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lizzie miller 380x396 I am in love with this photoWhen I opened an email from Julie at The Butterfly foundation with this image in it, it literally took my breath away. In a good way. I thought it was absolutely stunning in the same way I loved this image.

There’s just something so…..lush about it. So real. The tummy! It’s a little thing and most of us would be thrilled if our tummies only hung over that much when we sat down. But it’s just not something you ever see in the media, is it?

Nowhere do we see images like this reflected back to us. And it continues to baffle me as to why.

The photo originally appeared very small in an issue of Glamour magazine a couple of months ago. But it has received a new focus this week when the editor of US Glamour, wrote about the overwhelming reader reaction to it.

In her blog, Glamour editor Cindi Lieve writes…..

It’s a photo that measures all of three by three inches in our September issue but the letters about it started to flood my inbox literally the day Glamour hit newsstands. (As editor-in-chief, I pay attention to this stuff!) “I am gasping with delight…I love the woman on p 194!” said one…then another, and another, andanotherandanotherandanother. So…who is she? And what on earth is so special about her?

Here’s the deal: The picture wasn’t of a celebrity. It wasn’t of a supermodel. It was of a woman sitting in her underwear with a smile on her face and a belly that looks…wait for it…normal.

I’d loved this photo at first sight myself–we’d commissioned it for a story on feeling comfortable in your skin and wanted a model who looked like she was. But even so, the letters blew me away: “the most amazing photograph I’ve ever seen in any women’s magazine,” wrote one reader in Pavo, Georgia. From another in Somerset, Massachusetts: “This beautiful woman has a real stomach and did I even see a few stretch marks? This is how my belly looks after giving birth to my two amazing kids! This photo made me want to shout from the rooftops.”

The emails were filled with such joy–joy at seeing a woman’s body with all the curves and quirks and rolls found in nature. (Raising a question: With all the six-packs out there, do you even know what a normal belly looks like anymore–other than the one you see in the mirror?)

So what’s the story behind the photo? “The woman on p. 194″ is actually 20-year-old model Lizzi Miller, and this is her second appearance in Glamour, shot by fashion photographer Walter Chin. A size 12-14 and avid softball player/belly dancer (“I like exercising when it’s fun”), Lizzi moved to New York City from San Jose three years ago to become a model (a “plus-size” one by modeling industry standards, though hello, at size 12 she’s actually “normal size”…but I digress).

“When I was young I really struggled with my body and how it looked because I didn’t understand why my friends were so effortlessly skinny,” Lizzi told me. “As I got older I realized that everyone’s body is different and not everyone is skinny naturally–me included! I learned to love my body for how it is, every curve of it. I used to be so self-conscious in a bikini because my stomach wasn’t perfectly defined. But everyone has different body shapes! And it’s not all about the physical! If you walk on the beach in your bikini with confidence and you feel sexy, people will see you that way too.”

As for the letters, Lizzi’s loving them. “When I read them I got teary-eyed!” she says. “I’ve been that girl, flipping through magazines trying to find just one person who looked a little bit like me. And when I didn’t find it I would start to think there’s something wrong with the way that I looked. When J. Lo and Beyoncé came out and were making curves sexy, I started to accept myself more. It’s funny, but just seeing them look and feel sexy enabled me to do the same.” Lizzi, now you’re doing the same for all of us–massive congrats on that.”

When I posted the images of the supermodels without make-up earlier this week, there were many comments deriding them for being shot in black and white or possibly having had “bits of surgery” or being “professionally lit”. My attitude is this: baby steps. These are women who have earned their living from looking flawless. They’re MODELS. Their professional worth and income is indexed 100% to their appearance. So I figure it was pretty brave for them to be photographed without make-up and a decision that should be applauded or, at the very least, encouraged.

That’s my view anyway.

And then I found myself being critical when I read the Glamour Editor’s comments! Hypocrite? Moi? “Why was this stunning photo only ‘three by three inches’ (7.6cm squared) dammit!” I thought. “Why wasn’t it a glorious full page? Why?!”

But then I thought, at LEAST it was in the magazine and at LEAST readers were vocal in their support and appreciation of it. That’s a start. So at least Cindi Leive can listen to her readers’ delight in seeing a more realistic body in her magazine and maybe next time, she’ll think about using more photos and models just like that.

What’s your reaction to this photo? Do you believe a photo in a magazine can affect how you feel about your own body? Are you currently seeing bodies like your own reflected anywhere in the media? And I don’t just mean magazines…..

We’re always looking for inspiration for people you would like to see in our galleries. Let us know who they are.

Tara Lynn and Crystal Renn on the cover of The Times magazine (Photoshopped image)

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216 Comments so far

  1. MissT

    Something is funny with the comments on here – I’m seeing all of them as individual comments even though some are quite obviously replies to others.

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    • Rick Morton

      Looks like the office pony has crawled into the cabling again.

      PS: Thanks for the heads up!

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      • MissT

        Also no comments have thumbs up registered except my one. That can’t be right. Naughty pony.

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  2. MissT

    I love that photo. I noticed three things when I looked at it, in this order:

    1. She’s really pretty.
    2. That’s a real smile.
    3. What nice skin.

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  3. nicolemadiganeverest

    I also LOVE this photo. What I love about it is that it’s not about “thin” or “curvy” or “plus-size”… it’s about “normal”. A normal woman in a healthy weight range with a normal tummy, boobs, skin, legs… and you can bet if you saw her on the street, she’d look amazing!

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    • freckle

      what on earth is ‘normal’?

      I think that is a terrible word to use in relation to people’s bodies.

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      • nicolemadiganeverest

        When I say “normal” I suppose I just mean she isn’t there to fit a particular stereotype or push a particular body type’s agenda. She’s simply there being a woman. A beautiful one at that! She’s healthy and gorgeous and although she looks a little different to the usual mag models, in actual fact she’s … not unusual :)

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  4. Snarkle

    It’s being done – just not in Australia or when it is, only in a half-hearted manner to generate PR hype. Cosmo likes to think it is continuing its mandate to include larger sizes but they are increasingly relegated to the ‘do/don’t’ pages, never the editorials. Those halcyon Natalie Wakeling days are over.

    This website -www.runwayrevolution.com- features ONLY models over a size 10 and it provides post after post of visual proof that larger sized women can create stunning fashion images as easily as the smaller girls. It’s hard to force designers to create press samples in a size 12 or 14, but can’t someone at least try it here? It’s a sad fact that the only mag doing anything vaguely fashion with models over a size 8 is Women’s Weekly – which means it’s usually just clothes, not FASHION.

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  5. Snarkle

    Here is the whole Lizzie Miller story, with all of the Glamour images and the correct chronology of how it all came about:
    http://runwayrevolution.com/2009/08/girl-of-the-moment-lizzie-miller/

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  6. Snarkle

    If you object to her stomach, it’s worth pointing out that there is no such thing as ‘spot reduction’. She could go to the gym every day for 2 hours and still not ever get rid of her pooch. Jus’ saying…

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  7. Wes

    This lady is STUNNING. Should be more of it. Mia please be the next model … lol

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  8. Amy

    Sorry, only being honest – when I look at the picture, I just think she needs to spend some more time at the gym.

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    • Tracey Groombridge

      Unfortantly she has too many great things to do then spend more hours in the fun filled sweaty gym.

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    • Jane DJ

      Only if Gym is the name of her plastic surgeon, cos as a lot of mums will attest, there’s no other way that gorgeous tum is disappearing.

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    • J

      Sorry only being honest – when I read your comment I just think de constructive and unnecessary.

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  9. Guest

    LOVE IT! She is absolutely gorgeous.

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  10. JJ

    I’ve just had my first baby and, at 30, I had always had a naturally flat tummy. I had a very big baby and now almost six months later I have a tummy just like that beautiful woman in the photo, although slightly bigger with little stretch marks on either side, and, contrary to how I thought I’d feel about this change (along with all the others!) I LOVE IT. I think it’s so beautiful and it looks like other women feel the same way! It reminds me of my gorgeous funny daughter every time I see it in the mirror after a shower. It even feels softer, like it’s more delicate. My partner loves to touch it too! How funny that we spend our youth thinking that everyone, including other women, expects us to be thin – one photo of a young woman with a beautiful tummy and soft thighs and we go into paroxysms of delight! We should express this all the time to the women in our life. How beautiful a tummy is – how beautiful women are.

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  11. Aku

    i agree with Anouk.
    theres a reason why supermodels are in magazines.
    you people are retarded if you think thats a good picture.
    if you saw a picture of a man with a gut and bingo-wings, you’d complain.
    she looks like a shar pei

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    • Frannie

      This is a gorgeous picture, I am sorry that you can’t agree. This women is obviously healthy and happy and in fact is much more photogenic than the average women. I hope this is not the way in which you speak to yourself! self-love is the first step to loving and respecting others, which you are most definitely not doing with these hurtful and inaccurate words. I hope you can take some time to build some self-love for your own sake and others.

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    • chellebelle

      you have got to be kidding! And please don’t call others retarded – that’s very offensive to many people.

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  12. scd

    Is your self esteem so low, Mia, that you constantly need to find photos of women (mostly celebs) that don’t fit the ‘ideal’ mode – women who have saggy stomachs, fat butts, who are older than you, wrinklier than you, flatter and droopier chested than you (etc) to feel better about yourself? It seems funny that you are so obsessed with praising those who have ‘real’ bodies but when someone is a model with a ‘perfect’ body you have to put them down as having plastic sugery. Jealousy perhaps? Can you only praise those who make you feel better about yourself? Ie fat people or flat chested, flabby stomached women?

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    • Anonymous

      This isn’t about Mia’s self esteem or being jelous. She is trying to make a difference in the media because all we see are flawless images of women.

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      • Guest

        I agree, except I’d like to point out that the whole “flawless” aspect is the whole point. Who’s to say that rail-thin bodies devoid of any natural fat and curves is “flawless”? I think the woman in the photo looks pretty flawless to me. If a small roll of pudge (while seated, mind you) is a major flaw, I wish we could all be so lucky!

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  13. Guest

    I think it’s great that they posted this photo, and agree that yes- there must be baby steps.
    Personally, I don’t feel any different about myself when I see a beautiful, slender (or not) woman.
    We are all beautiful in some way or other and that is what we should celebrate rather than using another woman to tear ourselves down, or vice versa.

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  14. Cass

    The SMH has published a web article about this image.
    http://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/beauty/not-so-thin-lizzies-a-net-star-20090903-f8rm.html
    The thing that drives me crazy is that they haven’t actually used the image that the article refers to! The photo accompanying the artcle is a distorted image of the front page of the mag, which I think misleads readers into thinking Glamour used her on the cover! It also doesnt mention that she was only used once and in a very small image. Grr!

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  15. Jason

    As a man, I would like to say that I would prefer to look at a woman with some curves, rather than the stick figures on catwalks and in most mags. This photo is spectacular and I took the time to show my beautiful partner (who by the way has a beautiful belly like in this photo). She is starting to agree that it is actually “not that bad”. Not that bad, girls you are all hot I reckon.

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    • freckle

      except the stick figures, right?

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  16. Nina

    Jaz, there should be no body type ideal, but this is real life. Come on. In every culture, at every point in time, there’s been a body type ideal for both men and women. And has varied wildly. I’m all for being more accepting and appreciative of the wide variety of body shapes, but it’s a little naive to think that’s how things should be.

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  17. Guest

    I think this is a beautiful photo too. She is not trying to model in a way that would make her ‘appear’ thinner as some people do, and she’s only covering to censor her breasts.
    This gives me an insane amount of confidence as a 21 year old woman, who has spent 3 years since I was 17 battling with a number of eating disorders. I still have very big issues with my body image and am often comparing myself to people in the media and even my friends. I often think “why cant I look like that? I try hard and exercise a lot, eat healthy etc etc etc”.
    It gets very frustrating, but images like these printed in the media give me (and others) a positive outlook and confidence! I too want to look good with clothes off as well as on, and I think the more attention and kudos given to publishing healthy pictures, the more confident, proud and aware society will be – this is true beauty.
    Love it.

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  18. Guest

    Thank you for making me feel not like a freak but just real

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  19. squeak

    I’m 22, my tummy does look a bit like that when I sit down, and seeing images like this reminds me that there are different kinds of beautiful.
    Should I not feel empowered? I’d rather look at this picture and think ‘Yeah, I’m a bit chubby, but I’m still attractive.’ than look at skinny supermodel and not connect with her at all.
    It’s nice to have a reminder that normal can still be beautiful.

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  20. Guest

    Can you all get a grip? This girl is barely out of nappies – she’s 20 for God’s sake!

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  21. lisa

    im with u clarinette,, i must be missing something, i wouldnt have felt empowered looking like that at 20 before children.

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  22. Emily

    Awesome photo. Pretty girl.

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  23. clarinette

    never seen a girl with a belly like hat who didn’t have kids…mine looks kinda like that but i gave birth 2 months ago…i dunno.seems strange to look like this at 20..

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    • Sam

      I’ve had a belly like hers since I was 15. I’ve still got it after two kids and it aint going away soon. I’ve spent my whole adult life hating it because I thought it was abnormal. I truly feel that if I saw more photos like that in my teens and early adulthood, I would have had a much better self-esteem and quality of life. Bring on more pictures of women of all sizes. Beauty does radiate from within after all.

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  24. Kerrie

    Hi Mia, Love your blog site, but do have a teeny comment, you had a go at the editor at glamour for only posting a small shot of this lady, but when you were editor of cosmo, I don’t remember you posting any shots at all of this nature…….

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  25. Kerrie

    ps personally i would prefer not to see such pics i like to see tight abs x

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  26. Kerrie

    Hi Mia, Love your blog site, but do have a teeny comment, you had a go at the editor at glamour for only posting a small shot of this lady, but when you were editor of cosmo, I don’t remember you posting any shots at all of this nature…….

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  27. Kerrie

    Hi Mia, Love your blog site, but do have a teeny comment, you had a go at the editor at glamour for only posting a small shot of this lady, but when you were editor of cosmo, I don’t remember you posting any shots at all of this nature…….

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    • rachael1260

      Mia obviously has more confidence at this stage of her career to buck trends. She’s 40 and wields a certain amount of power in the industry. BUT I completely agree with you. She needs to acknowledge her own role in perpetuating unhealthy ideals. People who live in glass houses….

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      • Mia

        Hey rachael, genuine question: what is a ‘healthy’ ideal? Because sometimes I think this is so subjective…

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  28. wollywally

    Thanks Kate Too, I tought if we all take a picture of our belly magazines, might get the message once and for all! ha ha ha love ooxx

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  29. Kate Too

    wollywally, I love your posts, they always make me smile. If I knew how to make a profile etc I would add my belly too – great idea!

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  30. Lila

    this girl so so beautiful…and also makes me feel a hell of a lot better about myself. even being the same size as this model – size 12…i was told by a male co-worker that “i have a bit of weight on me but i carry it well”. Made me feel larger than I am. seeing this girl is really empowering and more women of real sizes and also different ages should be in magazines. Variety is the spice of life!

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  31. Milly

    Also agree with Anouk….the fashion industry will always use skinny models – its just the way it is and I don’t see it changing (even though I would like it too!) – if models don’t fit the clothes, the designers will get someone else who will. Sad…but true.

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    • Tracey Groombridge

      Unless like most revolutions in history there s a ground swirl of pressure and consumers speak with their wallets.
      I’m optimistic things will eventually chane for the better.

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  32. dramaqueen

    I need to show this photo to my daughters – it is so empowering!

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  33. wollywally

    For solidariety I upload a photo of my belly, loooove my belly, what’s your belly look like ? love ooxx
    ps I am in my scrubby woking clothes

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  34. wollywally

    Spot on MIssManly, love ooxx

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  35. Size10er

    I like the photo and appreciate what everyone’s saying about it. Looks like most of us can relate to the little or not so little tummy.

    But honestly, I love seeing the slim flat-tummied girls in the magazines. I (secretly?) love to gawk at how petite their tummies, waists and hips are and I love to daydream about how easy it would be to go clothes shopping if I had that figure. I don’t obsess about it and then starve myself to be like them but I really like looking at them. So wrong?

    I agree with Anouk. the clothes on the catwalks only look good on skinny models.

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  36. Guest

    I wish I’d seen this photo when I was 20 – it would have made quite a difference to my self-esteem.

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  37. sparselykate

    and bless your socks, I might just try that at home. :)

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  38. SR

    LOVE IT!! More please, here and everywhere else. Stuff like this is such a wonderful reality check, and liberating. Beauty comes in billions of forms so let’s not just see the same old stereotypes that not even the photoshopped models can live up to.

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  39. Chelsea

    I wrote this over on Girl With a Satchel’s blog: “I love this photo so much more than the bare-faced supermodels. Doesn’t this make you feel great about being a woman? I want to walk down the beach in my bikini feeling fabulous and sexy even while knowing my flabulous and stretchy belly is on show.”

    I didn’t find the supermodel photos particularly uplifting or inspiring. They didn’t make me feel better as a woman – in fact I felt the opposite. The images told me that even with professional lighting, hair and make up, I still wouldn’t look as good as these genetically blessed women. But this photo … well … bring on the bikini!

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  40. Lisa

    Great news kids – size 12 in the US is actually a size 14 here in Oz – rejoice! Love her strong thighs too. Hey and on that note, has anyone noticed in ‘So You Think You Can Dance’ the lovely strong thighs on those girls. Fabulous!

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  41. lisa

    yes its a beautiful, natural shot that will never grace the pages of most magazines in all its glory except for the size it was originally printed.
    i am 40 with 3 boys 19,14 and 7 and can relate to the belly.i think its funny most of us are comparing ourselves to her shape post children when she is only 20 and childless.my girlfriends and i certainly didnt have this body prior to having our kids..

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  42. Mia

    Jo – I hear you. I’ve thought a lot about your comment and I have to tell you that you’re right. Baby steps isn’t enough. I guess I try to take a ‘carrot’ rather than a ‘stick’ approach – meaning I think when someone does something you like, you should praise them instead of using it as a way to attack them for not doing more which can make them wonder why they bothered in the first place.
    Like you, I despair too.
    Since I left magazines I have seen so few examples of different sized women in the media that I have become pathetically grateful for any glimpse of a different sized body like this one.
    But you’re right. It’s NOT enough. I am constantly baffled about why so many magazines don’t seem to listen to their readers who – I think – are crying out for more images like this.
    I am convinced that this is one of the reasons for declining circulation. Same-same has become boring and readers are drifting away.
    I think you’re right that very little progress seems to have been made over the last decade in reflecting a more diverse range of bodies and nationalities in magazines which breaks my heart….
    Thanks for calling me out on what I wrote and making me think that little bit harder about it.

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  43. MissManly

    Sucking in your stomach will stengthen muslces in that whole area. In yoga, you are always told to suck in your lower abdomen and pelvic musles – to contain the energy within and PROTECT your lower back.

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  44. Kate Too

    I wonderwhat my husband would say – he probably would be a bit mystified too, given that I unconsciously suck my tummy in almost all the time, a very stupid and unnecessary habit – I don’t think I should have a flat stomach, he certianly doesn’t think I should but there go – I give myself backache by the end of every day.

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  45. Guest

    The multi-billion dollar fashion and beauty industries prey upon women’s insecurities. 17 year old “Supermodels” will always be around because women cannot help but look, compare, criticise, compete and obsess. As a result they will SPEND MONEY on the moisturisers, handbags, botox, liposuction, boob job, Manolos, concealers, brazillians, fake tans (I could go on) to become something that dosen’t really exist.
    Yet, damn it there is nothing as deliciously lovely as devouring a gorgeous spanking new edition of Vogue. Sigh…

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  46. Ximena

    I have a 7yo girl and 7 month old baby boy and turning 40 tomorrow.
    I’ve still got plenty of kilos to go to reach my pre pregnancy weight.
    That said, the most disturbing – DISTURBING – thing for me was the way my tummy folds and falls, exactly like the model’s tummy in the photo. I thought I was deformed! Until now. Thanks for this Mia.

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  47. MissManly

    OK ppl…don’t freak out. I showed the photo to my husband…I asked: “How do you reckon she looks?”. His reply:
    “Looks allright…but what’s that weird flap? Is that supposed to be..a gut? ”
    I pointed out that may be he was just not used to seeing non-skinny, unphotoshopped bodies in magazines….

    But that was his response. I blame photoshopping.

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  48. Kate Too

    Mia, stuff the cosmo award thingy – I say Order Of Australia for services to womankind!
    Namely publication of photo of gorgeous woman with belly overhang, and of real post baby tummies and boobs. Can’t say how much more kindly I feel towards my own bits since seeing that post baby site. Thanks Mia. Seriously loving your work.

    Question for some time after the site relaunch/book tour/crazy busy times, how are things going with the body image advisory group? How about posting giant billboards all across Australia of the photo from this post?!

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  49. Jo

    Im sorry Mia, I’m sure you mean well, but your post smacks of excuses. All those “at LEASTS”, and over-valuing the “baby steps”. What really shows is yet another editor not ready to fully embrace what the readers are crying out for and have been for years. This photo of an stunning yet “normal’ girl is yet another woos out and excuse for not taking real action against the misrepresentation of women in the media. I’m 25, and first started buying Girlfriend, Cleo magazines when I was about 13 years old, then graduating to the older Comso etc. Ever since I can remember these kinds of magazines, and now blogs/womens websites have been running these token ‘body love’ ‘real women’ mini-campaign photo shoots, yet these representation, always lauded as so great and true, remain by far in the minority – if they didn’t photos like this would not get so much press.
    So, Mia, I ask you, where is the baby step? I don’t see any step since buying or reading (now I have stopped buying) these types of magazines/ blogs, as this kind of thing has been going on for at least the past 10 years. Each time the letters flood in, the magazine pats itself on its back for its token ‘empathy with the real women’, and then continue to do what they have always done before. I personally have not seen any real progress, just intermittent ‘we-love-real-women’ mini faux-campaigns which only serve to win a few brownie points for the magazine but do not represent any real progress as far as I can see looking back over the past decade-and-a-bit.
    Mia, I ask you, what makes you happy with the so called ‘baby steps’ when your readers are writing in and calling out for real change?
    I would really love to hear back from you, and hope you do not take this the wrong way – I know you yourself are not to blame for the state of things, but I would suggest you reconsider your role in maintaining the status quo with these ‘baby steps’ that over the past decade have not brought about any real change.
    Best wishes, and I do sincerely enjoy reading your work.

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  50. Guest

    I have never ever seen a picture in a magazine (unless some crazy before & after thing) where a woman had a belly like mine. At 20 I thought there was something wrong with my body, especially my belly (always the bit of myself I hated most) for not being a 6 pack. I’ve long since given up looking in magazines and these days I would kill for that tummy I hated at 20, but after 2 kids I feel like it’s allowed to be flabby.
    So what I’m saying is that I love the pic. She’s beautiful. I realise these days that I should have loved my body at 20, worn a bikini and felt good. I guess when I’m 50, I’ll realise that I should have loved myself at 33, stretch marks and all. Just wish I could really feel it sooner….

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