DID YOUR KINDY OFFER FOOT-RUBS?
So, this is a bit edgy. A German kindergarten is offering its charges, as young as three, foot-rubs, massages and other relaxation techniques – like walking through wet grass with their shoes off – as part of its overall package designed to take the stress out of the little tacker’s lives.
It’s not all outrageous. Kids are tactile, so the grass stuff could be good for them. But would you pay more for the massages, did your parents? It might be a worthy investment. The program was put together by some of Germany’s foremost public health experts, arguing that stress is a complicating factor in many lives … especially those of children who tend to be stress sponges.
Sylvia Gross, 49, from the German kindy said children were far too often too rushed and pushed around.
“Much is required from children today. They rush from one appointment to the next without barely a chance to breathe,” she said.
“They occasionally need some time out in order to come down again. The things we do here have a curative, relaxing effect upon them. The children themselves are curious, they find the therapies exciting.”
VOGUE TACKLES ‘UNHEALTHY’ MODELS, GLOBALLY
There’s no bigger standard-bearer of fashion and all things design around the world, so when all 19 worldwide editions of Vogue Magazine pledge to only work with models who have no obvious history of eating disorders, it makes people sit up and listen. In her letter, Australian editor Kirstie Clements said it was a starting point.
“On the following page, readers will find a letter from all the editors of the 19 international Vogues, launching what we are calling The Health Initiative. The issue of positive body image and positive role models in the fashion industry is an important one, and this pact will certainly open up the debate. As an editor, I have to make choices on a daily basis about the images we feature and the messages we are sending.
“Long ago we made the decision not to feature models that were younger than 16, and we have always strived to present models that we knew to be healthy. But I know there are contradictions. Who is naturally slim? Who is dieting sensibly or irresponsibly? Who is exercising or over-exercising? We’ve been known to retouch shots, especially from the runway, to put weight on the girls, which obviously begs the question, why are they so thin in the first place? Yet we also recently featured gorgeous Australian model Robyn Lawley in a fashion story, for no political reason, but simply because she looks great.
“The problem is wider reaching than the fashion press alone (let’s not forget Hollywood), which is why The Health Initiative is a starting point to make the industry more aware. We are not claiming that we will fix the problem overnight, but a healthy discussion will almost certainly lead to a more healthy future.”
What do you think?
- Check out the Week in Pics gallery below for the teenaged girl who is taking on Seventen Magazine for its lack of ‘real’ women.
1. Catch up on the Week in Pics. From fashion to the events in the news as they unfolded, it’s all here:

Mariah Carey's tight pants became the focus of her concert in Austria.
2. Did you see our Olympic uniforms? A cross between college casual drinks and a chess uniform, what do you reckon?
3. Bosses are trying to wiggle out of paying food workers weekend penalty rates by re-jigging the system. Restaurant and Catering Australia says weekend penalties rates are crippling the industry and bankrupting restaurants. They want to move to a system where workers don’t receive the special rates unless they’ve been working six consecutive days (paid at time and a quarter) or seven consecutive days (paid at time and a half).
4. Reality television … had enough yet? Depends on where you’re looking. Lara Bingle is filming her own show, ‘The Shire’ will be like ‘Jersey Shore’ in Sydney’s suburbs and then there’s this. A New Zealand show about Kiwis trying to make their own success on Australia’s Gold Coast. It’s called the ‘GC’. Have a look:
5. Tattoo removals are up 10 per cent in the past 12 months, according to those in the laser removal line of work. And it ain’t cheap, either. It costs thousands of dollars and takes months of painful visits.
6. Apparently one in five people in a relationship keep a secret stash of cash from their partner. Oh, and it’s more likely to be men. The ING Direct survey also found more than 70 per cent of couples had a joint bank account. Do you?









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Aaaaaahahahahaha the GC. Good grief.
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My god, that’s the first time I’ve ever looked at a shot of a model and thought, “Wow, I kind of look like that” instead of “Oh god what have I eaten today” and immediately panicked. If I responded that way to pictures of models more often I might feel more inclined the clothes they’re wearing.
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Our daycare does yoga and relaxation every day and my kids love it. The carers are now going to make a dvd of the kids so they can bring it home and do it in their own time if they want. My son especially enjoys that part of the day, and can outdo me in any yoga pose!
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Its sad that the kindy feels the need to schedule relaxation time into their day. Everything is scheduled today, which to me, kind of defeats the purpose. Isnt relaxing supposed to be spontaneous and luxurious, not a planned event…
I listen to what some kids do in the school holidays and every minute of their day is organised with some sort of activity, organised by the parents, so if the foot rubs helps to educate parents that kids are too busy, too pushed, too rushed from A to B, it’s a good thing.
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Lu, I suppose scheduling relaxation into the children’s day could be a good thing – hopefully it will teach them from an early age that it is important to make some time for yourself everyday; that it should be a part of every day. Maybe it can create new good habits?
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Those Olympic uniforms remind me of Graham and the Colonel!
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Re: penalty rates. Business have to make a profit. But it shouldn’t be at the expense of the employees. I think the consecutive days thing is fairly reasonable, but I would be concerned that some employers may try to get around it by shoving a day off in between. Eg: working Mon, Tues, Wed, Thurs get Friday off then work Sat, Sun, Mon, Tues etc. That’s not fair on the employee. Some employees might be OK with it but I think it pretty much sucks if you can’t get two consecutive days off it you want/need it.
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This technique taught in some schools in the US and UK would be a better life skill …. although I do like Kate Hunter’s version!
http://www.amazon.com/Mindful-Minutes-Children—Ourselves—Emotional/dp/039953606X/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1336088051&sr=8-1
Basically teaching them that 10 minutes of mindful thinking (meditation, settling back down, call it whatever you want!) can work wonders from concentration, depression, relationships … you name it. Once you’ve got the hang of it. Costs nothing.
You’d need to work up to it from a couple of minutes at a time for kinder kids, to the 10 minutes, or do it several times through the day…
I think it’s a great idea. Just need to figure out how to start with my daughter …!
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The staff at my kids’ kindy taught THE KIDS to give THEIR PARENTS shoulder rubs. This is, in my opinion, is a valuable life skill that should be part of the national curriculum.
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and where did you say your kindy was????
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Mariah, please meet Mia.
Mia, pelase explain about leggings not being pants.
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I like the massage idea although I wouldn’t call it edgy at all. Sensory modulation is big in schools & hospitals these days. It sounds like a nice way to keep kids centred through the day and give them fun, tactile activities. I’m all for it.
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I’m all for the massage idea. Kids need that soothing influence..hell, I need that soothing influence. Massages should be government funded and provided at the workplace (well, that was always my deepest desire when I worked night shifts at the hospital and the dreaded 3-4am weary eyes and back cramps set in).
But seriously, massage and yoga. Great for kids. Even meditation at rest time. And is there a better place to introduce such things than kindy?
The Uniforms aren’t too bad. I could evn push myself to say I like them. Far better than we’ve had in other years anyway.
The GC? Really? I thought the bottom of the barrell of ideas had already been scraped clean.
I don’t support the loss of penalty rates either.
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Im with you on the penalty rates.
I remember trying to jam 2 chairs and a footstool together to get 30 min shut eye on my meal break at usually 3 am. Frequently.
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When I worked at KFC ten years ago we had no penalty rates, even when we worked the graveyard shift (11pm-5am). Apparently all were considered ‘normal’ hours
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I don’t mind the massage idea. I’m trying to get my 14 year old son to start coming to yoga classes with me. He’s not keen (yet!) but I just keep thinking how great it would be for him during the more stressful years of high school.
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I am a huge fan of the new Olympic uniforms.
I looked at a gallery online yesterday of the past 6 or so Olympics and they are definitely the most classic we have had. There has been some shockers!
I read one Olympian’s comment that she would wear this uniform to speaking engagements about the Olympics for years to come – definitely not something they could have done with the past ones!
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I’d feel OK about massages for kids – it doesn’t sound like they are “pampering” the kids, just building in some calm, tactile time into their days. I know my son is very physical, and would love it…and I reckon touching and being touched is one of the best things about being alive…
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I’m all for massages in kindergarten. My daughter was taught massage in a fun but still relaxing way at 3 and 4 year old kinder here in melbourne. the teacher introduced it as a way to talk about appropriate touching. It was such a great idea and my daughter still loves giving (and recieving) massages now 3 years later. it was an all girls school and it focussed on asking permission before massaging, where is appropriate to “touch” massage and it made it fun so the kids all looked forward to it. I would recommend it to anyone and really appreciated the introduction into that “difficult’ topic to talk about.
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Mariah Carey’s outfit in green and gold would make the perfect Olympic uniform! I think the outfit would be the focus of the games. But that’s just my opinion…
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Every time the Olympics rolls around we have debate and discussion over the uniform. Let’s be realistic – what options do they really have except for a jacket of some sort, preferably the green and gold colors somewhere and a male and female variant. I think they look great, personally!
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The GC has been a pretty big talking point here in NZ this week. Mainly because it is so, so bad. A little embarrassing actually too. Please don’t think all Maori are like this! :p
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I have a few Maori friends and I know! I think it’s mostly just the Gold Coast …
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I’d pay them to teach the kindy kids to GIVE foot massages. And pedicures from the year two kids.
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I don’t think the massages are such a bad idea for kiddies. I’m an occupational therapist and we sometimes recommend parents give massages to kids to help calm them.
Things like sensory gardens are really getting around and it’s great, but my concern is people don’t look into the theory behind it. For example the myth “all kids are tactile” is actually untrue Mamamia. Some kids are sensory avoidant so they would hate walking on wet grass as they have a different sensory profile. This would send their poor little stress levels through the roof! I’m sure the kindy has it sorted though – I just thought I’d clarify for others as it is my line of work
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Ha ha, I remember trying to get my daughter to walk on grass or even sit on it. She wouldn’t have a bar of it. Miss J would simply raise her legs up and cling on like mad if I tried to put her down on grass. The only way we could have a picnic is if she was in the middle of the blanket. She was the same with sand which made going on a beach holiday a bloody farce. It was strictly shoes on or be carried whenever we went outside.
Surprisingly Miss S who was born in KL and does not have a grass backyard has no problems at all with walking barefoot everywhere.
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Your post has triggered a light bulb moment in me! As recently as last night I was trying to explain my sons behaviour to a friend and was saying that he is just incredibly sensitive to some sensations… and oblivious to others. e.g. as a baby he would go up to 12 hours without milk, as a 3yr old he still can’t have a hair cut at the hairdressers (they refuse to do it because he is so distressed), applying sunscreen is extremely distressing for him, and socks are”too soft, too soft, too soft” over and over and over…..
So my question is, what should I do?? I assume see a OT…. do I need a referral? Are all OT’s familiar with this in children and able to help? Do you, through your work connections, know of any good ones in the ACT?
Thanks, I think you may have just changed our lives
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My son has autism and sensory issues galore and seeing a sensory integration specialist OT is the most effective part of his arsenal of therapies. Get a referral from your GP for your local sensory gym if there is one. I found other mum’s gave the best recommendations. Just make sure they specialise in sensory integration. Good luck!
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This is exactly what OTs work with (sensory disorders, that may or may not be part of another disorder), and will give you lots of ideas for things to do at home too. If he can verbalise well, as it seems he can, what he is sensitive to, then OT can work wonders and give you all the insight you need to deal with it.
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Yes an OT would be able to help you make sense of your son’s sensitivities. You could also do some reading, I highly recommend The Out Of Sync Child by Carol Stock Kranowitz. OTs in Canberra can be busy but find one who works with children and give it a go. There is plenty you can do to make life easier for him.
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You could also contact therapy ACT, a government service, and ask to see an OT. It’s ok to self refer. there may be a waiting time though. All the OTs at Therapy ACT would have a good understanding of these issues.
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My preschooler always liked to have his back lightly scratched before going to sleep at night. It lead to back massages before sleep, and now he asks for an all-over massage. He sleeps fantastically, but then, he always has. I’m jealous. No-one is giving me a whole body massage before bed!
The Olympic uniform is awful, and I snorted very loudly at the pic of Mariah’s pants.
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I remember my mum doing that for me when I was little. Mum’s are great!
I’d say ask him to return the favor on mother’s day, but little kids are usually awful at giving massages, so maybe not.
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Ahh but the more they practice the better they get and soon you’ll have a personal masseuse.
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Just buy yourself one of these!
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I do that too! It’s like magic – even if he is completely wound up and bouncing, a light scratch and rub on his back and he’s asleep in under a minute. And it is nice for me too – quiet time snuggled in bed with my little boy
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