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Screen shot 2012 08 01 at 11.57.47 AM Guess what these 6 y/o girls want to be when they grow up

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Researchers from the US conducted a study where they gave two paper dolls to a group of 6 to 9 year old girls – one of the dolls was dressed in tight and revealing “sexy” clothes and the other was dressed in a trendy but loose-fit and more covered-up outfit.

They asked the kids to look at the dolls and point out which one (a) looked like herself (b) looked how she wanted to look (c) was the popular girl in school and (d) she wanted to play with.

The results were kind pretty confronting. This from Live Science:

Across-the-board, girls chose the “sexy” doll most often. The results were significant in two categories: 68 percent of the girls said the doll looked how she wanted to look and 72 percent said she was more popular than the non-sexy doll.

“It’s very possible that girls wanted to look like the sexy doll because they believe sexiness leads to popularity, which comes with many social advantages,” explained lead researcher Christy Starr, who was particularly surprised at how many 6- to 7-year-old girls chose the sexualized doll as their ideal self.

Other studies have found that sexiness boosts popularity among girls but not boys. “Although the desire to be popular is not uniquely female, the pressure to be sexy in order to be popular is.”

So the girls want to be popular. And they associate popularity with being sexy. At age 6. These girls should be wanting to wear things that are pretty or sparkly or cool but not sexy. How have we possibly gotten to a point where the pressure of overt sexuality are affecting our 6-year-olds?

It’s a bizarre world when children are led to believe that the fewer clothes you wear, the more people will like you. But can you blame kids for thinking that’s true? After all, so much of popular culture is marketed with the idea that SEX SELLS.  Can we really be horrified that the same message is filtering its way through to kids?

But the researchers behind the study found it wasn’t just Katy Perry, Miley Cyrus and magazine adverts featuring 10-year-old girls that were leading kids to think sexy = cool.

Media consumption alone didn’t influence girls to prefer the sexy doll. But girls who watched a lot of TV and movies and who had mothers who reported self-objectifying tendencies, such as worrying about their clothes and appearance many times a day, in the study were more likely to say the sexy doll was popular.

Screen shot 2012 08 01 at 11.59.22 AM Guess what these 6 y/o girls want to be when they grow up

‘Sexy’ Bratz dolls

The authors suggest that the media or moms who sexualize women may predispose girls toward objectifying themselves; then, the other factor (mom or media) reinforces the messages, amplifying the effect. On the other hand, mothers who reported often using TV and movies as teaching moments about bad behaviors and unrealistic scenarios were much less likely to have daughters who said they looked like the sexy doll.

The power of maternal instruction during media viewing may explain why every additional hour of TV- or movie-watching actually decreased the odds by 7 percent that a girl would choose the sexy doll as popular, Starr said. “As maternal TV instruction served as a protective factor for sexualization, it’s possible that higher media usage simply allowed for more instruction.

However, girls who didn’t consume a lot of media but who had religious mothers were much more likely to say they wanted to look like the sexy doll.

You can read more about the study at our sister site, iVillage.com.au

When you were a child when did you first become conscious of what ‘looking sexy’ was? Do you think girls feel this kind of pressure from a younger age than in the past?

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54 Comments so far

  1. Caz Gibson

    A few days ago I added a post to this thread but it’s not appeared.
    I’m not being “precious” about what I wrote – just curious in case it’s something I did……..lol.

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  2. NB

    I am outraged over this kids getting sexy too soon business. A while ago, I was similarly outraged over the sexy t-shirts kids wear. The whole thing is just outrageous.

    http://www.daddyslittlemiracle.com/2012/03/again-with-inappropriate-t-shirts-for.html

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  3. peppy

    While I do agree that the world is becoming more and more oversexualised… I’d also argue that these sorts of tests could be taken too seriously.

    I remember thinking that sexiness was something to aspire to – again for popularity reasons. I also remember thinking that kissing was disgusting and boys were clearly carrying cooties. I played with Barbies in tiny skirts and boob tubes, and you know what… I wear normal clothes, am well-adjusted, and as an individual in my early twenties I am often amongst friends who would think “You look freezing! Put some clothes on!” when seeing a girl dressed in skimpy, short clothing when it is winter in Melbourne.

    Little girls do replicate what they hear/see/experience through ads and television… but it’s not like it’s something that has only emerged in recent years!

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  4. Kateateight

    Clothes don’t have to be sexy just because they are small – maybe they just look better? Maybe they look like super heroes?

    I don’t think we should be judging people (kids or not) by what they wear! If they want to wear small tight clothes – who cares? If they are just walking down the street – who cares?!

    If they are leching all over people, flirting outrageously or doing other ‘actions’ apart from just wearing clothes, then that is when I think we should be concerned.

    I don’t understand why we care so much about what people wear. Clothes do not equal intentions or actions.

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    • JennaFelicity

      “Clothes do not equal intentions or actions.”

      Yes, but they’re a reflection of your values and attitudes, which inherently influence your intentions and actions.

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  5. Annie LC

    My 6 yo step daughter could have been the subject of this study all by herself! She has 3 teenage sisters and a dating, very appearance-driven mother. For quite a while now she has been obsessed with being considered “hot”. She gravitates towards clothes that are totally inappropriate – the more spangles and the less fabric the better!! She is fascinated by sex. On one level I think she is just one of nature’s sensualists – she is an immensely caring and affectionate little thing. But on the other hand it is all linked to her perception of being popular, and especially that it is very important to be popular with boys. From what I see of her classmates, this is quite widespread. Even the little butter-wouldn’t-melt girls are like something out of Mean Girls! I do remember being fascinated by sexy stars in old movies when I was very young – the first time I saw Marilyn Monroe was a revelation!! But I think the difference now is that it’s not just sexy, it’s slutty. You’ve only got to look at a lot of the clothes stocked for girls in the 7-12 range. & is still a baby and yet most of it is red and black and slashed and down right trashy!!

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    • Nicola

      Yes I agree…I actually bought a fancy dress costume from the kids’ section at kmart. I was dressing up as Kim, from Kath and Kim, so wanted to look as trashy as possible! More than a little concerning…

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  6. Annelies

    Wow! My beautiful 8 year old will not wear skirts or dresses and goes to Auskick and Karate, am torn between wanting her to be more “girlie” and thanking my lucky stars that she is who she is.

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  7. Losturtle

    I tried to be sexy in early primary school, once I wore no knickers to school & told my friend & she dobbed. Another time my dad caught me doing the fake make out thing by myself. Then by grade 3 I kinda just forgot about it. Even when I was in my teens when I was sexually active, I still forgot about it. I have always been pretty & popular, I feel sexy though is more of an act than a look.

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  8. Meeee

    I showed my 4yo earlier and she picked the 2nd doll. I asked her why and she said the other one looked too cold – we are having our coldest nights in 4 years here in Brissy – so I guess she is going for comfort, and and she makes a great point, i feel cold looking at that first doll tonight lol
    I might ask her again on a hot day in summer and see what she says…..

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    • beansbeansthemagicalfruit

      haha that’s gold! Very wise daughter you have :)

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  9. psych student

    Dear all: Ladies please participate in my study on eating behaviours & disordered eating. You must be 18 years and over. I feel this is relevant here as part of “sexy” is invariably “skinny” and younger and younger girls these days are developing eating disorders.
    http://opinio.online.swin.edu.au/s?s=12733

    If you think you know anyone else who may be interested please pass the above link on. The survey is brief and all done online and you may just find it a bit interesting! Many thanks

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  10. Anon

    As a former teacher & mum, I understand the importance of young girls having good self esteem & positive body image. However, I’m not sure this study proves anything about them wanting to be ‘sexy’. Maybe the sexy doll was chosen by these girls as she looks older & who didn’t want to look more grown up when they were little? Also, I agree with others in that given more choice, the results would have been very different. I think the most important thing to take away from this study is how vital it is that parents discuss what they are viewing with their children as they watch TV & movies.

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    • Collett Smart

      Hi anon
      The girls were given choice. I have read the entire study. Here is an excerpt on the dolls:
      “Eight dolls total were created (4 pairs of sexualized/non- sexualized) using an online “doll maker” (Dollz Mania 2008) targeted towards young girls (see Appendix). To avoid introducing confounds, each pair of dolls was created with identical skin tone (light brown), facial features, eye color, hairstyle, and body posture, and differed only in their attire. One doll was dressed in revealing, sexualized or “sexy” clothing that was skin-tight and revealing (e.g., a low cut shirt with midriff showing, and short jean shorts), whereas the other was dressed in stylish but non-sexualized clothing (e.g., a “v” neck sweater, belt, and cargo pants). A different pair of dolls was used for each of the four questions and the left/right presentation order of the sexy/non-sexy
      dolls was alternated on each successive question to avoid response sets.”

      So, confusion around age or even based on one style of clothing is not a factor here.

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  11. tanstars

    Mmm I dunno. I will show my daughter tomorrow but I bet she chooses the one on the left purely because she hates wearing jeans. If the girl on the right was wearing a dress, skirt, leggings then we might have chance. Not sure it means she wants to be sexy, just will be more likely to relate to what she does already wear as previous posters mentioned.

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  12. Lucinda

    Most girls would have only picked doll 1 because she is in a dress. Little kids do not really think about sexy or not sexy, or care about the length of a dress or skirt or how skimpy something is. They just care about pretty, pink, and/or sparkly – but that doesn’t mean it is sexual. They should have thrown in a third doll with a knee length peasant dress or a maxi dress or something. I’d guarantee the result would have been vastly different.

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    • Collett Smart

      Hi Lucinda
      As mentioned above, the girls were given 8 dolls to choose from. So ‘wearing a dress’ is not a factor I believe.

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  13. Anon

    Just showed my 8 yo the dolls & asked which one do you like she pointed to doll 2. When I asked why she pointed to doll 1 & said “cause she looks like a stripper & the other one looks normal”. I had to lol not sure where we go to from here!

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  14. Donna

    I remember telling my mum I wanted to be a stripper when I grew up. I was about 7 years old. Now I’m a 48 year old mother of three, who specialises in Autism Spectrum Disorders. It seems even slutty 7 year olds can turn out to be relatively normal

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    • Lucinda

      When I was 7 or 8, in the late eighties, string bikini knickers were in fashion and my sister and I thought they were “cool” and wanted to wear them because they were what strippers wore. We called them “strip knickers” haha. We also liked making pointy boob bras and pretending to be Madonna.

      I became an Early Childhood Teacher and my sister is married with 2 children and does a very sensible government administration job!

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  15. tanlee

    I find this kind of science ridiculous. You can infer all that after showing kids just 2 dolls, seriously? I teach 6-9 year olds art every day and not once in 13 years have any of the girls in this age bracket drawn a picture of something sexy. So what if they are admiring a sexy outfit forced on them by researchers in the name of science, I don’t see girls recreating this in the playground, not till the hormones hit in grade 6 anyway – and that’s biology.

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  16. beansbeansthemagicalfruit

    Here are the dolls:

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    • beansbeansthemagicalfruit

      Actually now that I’ve read that entire Live Science article, I don’t know what in the hell kind of study this was supposed to be. This student researcher seems to be flip flopping all over the place.

      I’d fork over the 35 Euros to read the full study online but I have a feeling it’ll just frustrate me too much.

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      • Delly

        I also have issues with the science. So many issues …

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    • amy25

      I just showed these to my 4 yr old. Without going into detail I asked her ‘which one do you like?’ She pointed to the ‘sexy’ one. I asked why. She replied ’cause she is pretty’. I thought I had a few years before I had to worry about this stuff but CRAP!!!

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      • meandthem

        Very relieved that my nine year old daughter chose the image on the right. 1. she preferred the look of that image. 2. she would pick that one to look like that if she had to choose.

        I kind of knew she’d pick that one. This is the kid that won’t wear dresses, skirts or ‘pretty’ things.

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      • Lucinda

        She picked it because it is the one in a dress. Little girls like pretty things and dresses. If the other one had been in a dress that was knee length and more conservative this study would have been very different. I wouldn’t worry about your daughter, this “test” means nothing at all.

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        • beansbeansthemagicalfruit

          haha great minds… :)

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          • Lala

            Would love to see this study repeated with a bigger range of dolls!

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        • Anonymous

          Totally agree! Skirts and dresses are “pretty” and they think the other outfit looks like a boy…my little 5 yr old loves ballet and gymnastics, loves Bieber, Beyonce and wants to be a waitress or Jen Hawkins when she grows up…her booty dances get a reaction from us (any attention…), and uses the terms “hot” and “sexy” when describing things…she is a totally modern kid who idolizes her afterschool care teachers and will run the world one day!!

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      • beansbeansthemagicalfruit

        amy25 do you think part of the reason your daughter liked the ‘sexy’ one could be because she’s wearing a skirt and cute shoes? The only reason I ask is because when I first saw these dolls I was thinking if I were a girlie girl 6 year old, I’d probably gravitate to the first doll too. At that age I was obsessed with wearing dresses – preferably pink, wearing my mum’s high heels around the house and stealing her makeup.

        I think this is another aspect of the study that’s flawed. Both of the dolls should have been in skirts/dresses or jeans/pants with just the style of the clothing changed.

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      • Anonymous

        Well my daughter liked the shoes on the first doll, she is 11 and is a jeans/shorts wearing kid. Hey I love shoes and handbags too )

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    • Kdub

      I can tell you now my 6yo would pick the ‘sexy’ one, not because she is sexy but because she is almost wearing a skirt and my daughter hates trousers and prefers to wear a dress or skirt (with or without leggings or stockings). She isn’t at all interested in showing off her body, it is more about her perception of what is girly. Same with my 4yo. Obviously I haven’t seen the whole study but I question their assumptions form the results in the info provided.

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  17. Scarlett Harris

    While some points of the argument are valid, children are naturally sexually curious beings. I remember all my prep friends and I wanted to be “strippers” when we grew up, we thought Salt-N-Pepa’s “Let’s Talk About Sex” was the coolest thing going, and we used to play the “sex game” regularly. Kids just want to do what they think adults do, which they emulate in make-believe. I think it starts to become a problem if these ideals are still being expressed come the onset of puberty when the body is physically ready for what typically accompanies “sexiness”, but certainly not mentally

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  18. Kate

    I’m not surprised by this. I was an 80′s child. When I was 6 I may not have been using the word sexy, but I was dirty dancing around my room to madonna, dressing my pretty barbies up in skimpy outfits (and my ugly barbies in whatever was left over) and getting my pretty barbies to make out with ken. Would I ever have displayed this in public? Hell no, I felt like what I was doing was secretive, so on some level I knew it was taboo. My point isn’t to say that this is ok, but that I don’t think its a new phenomenon (unless I was just a freak!).

    I think there are some issues (as people have noted) about how they went about this study, but the positive affect of maternal instruction re media viewing makes sense to me.

    Did anyone else think that it was odd that kids who view less media and have religious mums were ‘much more’ likely to want to be the sexy doll?

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    • Anastasia Beaverhausen

      Yep. You were a freak alright!
      It’s written all over you. Especially on your 3rd boob.

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  19. Anna

    in the era of social media, sex and “being sexy” is everywhere…. video clips choc full of near naked girls grinding…. movies….ads….profile pics on facebook (although i know kids this young are not meant to be on facebook). I am always amazed going to the shops today where pre-teens often are dressed the same as a 20yr old might dress in the latest fashions and trends.

    I dont think i started to get the concept of sexy till i was in high school, probably about 14 or so….up until then i didnt give a damn about fashion or what i looked like or how i acted and my photo albums contain loads of evidence on this,, i was always in baggy, unmatching t-shirt/ short combos and just didnt care… just as kids should be.!!
    The only thing i really stressed about once i hit high school – and probably the thing that first brought my attention to my body image and ‘sexy’ and what it might mean… was boobs. i was a late bloomer so i was flat chested long after other girls in my year were sporting well filled out school shirts and coloured bras in the changerooms before P.E, and. i was SO jealous.
    in my mind, what they wore always looked better on them than me because they had boobs and i didnt, and of course the boys would want to date them over me because they had boobs and i didnt.

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  20. a

    It would be good to learn more about this study. Did any of the girls use the word ‘sexy’ to describe the more popular doll? Or is this the (adult) researcher’s description?

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    • Dkmum

      I was thinking the exact same thing!
      I doubt that these kids necessarily associate sexy with popular, it’s more likely that they associate the way the doll was dressed with what they see in the media etc as being popular, but that sexy isn’t necessarily a term they would use to describe it.

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      • Sophie

        Totally agree. And would a 6 year old make the same judgements, looking at the dolls without the scripting of the questions?

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        • Bradley

          You know these researchers. They will twist anything to prove their own point. This is just another example.

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  21. Angelina Ballerina

    I’d like to see pictures of the dolls and clothes involved.
    Maybe the tight clothes were just more sparkly or colorful. Little girls like sparkles and colours. Who doesn’t?
    Maybe the loose clothes doll really wasn’t as trendy as she thought she was and actually looked like an old bag lady. Maybe she had bad hair.

    I’m pretty sure that when my daughter is 6 she won’t be aiming for sexy.

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  22. Tripitaka

    I wonder though, if they had included more dolls, would the results have been so clear? Perhaps if they’d included a doll wearing a tutu, another one wearing a big sparkly ballgown, another wearing hip hop dance clothes, etc. then fewer girls would have opted for the ‘sexy’ one? Would be interesting to see what the dolls they used actually looked like.

    Don’t mean to suggest that the sexualisation of girls isn’t worrying to me (because it is). But I can’t say I’m convinced from what I’ve read that this study is really one to trust.

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    • Nina Funnell

      Absolutely!!! This sort of study has no real academic rigour to it and is actually guilty of doing exactly what pop culture is often accused of doing, namely giving girls too fewer identity options to choose between.

      At best this is poorly constructed research. At worst it is guilty of perpetuating the same problem it seeks to address.

      As someone interested in researching the complexities around sexuality, pop culture and gender- this study frustrates me greatly. It’s overly simplistic and intended to bait sensationalist media.

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  23. mumof2

    this doesnt suprise me at all but would like to point out that i strongly feel that adults foster this direction of thought without even noticing it! My 11MONTHOLD daughter’s name is alexis, and it never ceases to amaze me how many people call her sexy lexi and boy does it irritate me, she is 11 months old, sexy shouldn’t be in her vocabulary let alone associated with her name

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  24. Claire

    Children modeling age appropriately is certainly an issue. I have friends in USA and miss 13 just competed in talent/modeling search – which is fine, and looks like she will do quite well out of it – except they had a swimsuit section for 13yo – REALLY ?!

    When my girls are old enough, Ill teach them about the true meaning of sexy, not how the media portray it.

    SEXY = happy, kind, smart & confident (IMO)

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  25. jb expat

    This is very worrisome. I don’t even know if I knew what “sexy” meant when I was six! Even at 13 I don’t think I knew about “sexy”…definitely had thoughts about “pretty” and wanting to be pretty but “sexy” wasn’t out there and pretty was (is) definitely different than sexy. I really do blame media more than mothers (although I see the connection) – when I was growing up, there were none of these reality tv idiots (yes, I think 99.9% of them are idiots)…music videos just stared during my teenage years and we didn’t have cable so I didn’t see many of them and I didn’t start looking at magazines like Glamor until I was at least 16…Tiger Beat and Teen Beat, but if my memory serves, these were just face photos of BOYS like Scott Baio, Shaun Cassidy and Rob Lowe.

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  26. psych student

    Dear all: Ladies please participate in my study on eating behaviours & disordered eating. You must be 18 years and over. Research is for a great cause! I feel this is relevant here as part of “sexy” is invariably “skinny” and younger and younger girls these days are developing eating disorders.
    http://opinio.online.swin.edu.au/s?s=12733

    If you think you know anyone else who may be interested please pass the above link on. The survey is brief and all done online and you may just find it a bit interesting! Many thanks

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    • Emma

      Hi, I took your survey! I’d be interested in seeing the results…Also I noted that in ‘Section D’ there is no explanation at the beginning of the question set – I assumed it was regarding the last month (given the format of the answers) but you need to say that to make the context clearer. Also there’s a repeat question in the last section (108 & 109).

      Good luck,

      Emma

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  27. Lala

    This is indeed troubling, although hardly surprising. I think the findings on the mothers’ influence is particularly telling and while this should not be used to further pressure mothers into being ‘superwomen’ who don’t express their own concerns around their children, I think it’s sobering information and I can relate to it whole-heartedly. My mum had and still has a great preoccupation with how she looks and still feels great pressure to look a particular way. This has and still does impact me hugely and has been a source of great conflict between my mother and I because of how I perceived myself growing up. “Sexy” is one thing but personally I think this just feeds into body image in general. I bet if the same group of girls was to pick between dolls of different BMI’s the ultra skinny doll would be chosen every time. Part of me wishes it could be mandatory that girls are kept away from this stuff until a certain age. Of course that won’t happen so it’s really up to parents and schools to try to balance these influences out. My friends and I joke about what kinds of issues we’ll have to deal with when we have kids..

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  28. alyssakt

    This story is perfectly timed after Zoe Smith’s awesome blog retort (to accusations she – a weightlifter – isn’t sexy enough).

    It seems we are living in a society that values sexy and beautiful over all other skills, achievements and capabilities.

    I would like to see the research extended to boys (asked about girl dolls) – I doubt they would have a differing response to who was popular…
    but maybe who they wanted to play with (at that age)…

    The sexualisation of society doesn’t only affect young girls negatively (boys too).

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