won it when she was 13 and you’ll hear this a lot whenever the subject comes up, as a justification for why it’s OK and even a good thing. ‘Miranda Kerr won it at 13 and look at her now!’ etc.
But for every Miranda Kerr, there are thousands of teenage models who don’t go on to become Victoria’s Secret Angels and marry Hollywood stars (side note: is becoming a Victoria’s Secret Angel something we want to encourage girls to aspire to anyway? If that’s the pinnacle of your career, what does that say about the values of the modelling industry?).
So why did I axe it? Because I thought the message it sent to girls – that the most important thing about you is how you look – was an appalling one. A negative one. A damaging one.
It’s not just Dolly. Girlfriend is the same. A 13 year old won their model contest last year too.
Remember being 13? At the most mentally and emotionally vulnerable time in a girl’s life, why on earth would you throw her into a world that judges and rejects you exclusively on how you look? And what you weigh.
Here’s a clue that the modelling industry is messed up: the winner of this year’s contest was the youngest finalist. Why? Because if you want to be a model, 16 or 17 is too old. As Girlfriend’s editor said last year about her magazine’s winner, her tender age would give her ‘a headstart’ in the industry.
That’s why girls as young as 13 – like the Dolly and Girlfriend model contest winners – are sent overseas to meet with agents and go on casting. As one model manager said about this practice: ”I know many people think 13 is very young but it’s what the international brands are looking for in Europe,” she said. ”Models are too old now at 16.”
Dolly and Girlfiend’s editors (both of whom I’ve worked with during my mag career) claim their winners will be used in ‘age-appropriate’ ways in their magazines and I believe them. After all, they are magazines for teenage girls whose average reader is probably 13. The models in their pages SHOULD be 13.
So why not call them ambassadors instead of models? Because there aren’t enough teenage mags or products to sustain the career of a 13 or 14 or even 15 year old model. So they are invariably used to model clothes and products aimed at adults.
Modelling itself is an adult industry. Run by professionals, sure but photo shoots and castings are adult places. Nobody cares about the self-esteem of the girls they’re seeing. Nobody cares that they are smart or funny or kind. And modelling is an industry based on rejection. Adults looks at your face and your body, peer intently at the photos in your portfolio and then say “thanks” and you never know why you didn’t get the job. And you’re 13.
It baffles me why anyone would think modelling was a good idea for themselves or their daughter.
Here’s something worth considering:
8 THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT MODELLING – by Mia Freedman
1. If you do not want to be judged on how you look and what you weigh, do not become a model.
2. If you do not want your daughter to be judged on how she looks and what she weighs, do not let her become a model.
3. Same with your son.
4. If you do not want your daughter to be photographed looking sexy and made to look much much older than she is, do not let her become a model.
5. If you don’t want your daughter’s self-esteem to be DIRECTLY and inextricably linked to her weight and appearance, do not let her become a model.
6. If you don’t want your daughter to believe her value as a person is determined solely by how she looks and what she weighs, do not let her become a model.
7. If you don’t want your daughter’s self confidence to be smashed to smithereens by an industry that rejects her 99% of the time based on how she looks or what she weighs, do not let her become a model.
8. It is not the responsibility of the modelling industry to take care of your kids or boost their self-esteem. They will judge and reject them based on how they look. In fact, that’s their job.
I think magazines like Dolly and Girlfriend can play a great role in educating, inspiring and energising the teenage girls who read them. Which is why I wish they wouldn’t hold up modelling as the ultimate prize, a career to aspire to, a life to covet. Because the reality is very very different.
Here’s what happens when teenagers, modelling and the fashion world collide.

Anais Gallagher, 11
UPDATE: Some commenters and others on social media have pointed out that Dolly won the inaugural Body Positive Award earlier this month. I was part of the National Body Image Advisory Group who suggested these awards as part of our comprehensive recommendations to the Federal Government about how to combat the growing problem of body image among young Australians.
I thought it was inappropriate to be involved in the judging, nominations or presenting of these awards but I went along to show my support. We’ve written a post that details the overall winner (Dolly) and the highly commended nominees which included Girlfriend magazine and Dove. You can read about that here.
Make no mistake – Dolly and Girlfriend ARE doing some positive things like banning Photoshop on the images they produce and other great initiatives driven – according to the editors – almost entirely by their readers. “They’re demanding it” said Dolly Editor Tiffany Dunk when she accepted her award and credited Dolly readers with forcing the change.
I am completely supportive of any initiatives for mags to reflect a more realistic and diverse image of girls and women (and boys and men!). But I don’t think model contests are a positive body image initiative, no matter how they’re dressed up.







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Miranda Kerr might be the only thing on that cover that’s a good influence.. ‘filthy facts for Leo lovers’, ‘I topped school and had a baby’, ‘fun ways to burn fat fast’. I haven’t read a tween/teen mag in a long time, are they still like this?
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Being a professional model myself for the past 6 years it’s safe for me to say that modelling IS about looks. The tiniest flaw, that extra pound or that loose tooth – it’s your sign to the exit door. I’ve seen girls and women be rejected by my manager and it’s heart breaking to watch. But modelling is an industry for women and men, not girls and boys, but adults.. The Dolly and Girlfriend model search – among many others, should not exist. Whether they are trying to make a positive message or not, girls AND boys will still feel insecure of themselves.
Ps. Before trying to argue, you better name your agency.
Represented by IMM models
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I am an aspiring model, I’m 15 years old and I have been in the Girlfriend modelling comp before, and I can say my experience had a positive outcome and I respect my body image so much more for entering, yeah I got rejected, that doesn’t mean I wasn’t pretty enough, you seem to think that modelling agencies base it all on looks, when the magazines dolly and girlfriend have stated every year beauty is only skin deep.
It is ones choice to enter a modelling competition knowing the possible outcomes as a young teenager, and you have no right to judge those who do, they go with the hope of becoming a model and some achieve that desire so good on them, that’s their dream and that’s what they want to do so the what is your problem? You say that modelling companies are what cause the insecurites of young teenagers.But you are judging young teens who want to be models because they want to be models.
I agree some modelling companies do cause girls to feel insecure and feel like they can’t eat but Dolly and Girlfriend are self respect teenage girl magazines and they are not to blame, not all agencies are like your making them out to be and this is coming from a 15 year old girl who feels so much better about herself for entering these competitions.
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Dear all: I feel this is highly relevant here given the topic. Eating disorders are inexorably linked to the fashion industry, what our society portrays as beautiful and media in general and the age group these girls fall into is a high-risk category for Eating Disorders.
Ladies please participate in my study on eating behaviours & disordered eating. You must be 18 years and over. Research is for a great cause!
http://opinio.online.swin.edu.au/s?s=12733
If you think you know anyone else who may be interested please pass the above link on. The survey is brief and all done online and you may just find it a bit interesting! Many thanks
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Although I am completly against the whole ‘Dolly/Girlfriend Modelling Contests’ I just want to say, to each their own! If it’s her personal choice and her parents are OK with it, who are we to judge her? Also, it makes complete sense for a thirteen year old to win the competition, because, hello, it represents the age of most girls who read those magazines. Anyway, I think the entire modelling business is pointless. People ought to realise clothes that look AMAZING on models, aren’t going to look that way on us. And on models being too old at sixteen now (WTF?!) -what has this society come down to . . .
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Thanks Mia, for pointing out something important … the role parents have in the choices a teenager makes.
This is not about loving or hating professional models. Personally I love Victoria’s Secret because when I have that fantastic stuff on, I feel fabulous. And confident. Victorias Secret showcases fabulous and confident women … who sell that story to those of us who want to lap it up.
Miranda got there because at 13 when she asked Mum if she could go in a modelling contest, she said ‘yes’. I happened to be 12 at the time and asked Mum the same thing. Miranda’s Mum said ‘yes’, mine said ‘haven’t you got some homework to do?’. Not withstanding a large amount of hard work in between from one or both of us, she is now an international superstar model with a gorgeous husband, and I’m a banker who also lives in another country, sans Orlando Bloom. For both of us, it is my hope that we are exactly where we want to be.
At 13 you don’t know what you want. At 13 I wanted desperately to be Miranda. But I also desperately wanted to be Elizabeth Bennett. For better or for worse both our parents actions, in shaping our choices, in often making them for us, are what we had to go on when we were trying to work out life. It’s not the magazine or modelling industry’s job to help girls through that … it’s you Mum.
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If anyone’s interested, watch some vid’s on youtube called “Inside a Modeling Agency” and “A Not so Glamorous Model Life.” Gives an interesting window into the industry.
As for this beauty ideal – it took me a long time to realise it but beauty really isn’t everything. Beauy doesn’t strop tragedy. It didn’t save Audrey Hepburn from cancer or Grace Kelly from a car crash, so why do we spend so much time trying to achieve it?
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I’m just sick of fragile, looking 19 year-olds trying to sell me stuff. But then again I’m sick of stupid TV commercials trying to sell me funeral/life insurance.
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We “know” that Anorexia is caused by females looking at unattainable images in magazines. So, are you responsible for killing girls?
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Why does the market have an insatiable appetite for such young models? I know we’re all youth obsessed, but surely a grown women doesn’t aspire to prepubescence. Why doesn’t an 18 year old + model suffice? Who drives the market for children to model very grown-up clothes in very grown-up environments? I really don’t understand why “international brands” consider 16 to be too old (although I imagine the answer is a pretty grim).
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Why do you spend SO MUCH time bagging magazines?
You would not where you are today if it was not for your career in magazines.
You always act so High & Mighty, like mags were only “good” when you were involved, or you were the only one trying to make a difference. You would have hired many a model in your day, or approved the use of many models in their early teens, so what gives you the right to turn around and say it’s “bad”? Fashion and Magazines have a place in society, and maybe 13 is too young to be modelling, but ultimately it is the choice of the parents – not your choice.
I’ve all but given up on your site Mia, as I love reading magazines, and have had enough of your bad attitude towards them. I think you are ungrateful for what you’ve been given in life, and that is a truly sad thing. Either that, or you don’t even believe half the things you write – you just voice these “opinions” because you think it’s what the public wants to hear, and you think it will make you seem like a better person. Either way, you’ve lost me as a reader and a fan, as well as many others for this very reason.
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There is a book by Maggie Hamilton “what is happening to our girls” that parents should read. The fact is advertising and marketing to women is sexualised. The same for advertising towards men. The difference is a man can get old even fat but there is an unrealistic image of what a women or girl should be. Women cant age gracefully and there is a desperation for women to stay young (understandably). And the amount of middle age men who leave their wives for younger women is unbelievable. For these editors justifying these sorts of comp’s when they damn well know like us all, that once a girl is presented as an object to look at, no one is interested in anything else about them. The fact is we are all different shapes and size and u can’t change that.. But anyone concerned about body image is trying to look like the body that most will never have or have at a great cost! Remember the Victorian era and what was considered healthy and attractive? Talk about opposites
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The modelling of children is entirely driven by parents. No child can enter a competition like this without the express consent and support of the responsible adult/s in their life. All these parents need to read the “8 Things You Should Know”.
Brava Mia for axing this competition. What a retrograde step to bring it back. Revenue has driven this decision necessitated by lazy editing, what a shame Dolly couldn’t come up with something new, empowering and exciting to drive sales.
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Utterly stunned. Had you not provided the ages of the girls, I would never have guessed half of them to be under 18, much less under 15.
Aside from the young girls whose innocence has been stripped away (pardon the pun) and those who see, compare and strive towards these images; how many adults glance at them and see a mature woman posing seductively without realising they are being seduced by one so young? What about the men being subconsciously exposed to soft-core paedophilia? Is it any wonder the world is full of sexual predators when examples like this are being pushed on them daily?
I don’t wonder where society is heading, I just saw it exposed between the legs of a 14yo girl (prompted by an adult who knows better) for the sake of “fashion”.
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All Dolly and Girlfriend every did for me was make me unsure of who I was, who I should be, and how to act around boys. After reading it I would feel all insecure about if I was doing things “right” due to articles like “What he really wants in a girl” etc etc when I’d felt fine beforehand. No one should be getting up on their high horse about how great these magazines are except for this ONE model search that was banned…because everything else about these magazines are horrible too.
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When I was 13 I was a girl guide. My time was spent camping and crafting and hanging out with some great people. No doubt some would consider it uncool but I learnt great things and made great friends. Sure, I read teen mags (valuable for learning about puberty and periods) but I also saw photos of women my ages I could never relate to…
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If you are saying girls who are 13 should not be models yes, I agree, But if you are writing off being a model full stop (which is what i take from the list you’ve written ’8 things you should know..) then who is going to model those Sass and Bide outfits you love Mia?
I loved Paula Joye’s recent LifeStyle shoot modelling the latest from S&B but the reality is, the fashion world needs models. They are simply one part of a huge industry. It’s up to all participants to ensure that the Industry operates within acceptable norms. As to what those are – I am clueless, as the closest I have come to a fashion model is seeing Elle M at the races about 15 years ago! I have a duaghter and yes, my dreams for her do not include being on the cover of Vogue however, if that ends up being her dream then I will support her and provide support, guidance to help her navigate the unknown – but I will be hopeful that the way my husband and I have raised her will help her as well. Yes, I am sure some models have experienced a really rotten time – but I am sure you can say the same for aspiring actresses, singers etc. It doesn’t mean that if that’s your dream, if that’s an industry you are passionate about, then you shouldn’t pursue it.
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I think the fact that I never saw my parents naked had a far greater inpact on my negative self-image, but certainly magazines played a part.
The only time I ever saw a scantily clad body was in a magazine. I think that had I seen (and been encouraged to notice) that beautiful bodies come in all shapes and sizes, I wouldn’t have spent my teens and early twenties thinking my Size 10 body was ugly and unworthy.
My kids now see my Size 16 body naked from time to time. We’re not nudists, naturists or anything like that, we just don’t scream and make an issue of it when the kids happen to burst into the bathroom for some reason or other. I also tell my kids that beautiful bodies come in all shapes and sizes, not just the ones in magazines and catalogues.
The sexualisation of our daughters (and sons) is another issue entirely that I could go on about…
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I dont agree with this article at all and I’ll tell you why, Dolly and Girlfriend magazine have highly respected and looked at all the positive aspects of why we are perfect just the way we are. They’re constantly saying be who you are don’t try to be like somebody else. Would they bother saying this if they didn’t know what it’s like to be a teenager? Half the girls/women working at the magazine companies would agree that when they were teenagers they had the exact same problems as girls these days always having some sort of insecurities, entering the modelling competitions helped my self esteem grow, because the judges were friendly and they dont just choose girls based on their looks I know that for a fact. I was rejected sure but the experience was really great and I learnt alot out of it. I now can respect my body image and accept that this is the way I look and I’m not changing so I may as well realize that I am beautiful and I am important. Besides why would girls enter the competitions if they didn’t want a modelling contract? I am an aspiring model and whats wrong with that? It almost sounds as if your judging girls who want to be models so what makes you any different?
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Gee without role models for 10 years everyone got fat… what a surprise. I think the Dolly cover girl was a great concept and now we have stupid magazines and TV beating us up for berating people that are unhealthy (oops sorry big boned). We are killing people with kindness and quite frankly its irresponsible.
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What utter horsesh*t.
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Couldn’t have said it any better.
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Amen Lulu.
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Alana! You’re a genius! It was axing the Dolly Model Contest that caused obesity! What a relief you joined those dots.
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With all due respect Mia, Mamamia is constantly reminding us of the “dinner party rules”. I don’t have any idea who Alana is, but I don’t think you would (or should) make that comment to her face.
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The only thing more disturbing than some of those sexualised images is that horrible TV show, ‘Toddlers & Tiaras’.
We develop a large proportion of our identity and persona before we are 5 years old. These little people are taught that your self-worth is linked to how good you look and that winning is the most important thing. I really feel for those girls who will grow up thinking that being the prettiest is more highly rated than intelligence, creativity, etc.
P.S. At 13, I was very scrawny, little kid. I did buy those mags, but did so knowing that ‘beauty is in the eye of the beholder’. Not everyone will be mesmerised by a model’s beauty (or my own, LOL).
P.S.S. Yes, some 13 y.o. girls look like women at that age, but mentally and emotionally they are still children. The sexual images are disturbing to say the least.
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amabassador vs model? Does it really make that much of a difference? I used to love looking at pics of dolly model competition when I was 13 growing up. I wasn’t the best looking girl but they didn’t make me feel bad about myself. I think if girls are that influenced by the competition, then it is a sign that they are being raised with poor self esteem etc. that’s not a magazine issue. Come on, when are ppl going to take responsibility?!
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It’s fair to say I wasn’t lookin my best in my teenage years. And these model comps certainly didn’t help my self esteem. I remember going to a concert with a lot of other teenage girls and reps from Dolly or Girlfriend or one of those mags were at the gate handing out entry forms for their latest model comp…they were choosing which girls to hand them too…needless to say they avoided eye contact with me as I came through but my prettier friend got given one. Certainly confirmed what I thought about myself!
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There’s no doubt that the winner of this years’ competition is a beautiful-looking child but that’s what she is – a child.
Let’s hope that she gets to enjoy being 13 yrs old as it won’t come again.
In some cultures girls of 13yrs are considered old enough for marriage – to be gloated over by middle-aged men and assessed for child-bearing and “home duties” before their young lives have really begun. Most of us think that’s horrible and yet, when young girls are offered up as advertising fodder in our magazines we’re supposed to think – “How lucky”.
I don’t have an issue with kids earning a fair wage for their talents as long as the workplace is carefully monitored and their free time isn’t consumed by the drive to push so hard that they burn out as soon as their looks “fade” by the time they’re 18.
A lost childhood will always be mourned and the price paid by so many is way too high. Apart from travel, I don’t see how modelling can contribute much towards education and personal growth.
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It’s sad that in 2012 we still live in a world that places more value on how a woman looks then how intelligent, creative or funny she is.
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There are lots of ways academic achievements are celebrated. As are doing positive things for the community etc. What about merit awards at school (when I was there anyway ..) they were given out weekly for things like having good manners, helping others or working hard etc.
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This competition isn’t just about looks. watch the interview with her on the today show. It’s about being an ambassador for Dolly. Which involves public speaking skills and maintaining a public image/being a rolemodel
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Look out the finalists and the winner. If it were about much more then looks, why isn’t any of the finalists over a size 12 (I don’t think any of them are over a size 8 if that) Each finalist is extremely attractive and fits the general model mould.
Just don’t forget Miss Universe, which IS a beauty pageant mostly, alsocondiers itself an ambassador.
I would be far more behind these competitions if they were judged more about charity work or something along those lines.
In regard to the winner being a role model, what exactly has she done to be consider being s role model? Except winning a competitions based mostly on her looks. Not what I’d be looking for in a role model.
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As a teenager, I hated the modeling competitions in Dolly and Girlfriend ( I was about 13 when Miranda Kerr won) I was always a very skinny child, but once puberty hit, I ballooned for about 3 years. My boobs shot out to 16DD by the time I was 15. I wasn’t “fat” exactly, it had nothing to do with food intake or lack of exercise (I danced competitively and competed in equestrian events and played tennis at least once a week) it was my hormones. I was teased at school (I’m a natural red head with freckles too!!) it was an awful time. People made fun of my boobs, my weight, everything they could think of. It wasn’t until I was about 16-17 that I lost all the weight – it more or less just left!
Obviously we can’t get rid of modeling all together but it shouldn’t be allowed in magazines that cater to such a young age group. What’s next? Disney magazine is going to hold a modeling competitions for the under 5′s?
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I don’t get why Dolly and Girlfriend do modeling competitions. The editors know it’s a load of confidence crushing shit, and when they say they use “real girls”, the only “real girls” they can come up with are 8 foot tall and are stick thin, which in my opinion, is NOT representative of the entire reader demographic of Dolly and GF.
Why don’t Dolly and GF do a writing competition, like cosmo did last year, where the winner gets some kind of a contract or internship working with the magazine? Far more educational, and far better for the reader and the competitors metal health.
It wasn’t that long ago I was reading Dolly, and I couldn’t have given a shit about Mirranda Kerr, however I was insanely jealous of Alyssa Sheldrake, a girl in my grade, who got work experience there.
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I think Girlfriend does do a writing comp, doesn’t it? At least, I remember they did one last year when I was working for the company who sponsored it. I’d like to see more, though – there was some amazing writing that came out of it.
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It’s such a good idea, and should be far bigger than any vapid model competition!
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My 17 year old daughter wrote beautiful intelligent answers on her Dolly entry form but they didn’t even look at it. They picked the tall girl with huge tits out of her group
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My sister has had an ED for the last 3 years. She will tell you that her major triggers are images of fashion models. My sister is 18, she is fixated on the body of an undeveloped 13 year old girl. This is a very personal issue for me and my family and no matter how many editors, photographers and designers try and justify their use of young models, my family is proof that it is destroying the confidence and self esteem of young girls.
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You know with these competitions the first people I always think about are the ones that lose. What has losing done to their self esteem? I don’t have the answers or even know anyone who has been in one of these competitions, but I can imagine how I would have felt then, and even now, and the thought isn’t pleasant.
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My son did some modeling when he was younger and it wasn’t a pleasant experience at all! Going to castings wasn’t fun at all, parents sizing up your child.. One time we were waiting at a casting and my son started talking to the boy next to him, the mother of the boy literally pulled her son in close to her and said “do not speak to him, he is your competition.”
Not a nice environment at all!
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Fantastic fantastic article!
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AS the daughter of a model can I say the issues you listed are inter-generational. Or at least that women who adhere to that stuff above do nothing for their daughters.
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As a mother of a teenage girl, those photos irk me. Far too sexual; far too young, and I’m not a prude by far, I just think these photos are taken either to be sexual turn ons or to cause a stir because they shock! Pedophiles don’t need to take their own pics, they can just go to the media. I wouldn’t let my daughter into that industry. Ever…
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I applied for a great job that I was qualified for and received an email stating that I was unsuccessful the next day. No interview- just based on my application. This was my first experience ever of being rejected from anything and I was a bit upset afterwards.
I couldn’t imagine how a teenager could emotionally or mentally cope with the constant rejection. Definitely not an ideal environment at such a critical period of their lives.
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I vividly recall the modeling contests in the 1980′s and luckily my self esteem was healthy enough not to compare myself to the impossibly tall gorgeous teens who entered (being short and cute at the time myself). I do however remember one particular finalist whose photo showed a tanned, blonde, slim beach girl from I think Perth. At the competition she had changed her style to short black bob, short fringe and mod clothes, vastly different to her photo or all the other contestants. I thought it was hilarious and a brilliant statement about the idea of beauty. Not sure if that was her intent but that is how I read it. I always wondered what the judges reactions were to her very different change of style.
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They use little girls to sell womens clothes by dressing the little girls as women. Its weird. Women over 18 (or 16….) are apparently too gross to photograph. I show my disgust at this practice by not buying the magazines and not buying the clothes. If everyone did this they would have nothing to market and no-one to market it to.
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It’s completely F’cked up !!! They are saying a thirteen to sixteen year old girl is the idea, and that basically anyone older doesn’t exist in the world of fashion. This ideal is driven by predominately gay male fashion designers who are not interested in women with hips and breasts. One of the most successful high fashion models is a man ????? Its not just teenage girls dealing with image and self confidence issues, try being over forty and basically invisable.
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I’m not sure about all this Mia – it’s irking me. Like you, I was absolutely obsessed with fashion mags and magazines in general. I did actually end up in an interview at ACP – Dolly in the Graphic Arts Dept – trouble was I was more a Fine Arts person (had just done my Bach of Fine Arts) I was just desperate to work there! My point though is that why were we so caught up in the magic? Was it the short, round models? The plus size fashion features? I don’t think it was, cos they weren’t there back then! I wonder if we are now the dream police and making our own children read pc boringness?
I have a 13 year old too and she wants to model. She looks the business – all legs, long blonde hair, beaming, gorgeous, funloving face – although seems much younger and much more naive than this very mature sounding winner. We almost signed with an Agency and I happened to read an earlier piece of yours warning against modelling. I am marking time now unsure what to do.
But Mia, wasn’t it girls like Alison Brahe et al who added to our magazine mania? Isn’t that partly why you ended up doing Work Experience there at Dolly?
And to the question re girls still reading magazines – they definitely do still love them!
I ended up in Publishing funnily enough – but I am in Educational Publishing – textbooks and online learning technologies. I’m still subscribing to and buying mags though!
(If you want to post on this site and not go crazy – type up your post in word and copy and paste it in between the scrolling…..)
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There are so many more interesting ways for a 13 year old girl to spend her time than modelling.
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Kate, how do you always manage to say what I am trying to say but in a so much more erudite, concise way??
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teach her to contribute to society and be a well rounded individual, rather than pursuing a career pouting in front of a camera.
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If my kid wanted to be part of the mad, fun hurly burly that is magazines, tv and advertising (and it is fun – I spent years in advertising) I’d say, ‘Be the person that takes the pictures, designs the pages, or writes the words,’ because then you have some power, some control and some value beyond the way you look.
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Yes. That. I used to want to be a model. I learned that it was indeed far more fun to be the person who made and chose the cover not posed for it.
More longevity too.
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So true Kate, and it’s great that winner Kirsty has many interests and talents outside of modelling Including ballet and the piano, rowing, basketball and acting out Shakespeare with the Queensland Theatre Company. According to every article I’ve read on this competitive prerequisite for the winner. I wonder if this was an issue for the producers of Australia’s Next Top Model?
http://www.heraldsun.com.au/news/breaking-news/not-just-a-pretty-face-for-model-search/story-e6frf7kf-1226421557832
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You can see the difference in headlines from the Kate Fischer cover (my vintage) to the Miranda Kerr one. As a mum of 2 girls I disgusted with how these mags are contributing to the fast-tracked sexualisation of girls. And I mean girls. 11, 12, 13, 14. “Dirty facts for Leo Lovers” “Fun Ways to Burn Fat Fast” – that’s as bad as having 13yo girls on the cover.
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Dolly and Girlfriend have actually become much, much more PG rated over the last decade. When I first started reading them, they had articles on sex positions, lingerie ads etc. The last time I flipped through one it was actually quite depressing. All the articles of sex were framed negatively. There were tons of ‘real life stories’ about girls who had sex with a guy who then dumped them and horror stories about being in agony the first time, and the advice columns were much less helpful than they used to be because the main focus seemed to be on telling girls they don’t have to have sex. Obviously that’s a good message, but responding to a question from a girl who says she loves sex with her boyfriend but is confused about which contraception is best for her with a sermon about respecting yourself and your right to say no is just unhelpful.
Like it or not a lot of teenage girls are having sex, and a lot actually enjoy it. Back in the day those magazines gave me helpful information about STD’s, contraception, what goes where and so on, but they also let me know that sex could could be fun and that it was ok to want it and enjoy it.
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Mia, I remember in your book or another piece of your writing that you said you wanted to be a model. I think you said you were too short. How did your own parents deal with the fact you wanted to be a model?
As a teenager I was not allowed to buy magazines. Even now 20 years later I still don’t buy them as they are a waste of money with little interesting content.
I do remember girls at high school talking about this contest though.
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Hey Marg,
Yep, I wrote about that once. I was mad keen to be a model because of what I saw in mags. My parents would never have let me if it would’ve interfered with school but they never had to make that call because I was hopeless!
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Or what about ‘Girl of the Year’ being based on charity work or something amazing that that girl has done? There are inspirational young women EVERYWHERE. I’m at university, so I see them all the time. There are such brilliant, beautiful girls all around me.
I remember being a Dolly Girl, and in 2004 when I was 12 a girl from my high school won the girlfriend model competition. She has been relatively successful, but apparently has also battled with bulimia and didn’t graduate. I was tiny, blonde and pudgy at the time and looking at the lithe gazelle like model winner at school, there was just no way I could ever even hope to compare to someone like that. So I didn’t try. I mean, really, so what? And these years later when I was in year 12 I was still small, blonde and thankfully much less pudgy when I graduated with an incredibly high ENTER score. I think my achievement was just as good and it was certainly based on more than how I looked!
I have a younger sister, she is seven, I think she’s going to be beautiful. Tall, blonde, gorgeous, tanned- very unlike pale little me. I try so hard to impress upon her the right values when I see her. I don’t know whether I’m winning the battle or not. I definitely don’t need barbie doll thirteen year olds added into the mix.
Looks are fleeting and ultimately they mean nothing, they say nothing about the kind of person you are, they add nothing to the kind of person you are. There is so, so much more that goes into making someone truly beautiful.
J.K Rowling once said ‘Let my girls be Hermiones!’ oh I so completely agree.
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I am constantly told I should sign my stunning daughter to a modelling agency but I refuse for all the reasons Mia has mentioned. People stop her in the street and tell her she is beautiful and gorgeous and stunning and to be honest, it freaks me out. She smiles and takes it all in and I am scared she will feed off this. We tell her how smart she is, what a wonderful drawer she is, how clever she is to be able to play a board game and read and write well. We focus on non beauty compliments. Did I mention she is only 6 years old?
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Holy crap, MM, that would just plain creep me out!
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Good on you! I also have a pretty daughter but she’s only 2 and people say things like “you’re going to be a model when you grow up”. She’s TWO!! I feel physically ill at the thought of her one day understanding what these people are saying. She’s so un-damaged and innocent and she bloody does not need to grow up so fast! Let her be a kid without stupid hang ups!
There is a great video on YouTube called Pretty and it’s by Katie Makkai. It’s a poem and every mother of a daughter, every aunty, every stepmom, every grandmother and every big sister should watch it and listen. Really.
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Hi MM
I too am constantly stopped by complete strangers paying way too much attention to my daughter and commenting on everything from her hair to her skin to her lips.
She’s gorgeous – I know that – she is also not yet four years old…
Seriously… The comments are not just ‘hey what a cute toddler’ they are much more focussed that that on her looks and I find it odd why anyone would suggest she should be ‘modelling now, imagine how much money she’d make’…
Guess what – I’m her mother and it’s my job to make the money. It’s her job to watch Playschool and be beside herself with excitement at the Dora concert (even there we got unwanted comments)!!!
Weird and creepy in the extreme.
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terrifying!
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GO MIA !!!!!
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Every time you post that gallery, those Hailey Clauson images seriously skeeve me out. Incredibly suggestive and sexualised, and incredibly inappropriate.
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Well done Mia. A great piece. I had to stop the slideshow as I was feeling like a pervert – the photos of those children are vulgar and inappropriate. Over my dead body will my daughters be in this industry.
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Thanks for this post. I totally agree with what you’re saying about this issue and if I could find an emoticon with a pumping fist I would.
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I admire your bravery for taking a stance on this issue, Mia.
I think it would be much better to have an ‘Ambassador contest’ as opposed to a covergirl contest, and why do they always show the young models looking serious and unhappy, they should show them smiling and laughing and happy!
I find this issue interesting, so much so that I wrote a novel with a character who was a young model and showed how this affected her self belief, career, and relationships later in life.
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Just read the headlines on the Dolly edition with Miranda Kerr….’I topped school and then had a baby’ ‘My boyfriend needs a makeover’ ‘can you be a cheat’ . Yeah, suitable reading for the target audience. As for some of the photos, paediphile heaven…one of them looks about 8 years old in drag and stilettos. Her feet can barely hold them up!
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I agree! and what about ‘Win an ultimate night with Brad’!
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Yes, and I think the other main one was about burning fat fast….
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I have to say, I started modeling when I was 13, working throughout high school and university. I had an overwhelmingly positive experience.
I didn’t do lots of work – unless it was a really big casting or job, all work was outside school hours and on holidays. And taking the odd day off school wasn’t a problem, as I was a top student.
My mother or father accompanied me to every casting and job until I was 18. This was the policy of my agency – one of Australia’s top few – at the time, not sure about now. I was in Melbourne and Australian fashion weeks, aged 14 and up (this is not even allowed now, girls have to be older I believe) and had such a brilliant time – I loved performing, being on the catwalk, and my mother vetoed any inappropriate outfits (only happened a couple of times, e.g. a completely see-through top, and the designer was fine about it).
Once the other models and photographer started talking about smoking pot, on a shoot (as in, the past weekend), and my dad, who was there with me, quickly shut the talk down (the others were suitably apologetic) and we chatted about it on the way home.
I saved over $50,000 through my high school modeling career (my parents made me bank all the money) and it enabled me to buy my first home. The money I made at uni, I didn’t save, rather it was my part-time job, allowing me plenty of time to study.
Yes, I experienced rejection at countless castings, but I actually found clients and photographers to be VERY gentle when handling young models, finding lots of positive things to say. Peter Alexander, for example, explained to me in person at a casting that he couldn’t cast me because he needed ‘girls with more curves’ because thin shapes get lost under PJs LOL but he let me play with his lovely dog, and I really enjoyed that casting!
My parents continued to focus on education, promoting university, highlighting the qualities that are important in young women such as curiosity, intelligence, kindness etc., and I emerged from my modeling career with a 99.2 TER, a university degree, a great (non-modeling related) career, wonderful experience and travel, and a house deposit saved. And my self-esteem firmly intact
I do not judge myself primarily on my looks, nor did I as a young teenage model.
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Its wonderful to hear such a positive experience yet sadly it’s not the norm! Well all is said and done super model looks and even average model looks are what 4 or 5% of th population?
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Actually, from the dozen or so girls I’m still in contact with, who I started modeling with, most are completely balanced, normal and happy women now. Two of them went on to have relatively successful longer term careers, but all have since gone on to have normal lives and careers. A couple are a little dysfunctional, a couple went through phases as teens using drugs, but this is also true of my friends from my (‘nice’, private) school.
Not suggesting it’s a viable or even advisable path for most girls, but for those who fit the criteria, are keen, and have sensible parents, there is no reason to trash talk it!
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Wow your parents did an amazing job
Nice to hear of a positive experience
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