Official report clears Defence head, mostly
The official report from the independent inquiry into the Defence Force sex scandal has been finished, but won’t be made public in any form. The inquiry, headed by Andrew Kirkham QC, found Commodore Bruce Kafer made an “error of judgement” in proceeding with disciplinary action against an 18-year-old female officer cadet at the centre of the scandal. She was engaged in an act of consensual sex with a male cadet which, unbeknownst to her, was filmed and broadcast via Skype to four others in another room. The woman later went public with the scandal because she was concerned it was not being dealt with properly by Defence. Commodore Kafer had been asked to stand aside but the report found there was no legal basis for this. He will begin work again soon. Two male cadets have since been charged and will stand trial. The scandal led to questions about how Defence handles allegations of sexual abuse, and other forms of bullying behaviour, within the hierarchy. At least 775 complaints of abuse were made to law firm DLA Piper stretching decades.
- This is how Mamamia first covered the Skype sex scandal.
Best toy of the year for ‘girl’ Lego
It was criticised for being ‘reductive’ and ‘sexist’ but Lego’s range of building block sets for girls has proved a winner in the Toy of the Year competition which grades on creativity, innovation, safety and sales potential. City Park Cafe was the specific winner. According to Lego, the brightly coloured cafe set is ”a hip hangout” and the coolest place to be in Heartlake City, home to two perky Lego girls, Andrea and Marie. The award was named at this week’s Toy Fair in Melbourne where industry specialists traipse through and lay their hands on many first-look prototype toys to see what’s hot. Australia’s toy industry was worth $2.6 billion last year, and has shown good growth for the past two years, after tougher times in 2008 and 2009.
- Here’s how Mamamia covered the new girl’s range of Lego when we first heard about it.
Time to teach mental health to kids
The Black Dog Institute, an organisation that deals with education and research surrounding depression and bipolar disorder, will roll out a $500,000 mental health program for Year 9 and 10 students in 800 schools around the nation. The ‘Headstrong’ classes will teach students about mental health issues including mood disorders, at-risk personality types, recognising symptoms, the benefits of therapy and how to build resilience. The Institute will train 1500 teachers to deliver the initiative over the next three years. “One in five Australians will experience a mood disorder in their lifetime and up to 75 per cent of mental health issues emerge during the turbulent adolescent years,” Institute executive director Professor Helen Christensen said. “This resource is designed to target the needs of young people, with the visual format of the materials making it accessible to students of all intellectual abilities, as well as those from a low literacy or non-English speaking background.”
MM Publisher Mia Freedman talked about this on the Today Show this morning:
IVF donor man fights to become ‘real’ dad
A millionaire businessman is fighting in the Family Court of Victoria to be recognised as the father of a child he helped produce when he donated sperm to a single woman to undergo IVF. Under Victorian law, sperm donors are not recognised as parents. Donors have to sign forms relinquishing any claim to fatherhood. The man is known to his child as a ‘family friend’ and visited regularly, but usually at the mother’s house. “We don’t accept as a matter of law that he is a parent,” her barrister Andrew Robinson said. “Just because he donated genetic material doesn’t make him a parent.” So, what’s the definition of parent then? What does biology account for?
Treasurer Wayne Swan slammed for ‘class warfare’ comments
Wayne Swan took us back to the days of the mining tax fight when he needled the country’s richest women and men over their ‘greed’, saying the ‘hyper rich’ put their interests ahead of the country’s own. “Wayne Swan, who relies on Australia’s army of small and large businessmen and women to create jobs and pay taxes and other government charges, has effectively kneed all such people in the groin,” former Victorian Premier Jeff Kennett said. “He seeks to destroy aspiration, keep Australia small. This is nothing short of class warfare. Swan clearly hates people who have money.” But Swan’s criticisms came as the Prime Minister reached out to top business CEOs in a bid to cut red tape in Government using their experience.
Gina Rinehart loses court suppression bid
Australia’s wealthiest woman, mining boss Gina Rinehart, has lost a NSW Supreme Court bid to suppress details of a case she is fighting with three of her own children. Ms Rinehart originally asked for the details to be suppressed because she was concerned for the safety of herself and her family. He legal team cited last minute details of a specific threat they say they were made aware of, originating in Dubai. As the Australian reported:
A Perth based security specialist Adrian Francis gave an affidavit claiming he was approached by a man in a Dubai hotel, who allegedly told Mr Francis of Mrs Rinehart “you know that a lot of people here and in Saudi and maybe you hear that some people here are interested in her.”
“Let me say my friend that she is not safe and maybe you know the people that are protecting her. Maybe you should talk to them, maybe they need more training.”
However, Justice Michael Ball said the threat lacked credibility. The High Court will decide Friday whether an appeal can be heard.
- For more on the woman worth almost $20 billion, check our cheat sheet here for the fast facts.
Some workplaces becoming ‘pink ghettos’
Industries like Public Relations and Human Resources have found themselves on the other end of a gender imbalance says a Sydney report. That’s where the offices are dominated by women and gay men, with very few or even no straight male employees. Salt and Shein director Peter Salt said it could be an issue. “There is this topic of pink ghettos,” Mr Salt said. “What they’re talking about is gender diversity. There has long been a debate about board representation… this is the same but in reverse.”
Equal Opportunity for Women in the Workplace Agency director Helen Conway said companies that didn’t practise good “talent management” ended up with pools of women stagnating in support roles, and that ultimately the company itself would be worse off.
“Our view is that an all-female environment is bad, and an all-male environment is bad,” Ms Conway said. “You need balance. You need diversity to optimise performance.”










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Lego for girls is not new. I had this set and another for making necklaces. The box is dated 1980.
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So an all male work environment gets the affectionate term “boys club” and a female/ gay male environment is a “pink ghetto”?! I’m a fashion designer and have worked mostly with women and gay men. I would hardly call it a ghetto and I don’t think its a problem either, its just that that is the gender/ sexual orientation of most people interested in that area of work. Most mechanics are men. I don’t think that’s a problem either. It only becomes a problem when someone wants to get into that field and are declined because of said gender or sexual orientation. But I don’t think that’s what they are saying here. Actually I’m not really sure what they are saying…
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What a disgrace by Minister Smith. He stands down Commondant Kafer on hearsay. He gets a report that says the Commandant made no error in judgement on the proceedings and should be reinstated. He sits on this report for three months and then refuses to appologise for tarnishing the Commandants name.There were a number of false allegations and the Minister thought he would ride roughshod over the military command “because he could”.
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I totally agree. This stubborness is about face saving (though I think it is actually having the opposite effect). Minister Smith was impulsive and wrong when he condemned Commodore Kafer initially, and apologising now would amount to an admission that he was wrong. Politicians do not like to publically admit they are wrong.
I have always found the Minsiter’s argument for criticising CDRE Kafer a bit confusing and the transcript of his 7.30 interview last night didn’t help matters. Is he suggesting that a woman (in the military or the general public) who has been charged in an unrelated incident should not be held responsible for that conduct if she is a victim in a subsequent crime of a sexual nature? Really? (Wouldn’t the hearing go ahead and any more recent emotional trauma be tabled as mitigation at sentencing?)
I think the filming of Kate was appalling and there is no question that the cadets responsible should be held accountable for their actions. However, I don’t agree that Commodore Kafer mishandled the matter of Kate’s subsequent disciplinary hearing for a prior, unrelated incident. ADFA is a military institution and cadets are governed by rules (that cover matters such as drinking and being absent without permission, and also prohibit even consensual sex between cadets). If Minister Smith thinks Defence people should be held to a higher standard than the rest of the community, then he should not be criticising legitimate attempts to enforce those higher standards.
Sadly it would seem that there are shameful cases of the mistreatment of women in the ADF in the past and this is unaccaptable. However, as a woman who is a long term Defence member, I can attest that these cases are not the norm. The majority of Defence personnel are extremely hard working and conscientious people who serve their nation proudly, yet MInister Smith made generalisations on 7:30 about Defence members in general failing to meet the higher standards he expects. Indeed, despite the fact that he expects Defence members to go off to Afghanistan and other conflict zones and risk their lives, I cannot recall having heard Minister Smith ever actually praise a Defence member. I find his condemnation of Defence personnel in general to be far below the standard I expect from a Defence Minister.
I am not sure whether Minister Smith has the confidence of the PM and I have no idea how the Chief of the Defence Force views him. However, from my perspective he comes across as having completely lost touch with his Department.
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who actually chooses the winner of the toy of the year award? I didn’t get to vote! (Probably for the best as I would have voted for a cardboard box or a pet rock!)
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The sperm donor issue is quite interesting to me. As a woman in late 30′s who wants kids and is still trying to find someone to have them with i find it amusing to be slapped in the face AGAIN on the weekend with and article telling me i am too proud and fussy. I have dated so many men and none NONE will stick around long enough, in a few cases i have discovered they were already in a relationship ( and i felt hideously guilty even though i didn’t know). I have been chested on, booty called and lied to and at the moment i am dating a bisexual guy who i actually really hope might work out and i get to have a baby. So i don’t think i am being fussy or proud at all in fact sometimes i feel really stupid and doormat like. I am a smart independent woman who wants to be loved and have a family but in many cases the men in my life would have less trouble with me being HIV positive than they have with me wanting a child. The articles never have a go at men being kids themselves and not stepping up to the plate to have relationships and babies. I think in my own opinion that this is also a selfish male act. You get your rocks off have no responsibility to another human who is creating your child and then you decide a little later to be involved in the childs life sorry i don’t buy it and it makes me cranky. Because i am a bitter twisted spinster with a deep desire for children who in all likelyhood will miss out on being a mum
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There is a simple reason why the guys don’t hang around. I read your post a number of times and all I saw was fault in men.
Perhaps you should look at your own actions and behaviours to see why you can’t keep a partner.
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It’s quite possible you are right. Is that the case for every woman out there?? That find herself childless by circumstance? But what you did was miss what I was trying to say is that it’s impossible to open a paper without being told that you are a selfish woman if you are in your late thirties and child less but I don’t see the corresponding ones for men. No one is telling them to get a wriggle on and have babies because they have more options. I would have liked more constructive criticism than just telling me I’m unloveable I’m 38 and single I already knew that
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I think that (some) women have the attitude these days when they are in their 20′s that they don’t want to be tied down to house and babies. Then the horrible clock catches up with them and the desperation begins to show. No one wants to be hit with the “I want children” discussion on the first date, but it happens all the time. Then when guys bail out they are considered bastards who don’t want relationships. The reality is that they aren’t bastards, they get scared off by the thought of babies. God made preganancies last 10 months so that fathers could get used to the idea. It’s a hell of a shock, even when married and knowing it will happen one day.
From a pure physical perspective, having children in the 20′s is probably the best thing women can do, at least younger women recover from the physical bashing that babies cause. Then there’s the total loss of control of one’s life when children come along that is more and more difficult to cope with as one ages.
I think that people have the mindset that they can have it all. Perhaps they can, or perhaps some people can, but I don’t think it’s possible, something will get sacrificed. That’s probably where the “selfish” thing originates, and I certainly don’t have a lot of sympathy for women who choose not to have children because they want to go to Paris first, or pay for their McMansion in the ‘burbs. It’s a matter of choice. My (ex)wife and I were both 25 when our first child was born, and now that we are both 48 and that kid is 23 we are able to go to Paris, and still enjoy it because life doesn’t end at 40.
So some women don’t have children through choice, some through circumstance, and some because they simply can’t conceive. Then again, some women only have to look sideways at their partner and they are pregnant. We are all different I suppose.
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I think parts of your responses just confirmed what missamoo said.
Women do tend to get criticized for delaying having kids til their 30s. “I certainly don’t have a lot ofsympathy for women who choose not to have children because they want to go to Paris first….”. So by that reckoning we should all be looking for a husband straight out of high school or uni. How many men that age want that? I used to tell men that I had kids in my early 20s (I did) to test them and the majority of them nearly ran.
I imagine older men (near 40) are ready for kids, if they haven’t got any already, but women biologically can’t really wait that long and be “guaranteed” a baby.
I think you were a bit harsh too. I’m sure missamoo has had plenty of time to reflect on her prior mistakes. There was no need to tell her that her lack of partner and/or kids was all her own fault.
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So who’s fault is it faybian? It isn’t about fault, it’s about choices.
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Umm, no one??? Everyone makes choices that don’t pan out, but without the benefit of hindsight….
Your post was a bit like kicking her when she was down IMO. Be honest, most men (and women) don’t want, or are encouraged to have kids young, but men have more time to do what they want without fertility winding down than women.
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If you are dating a bisexual guy then all I can say is be careful! There’s a world of issues there that will come out eventually.
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So I can’t win if I’m being less fussy/ proud by giving a man who likes my company a chance I have to be careful. But I’m also stupid for not having a baby in my twenties when as a dancer that would have ended my career. It’s a but unfair to judge me when you were lucky enough to find some one you young. I wasn’t and it wasn’t from lack of trying. I am planning to fulfill my dream of kids with my bestie who is gay so enjoy judging me for that too xx
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I’m not judging you at all Missamoo. It’s not for me to do that. My comments were general not directed st you. if you chose Paris or an 8 bedroom house over children then tough titties, you made your choice. If you couldn’t find a partner then I do have sympathy. It’s pretty simple. As for looking for a partner straight out of high school, that’s just silly, all I’m saying is that women are more physically able to cope with children in their 20s. I’m certainly not advocating teenage mothers if that’s what you’re angling at.
We all have choices, I chose to put my career on hold for ten years so I’d be around for my kids after my divorce when the kids were little. I don’t regret it for a minute, even though a lot of my contemporaries are now on 100k more than I am. But if you do make a decision, just be aware of the consequences.
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Again you seem to delight in missing my point i didn’t make a decision for Paris or and 8 room house. I chose a career at the age of 3 that would have been jettisoned not put on hold if i had had children with my first boyfriend at 22 (plus he was cheating on me anyway) The next one at 25 was bipolar and in denial also cheating on me for the entire relationship. No one serious for a year or so then i moved to Germany where i scrimped and saved and tried to make a new life once again the one guy i let in already had a partner. I came home determined to not worry about it and see where life took me. I was living in Sydney doing a show when i finally met someone amazing thinking i had found him i relaxed only to be dumped because i was travelling with the show for the next year (which he knew when we began dating). When you are under contract to a show you can’t just quit which he knew. Since then i have been surrounded by 20 year olds who want to have some fun with and older woman and nothing else. So forgive me if i feel i have been useful to the men in my life for not very much in return.
But other wise you are absolutely right and am obviously a burden on your perfect society. I hope that your children are never judged as harshly as you have judged me
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Missamoo, did you miss my sixth sentence?
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It’s pretty simple?
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Ok, so I can’t count while I’m reading from my iphone while talking on it, driving and eating a banana.
The 5th sentence.
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If 75% of mental health issues first surface in adolesence this can not come any sooner. The pressures on young people are only increasing and we have seen with the cyber attacks of late how bad it can get. Learning about depression and other mental health issues should be taught to all students. It’s a very prevalent issue and something almost everyone will have to deal with if not for themselves someone they are very close to. I believe it is just as important as learning sex ed or any other health classes.
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The man I call ‘Dad’ is not my biological father, but he has loved, provided and cared for me since I was a toddler. Therefore, from my experience being a parent is much more than genetics. Maybe that’s why I found it a pretty easy decision to donate my eggs to friends last year. I’m very excited that they will be expecting their first baby this year! Whilst I can’t predict exactly how I will feel when the baby arrives, so far I feel great about it and I’m just really happy for them. I can’t imagine in our situation that I would ever feel like I was the child’s parent when all I did was provide half the genetic info – that was the easy part. I am a parent to my two sons and the parenting (and hard work) really started once they arrived!
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“Maybe that’s why I found it a pretty easy decision to donate my eggs to friends last year.”
What an amazing thing to do! xx
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I feel for the man who donated the sperm, the mother of the child and the child. Its not black and white and there are so many emotions here.
I finished having my tribe of 4 at 33, which today makes me somewhat of a rarity. Because of that and because I had my kids really easily I did consider donating my eggs to help a desperate family who werent as blessed as we are. I had long discussions with all sorts of people about it including my GP and ended up not going down that path. I just couldnt hand my eggs over and forget about them. I would always worry about, if in fact a baby did result, what the parents were really like, how they were being raised, what sort of life they were living etc etc…I’m positive my attitude regarding that was because I already have children. Before I had my first baby I wasnt terribly maternal and I could have easily done so back then. I’m assuming most sperm donors dont have their own kids and I’m sure many could change their minds once they have children of their own.
There are so many definitions of ‘parent’ in my mind – biological, adoptive, foster, subsititute….Its just a horrible situation for everyone and I hope they can reach a result that is beneficial for all because, really, dragging this sort of thing through court makes it hard for there to be any winners at the end.
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I would imagine too, because male donation is not at all invasive and an “everyday” activity produces the sperm, it is probably easier to hand it over.
With female donation, it’s invasive, you have to take drugs and is generally an involved procedure, as well as having to already be a mother. A lot of thought would have to go into it.
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If the super mega rich were paying their fair share in tax, the rest of us perhaps wouldnt have to pay so much ourselves.
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the rich already pay way more proportionally than every one else, and subsidise heaps in our society. Ever heard of the sliding tax scale and means testing for everything else.
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Do you know how much tax the “super rich” pay?
Actually, do you know how much tax people on half decent money pay?
I bet you don’t.
It’s not just income tax either. You see a rich person driving a new Aston Martin, do you realise they have paid more than $150,000 in taxes to drive that car? How much stamp duty do they pay when they buy a $5 million house? It’s plenty.
Rich people pay heaps of tax, just because you have a sense of entitlement doesn’t mean that someone else should pay for you.
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That is FANTASTIC news re mental health classes for high schools.
Hopefully it will be taken up and funded much more widely.
The school system has a unique opportunity to support young people with mental health problems and make a huge difference to their lives and the futures. Not just an opportunity but a responsibility in my opinion.
Great news!
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Are you able to post your today show segment here? Missed it.
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I have a donor conceived child that I had using IVF and a donor. I chose to have the baby by myself as I was not in a long-term stable relationship. The case with this donor is exactly the reason why I chose to have my child using an identity-release donor who we can contact when my child is 18 (if the child wishes), rather than someone I know.
I chose to do it this way because I didn’t want us to have to face the heartbreak for everyone involved if the ‘arrangement’ didn’t work out in the future. I see the pain that separated couples go through with custody arrangements and didn’t want to have to face something like that.
In my situation I have full rights and responsibilities and no one else has any claims. It is human nature to fall in love with your child, and this man must be regretting his decision to conceive a child in this way.
The complexities of having an on-going ‘friendship’ would be far too difficult for me to negotiate. I am sure that there is more to this story and I feel for the mother, the donor and the child in what seems to be a very complicated situation
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arrangement? its a life. and for the convenience of you not haveing to deal with someone over a biological detail is fairly disturbing.
my grandmother died this year, never knowing the true identity of her father. now as my father deals with an as yet undiagnosed life threatening illness, we dont have access to 25% of his biological data to help deal with it.
please think of the bigger picture, and the what your child may want to know, rather than your own peice of mind.
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Mark, it seems to me that you may have misinterpreted what Solomum was saying. If, as in your fathers case, the donor child needs information on his/her biological make up for life threatening medical reasons, there are laws to allow this. Also, as Solomum mentioned, the donor’s records are kept and available should the child wish to make contact once they have reached age 18. I think current laws surrounding IVF and anonymous donors are well established now in order to protect the rights of all concerned and most importantly, to protect the needs and wishes of donor children. I know this as I have 2 donor children myself.
I wish all the best for you and your family as your dad fights for health.
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I agree with Minimagic and would like to add that Solomum appears to be saying she didn’t want an emotionally complicated relationship, such as having a male friend father your child, not that she didn’t want her child to have full access to their genetic background. This is indicated by her saying the child can find out who their father is but the father has no relationship with the mother.
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I am well aware that it is a life – my own child’s life. This is not a decision that I have taken lightly.
Sorry that your family is dealing with complex medical issues, I however do have all of the medical history of her donor, his parents and grandparents. This information is obtained during the screening process that all Australian egg and sperm donors go through. The medical information is then supplied when the child is born. I probably have a far more detailed medical history than most parents do.
I can assure you with all things regarding my child I think big picture, small picture – in fact ALL pictures. My peace of mind comes from knowing that my child is always first in all of my decisions.
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the option you have when your child turns 18 is only available if the donor agrees though, is that correct?
so in your case, your child at 15 might turn around with “i want to know” then after 3 years of anticipation gets nothing. i would suggest the anonymity you currently enjoy wouldnt be worth the disapointment your child will feel for the rest of their life, as my grandmother had for 67 years.
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No, that is not correct. All of the donor’s information has to be stored and maintained, and then provided to the child when they apply (after the age of 18). All donors (and people using donors) are counselled and are aware that their identity will be released to the child.
It is a very long and involved process (more than 6 months) to become an egg/sperm donor in Australia. I don’t think anyone would go through that long a process without fully understanding that at some point in the future contact could be made.
The laws used to be a lot looser but a lot of the loopholes have been tightened up so that the type of disappointment you mentioned shouldn’t happen.
In Australia donor-conception is highly regulated to protect the rights of the child (as it should be). In some states there are registers where parents, children and donors can register to establish contact.
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Completely unrelated to any of the above . . .
IT’S OPEN POST DAY!!!
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How is a straight woman / gay man dominated workplace a a “gender diversity” issue? Last time I checked, gay men still had all the things that make them male.
Maybe I’m missing the point? I’ve only had 3 hours sleep…
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You sound 100% right to me and I’ve had 8hours.
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Re: Sperm donor…. With rights come responsibilities. If a court were to decide that a sperm donor has rights in this particular case, what is to stop women who accepted sperm donations claiming those donors now have parental responsibilities. I think it’s a slippery slope… If the mother accepted the donation on certain conditions, it is unfair for the ‘father’ to turn around and ask for more… Having said that, a father who obviously loves, wants to spend time with his child and take on parenting responsibilities isn’t the worst thing in the world!
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In regards to the man who donated sperm and is now fighting for the right to be recognised as the child’s father – I really feel for the guy, but I don’t think he should be allowed to be recognised legally as the child’s father, as he previously signed away his right to do that. The thing is, in this circumstance it appears the mother is single so I can see that people would think ‘well, woudn’t it be nice for him to be able to step up and fill the father role’? But what if it was a situation where it was a couple who used the sperm because the male was infertile? So the child would already have a father, and then the sperm donor wants to muscle in and upset that? You can’t adopt out a child, change your mind and try and get the child back, why should this be different?
I think a sperm donor is just that, but of course that means if and when the child is of an age that they would like to know/search out their biological father, it’s up to them.
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Reading the Age article, there’s clearly a bit more of a relationship going on there, if the guy was a “family friend”, and paid the costs associated with the birth – and had been seeing the child three times a week.
It’s not as straight forward as an anonymous donation.
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That sounds complicated, and perhaps expectations weren’t fully clarified at the start. I still worry about what precedent could be set, and applied to other donors.
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Thank you for your comment, I strongly agree.
When most people think of sperm donors, single mothers probably come to mind, when in fact the majority of children conceived with the help of a sperm donor are born into families with both a mum and a dad, but the dad suffers from infertility (or carries a genetic disease in some cases).
This is the case for our family. Our daughter has a Daddy who loves her to the moon and back. She will be able to get identifying information about the donor when she is 18, and make contact if she chooses to do so. However, the donor is not her dad.
I’m nervous about the outcome of this case, and implications for future donors, who are already so scarce.
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I’m with you. It could take an altruistic act which was previously pretty simple and turn it into a minefield.
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Diversity in employment should also include cultural diversity. Its not racist to want a cultural mix in the workplace, like its not sexist to want gender diversity in the workplace.
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In our own situation the Family Court acknowledged our donor as a ‘person of interest’ because by law he is not recognised as having any connection to our daughter. As a declared ‘person of interest’ the court can make orders regarding contact without ever legally declaring a donor a ‘parent’ or ‘father’.
I suspect this might be the outcome in this case….any other acknowledgement would contradict most state and territory laws concerning IVF.
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I agree that being a sperm donor doesn’t make a person a ‘parent’ per se, and this man waived his legal claims to fatherhood, however I can understand how an individual might change their mind about the contact they wish to have with their biological offspring down the track… I think it shortchanges the children born of such arrangements to say that a man who donates sperm is not a father at all. Some of these children may grow up and want to have a relationship with their biological father, regardless of whether the parent/s who raised them just view that person as a ‘donor’. I don’t think it’s a black and white issue at all.
I though the film ‘The Kids Are All Right’ dealt with some of these issues beautifully.
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I work in a department of 6 people, 4 women and 2 men. Three are straight 3 are gay. We all work well together. It has nothing to do with gender or sexuality rather it is that we all pull our weight and work as team to get the job done. We also like and respect each other, which is perhaps the most important of all.
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I’ve worked in a couple of Pink Ghettos…all I can say is that as a straight man, I kind of enjoyed it…I loved the work atmosphere much more than some of the male-dominated work-places I’ve experienced…
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I’ve worked in two, both female dominated due to industry. One awesome, one horrible (very bitchy).
It can be good or it can be bad… a lot of it depends on management. A fish rots from the head.
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Re Treasurer Wayne Swan slammed for ‘class warfare’ comments:
Treating Wayne Swan’s commentary about a few mega-rich individuals as class-warfare and an attack on aspiration is lazy criticism and misses the point altogether…
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Re: IVF donor man fights to become ‘real’ dad
I agree – being a donor doesn’t make someone a “parent”…expecting to have some kind of parental rights as a sperm donor is just unrealistic…
…but I do understand a sperm donor’s curiosity about the children they have fathered…
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Pink Ghetto? I work for Army and, following a massive restructure due to funding cuts, my workplace consists of 3 civilian women and 1 male senior officer. Does that mean that the Australian Army has become somewhat of a pink ghetto?
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I think it means your workplace has but not the Australian Army as a whole
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Ha ha! It’s amazing what budget cuts can do
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