It’s not often you’re publicly abused before breakfast. But that’s what happened after my Today Show appearance when I exclaimed that I didn’t understand the huge deal about Cadel Evans and thought the coverage of sporting victories was disproportionate. My skin is pretty thick but I will admit the abuse came as a bit of a shock.
Not to my husband. When I called him on my way into work, reeling from the complete slagging that was happening on Twitter, he said “What happened on the show?” and I said “Cadel” and he said “Oh no babe, you didn’t do your ‘sportspeople aren’t heroes’ thing, did you?”
Um, yes. I did.
I didn’t wake up on a hobby horse. I noted that Cadel Evans had won the Tour de France and I thought “oh, that’s nice for him” and that was about it.
My first hint that I was out of step with popular opinion came when the Today Show producer called to tell me about the topics for this morning’s What’s Making News segment.
“Karl wants to do the whole thing on Cadel.” What? The whole segment? Really?
Then, I watched from the make-up room as Karl called for everyone on the set, including Lisa, Dickie and Alicia at the desk, to rise for the national anthem to celebrate Cadel’s win.
There was talk of a public holiday.
And that’s when I started to become really baffled.
The rest is a blur, possibly a nightmare and certainly something I wish hadn’t happened because nobody needs to be called 500 different awful names before they’ve eaten their Weetbix.
This is our segment:
This was my general point:
Good on Cadel. I’m sure it was an achievement and great that he won. I’m not taking anything away from his physical sporting achievement. It’s impressive to be the best in the world at something.
But I’ve always had a problem with the way Australian sportspeople are revered as heroes and worshipped above every other profession.
To me, heroes are people who help other people or who somehow work selflessly to benefit others. Nurses, doctors, scientists working to cure diseases, those who work with sick people or disadvantaged people, fire fighters and those who risk their lives in wars or their daily jobs, those who volunteer…..you get the drift.
That’s my definition of hero. I’m not saying it should be yours.
Clearly, I am in the vast, vast minority here (I certainly know that after today having been called a dog, a bitch, unAustralian, a stupid, ignorant fool, told I should lose my job, fuck off and shut the hell up, go back to writing about lipstick……and that is not even the worst of it).
But sportspeople – who spend their lives honing their physical skills with vast support from sponsors and teams of support people – well, I don’t think the word ‘heroes’ applies to them particularly.
I think pursuing a life doing something you’re good at for the benefit of yourself is not heroic. It’s not a BAD thing, I’m not dissing Cadel (of course not!) but the idea that a sports person should be idolised because they can ride far or jump high or swim fast is, to me, a bit odd. I guess I’m just flagging the fact that if you do well in sport, the country and the media stop to worship you in a way that doesn’t happen to anyone else for doing anything else.
The abuse I received was instant and it continues, seemingly unabated. I have a pretty thick skin but by 8:15 I was in tears. I genuinely miscalculated the level of viciousness my comments (which I have made many times before) would provoke. My bad. Not for stating my opinion but perhaps for misreading the mood and the audience.
Many people have made the point that it’s great to have role models for kids to look up to, to encourage them to get on a bike or kick a ball. I agree absolutely. They’re certainly better role models than rappers or reality TV stars.
But I only wish other kinds of heroes would receive the same media and popular adulation, that kids could see that you could be wildly popular for helping others or doing something other than having a physical skill.
My husband explained to me that it brings people together and that this can’t be a bad thing. I guess. Things that make people feel good are important in a world of bad news. For that reason alone I can understand why it’s a good thing. And with the bad news that’s been around this past weekend, some good news is welcome.
But that’s not something I particularly understand either – I don’t feel closer to anyone or more proud to be Australian etc because someone won the most gruelling bike race in the world.
Anyway. I like to think I have a pretty good handle on popular opinion – not that I necessarily fall in line with it but I usually understand how it works. Not today though.
Two more things.
To those who are accusing me of being a killjoy, I would not have written this post of my own volition. I didn’t feel so strongly about it that I would have written it unprompted. It happened to be my Today Show day and I was asked my opinion and gave it.
Also, Cadel and other sports people are inspirational, strong, yep. We can celebrate them and should celebrate them – just like I celebrated when my cousin won an Oscar a few months ago. But I didn’t call him a hero.
If you strongly disagree with me, I would genuinely love to understand how sporting success makes you feel. Please don’t abuse me for not understanding it, I’ve had enough of that today. Still, I always have my mind open and am ready to learn about other opinions, this morning I was just expressing my own.
For a different view, check out Anthony Sharwood’s piece at The Punch here: http://www.thepunch.com.au/articles/thank-you-cadel-youve-done-us-all-proud/
UPDATE: It’s 24 hours after I posted this and the reaction continues to astonish me. I had no idea that questioning the worship of a sports star could unleash such extraordinary vitriol. To those who have disagreed with me in a calm, civil way, I want to thank you. I have read much (not all) of the response. The Mamamia team have protected me from some of the most offensive abuse by deleting those posts so if you’re planning to leave that kind of comment below, save your breath because I won’t see it.
What I’ve learned from many of the responses is that ‘hero’ can be a subjective term. It may mean something different to you than it does to me. For many, it means role model, someone to look up to. Fair enough. I’m not telling you what to think or who to look up to.
My point was actually meant to be less about the word ‘hero’ than the disproportionate amount of media coverage and public adulation given to sports heroes as opposed to people who achieve equally amazing things in other non-sporting fields.
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1,518 Comments so far
I saw you on the Today show and I thought that Karl made himself look like an ignorant fool. The Australian media idolise sportspeople with no justification. I agree with you entirely and admire you for expressing yourself so concisely on Channel 9 (the home of sport!!!!)
I have never read your blog before but will now be a regular reader. Hopefully you can identify some of those “real heroes” who dedicate themselves to improving the lives of others and making the world a better place.
All the best
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Hang in there Lady, I think i know what you meant to say.
It’s awesome for C.E. that his hard work paid off for him, but that’s not what you were trying to say- what’s wrong with kids looking up to their hard working family G.P., or the police, ambo’s or service men and women.. The “glamor” jobs have changed…
I can only sum it up by asking “why don’t kids want to be astronauts any more???”
Enjoy your breaky..
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I think it’s a fantastic achievement for Cadel but I don’t think it makes him a hero. I bet that if you asked Cadel if he thought he was a hero, he would say no.
I feel like the word “hero” is thrown around a lot within Australian media.
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Wait a second, don’t you run a web site where a large focus is on actors, royals and other celebrities who’s achievements are not much more than smiling in front of a camera? If Nicole Kidman wins an oscar she will be hailed a hero. What for? Not much IMO, but we can be sure she will be featured heavily on mammamia.
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You’d be hard pressed to see any of those people referred to as heroes here. Lovely people just like Cadel, sure, but not heroes.
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You are probably right. But until it blew up here I didn’t see Cadel referred to as a hero either in any of the television, news or twitter I followed. An inspiration and champion maybe, but not hero. If Mia didn’t turn one isolated reference into a big deal it would all be over now.
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Have you been on Mamamia?
Really……?
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I’ve see it, front page of the paper today, big heading that used the word hero…
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Mia, I agree with you on two counts. Cadel Evans has achieved an amazing feat of epic proportions, but he’s not a ‘hero’, and obviously (to me), you shouldn’t be abused for saying so.
I think our society seeks to put labels on people as quickly as possible, hence we have ‘stars’, who are not stars (pick any Kardashian) and heroes, who are not truly heroic in the sense that their achievements are not selfless and for the greater good.
I’m really thrilled Cadel won the Tour de France. It was exciting and made me proud to be Australian. However, I’d be more thrilled if a minute of that attention went towards the children dying of famine in Somalia and the real heroes, who are today trying to save them.
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I’m sorry that you had to start your week this way… Mondays are bad enough without being cyber bashed! I agree with you, Mia…. I would never give a sports person a hero title- unless the had done something to help others or if they used their sporting fame for a good cause.
Hope your day gets better! Have a glass of wine… It’s after 3pm somewhere in the world!
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Statements like ‘he doesn’t even live in Australia’ and an attempt to criticise the salary he’s on didn’t help your cause, Mia.
Sport sponsorship is based on the same principals you present to those companies that support this website. Your hit-out at his wage, is a hit out at the way you make a living, you just don’t realise it.
And Cadel does have an Australian residence, as well as that in Europe – which he must have in order to do his job.
Controversial arguments/opinions are fine. You don’t have to agree, heck, democracy is more interesting if you don’t, but do some research, otherwise the joke’s on you.
Personally, I’m baffled that you’d rather have your children pick up a newspaper with the killer of 92 people on it than someone they could take inspiration from. That’s just plain wrong.
And don’t get me started on the anti-Cadel front pages, when MM had him on its, too.
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Mia – I totally agree – all kudos to this man as a sports person but he isn’t a hero, he is someone to be looked up to in context absolutely but not a hero.
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He may not be a hero to you, but he is to lots of people
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Completely agree with you Mia! I love sports, but I’ve always found the fact that they are revered as role models, earn enormous salaries and have so much sway in our society a little disappointing.
Sure, its a fantastic personal achievement for Cadel to win the Tour de France. But that’s just the thing – its PERSONAL. We can all be happy for him and other sportspeople without holding them up as idols.
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That vast majority of sports stars are not on enormous salaries, the opposite really. For every Cadel who makes it big there are a thousand Aussie cyclists battling on less than minimum wage. Sports people don’t do it for money. It’s a bit like saying I wan’t to get into business, look how rich Donald Trump is.
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I saw you on Today this morning and I do understand where you were coming from.
I think good on Cadel for achieving a personal goal, but I don’t see it as heroic either.
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Who do you think you are?? are you even australian?? stick to what you know which is quite obviously nothing you should have all rights of thinking people care about what you think and thinking your a famous australian. He wore our flag he played our anthem thats pretty aussie to me so sit down and shut up love cause no one cares what u have to say.
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Einstein, is that you?
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Hey idiot… Did u not see the sentence that read please don’t abuse me. Obviously u did care what Mia had to say cause you read the whole thing then bothered to comment. Learn how to be a decent human being maybe then u will understand why mia believes a true hero is a life saver or a fighter for humanity not someone who can perform in a given sport.
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Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. I don’t see how insulting Mia and telling her to ‘Shut up love’ is warranted. I like to think everyone has the right to free speech.
And I think you have missed the whole point of this post – it’s not discussing the fact of whether or not Mia is patriotic.
Why don’t you stop and consider what is actually being discussed before blurting out something stupid….and completely off topic.
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Your grammar and sentence construction speak volumes…..
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I agree with you Mia. I’m in an argument on Twitter (oh, how millenial of me) at the moment with someone who’s claiming that Australians are known for our athletic prowess, so OF COURSE Cadel’s achievement is important.
My response is…is that really all we should be aiming for? That we should be celebrated internationally for how far we can push our bodies? Is that all we think we’re capable of?
I’d personally like to see more government funding directed away from the AIS and towards more noble pursuits that will benefit humankind. I’d like to see Australia become the world leader in tackling climate change. I’d like to see Australia become a leading authority in innovative science. I’d like to see Australia look after its own while not forgetting to contribute to global society as a whole.
I DON’T want to see Australia celebrating a bicycle race as the pinnacle of their achievement. We can do better for everyone – not just for one athlete.
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Last time I looked he had not saved anyone from brain cancer, found a cure for MS, was a carer for someone with a chronic illness or ran a shelter for the homeless. Those people are my heroes.
Good on you Mia for stating the obvious.
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And we should all have the same hereos? He can’t be one too? That doesn’t seem to fit the whole mammamia all inclusive, lets all love and honour each other vibe???
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I completely understand where you are coming from Mia.
I heard the news on the radio this morning in bed and I thought cool, good on him. But I didn’t jump out of bed and run to tell my family or have an all out Yay I’m an Aussie…oi oi oi display. I just didn’t find it exciting.
Australia has always been known for sporting prowess and it’s great that our sportsmen and women achieve so highly. But I don’t see them as heroes either. I would rather see more attention to the real heroes out there, our policemen who put their lives on the line every day for us. The doctors, nurses and ambos who help and save the lives of strangers every day, foster parents , caregivers, charity workers….I could go on forever…these everyday people are heroes in my eyes.
I also strongly find it unAustralian the amount of personal abuse you have received over this. Since when has having an opinion been a crime.
I love your blog and I look forward to your segment on the today show. Chin up
Remember that old idiom, sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me.
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I agree totally with Mia, and am always offended by people who think their opinion shpuld be voiced inan abusive or offensive way. Agree or disagree but include a measured argument. I am tired of seeing the term “unaustralian” used. One issue does not some up the totality of a person.
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Life is organic, it’s full of shades of murky ambivalence. We might hail the doctor who finds a cure for cancer but betcha boots Lance Armstrong inspired lots of cancer sufferers to keep fighting the good fight. Cadel, as someone in the post commented, might not have set up a homeless shelter but I do some voluntary work with homeless kids and the thing I enjoy doing most with them is sport because it provides so many opportunities to discuss lessons on life without lecturing. That can be anything from thinking things through and figuring out why you can’t kayak while smoking a cigarette to believing in yourself and giving hard things a go. I wish I had room here to publish the speech from a drug addicted kid who said the best thing he’d done in years was to stand up on a surf board for the first time when he didn’t think he could.
Similarly I’ve helped lots of novice women complete their first running race and often their first comment as they cross the line is: “That’s the first thing I’ve done for me,” or “That’s my best achievement ever.” Once a woman has discovered she’s strong enough to run 10kms or lift a weight, she often finds the confidence to do a million other things she didn’t think she could do.
At the moment my partner is training for his first triathlon to support a mate who has depression and needs those sorts of goals to heave himself out of his black hole. I spent this weekend cycle training with my partner and as we tackled the relatively tiny hills of Kuringai, the image that kept us both grinding away was that of Cadel Evans who kept on keeping on.
There are crappy sports stars who let us down, sure. But there are crappy doctors who are rude and arrogant and leave you feeling vulnerable and frightened, crappy firemen who bully their colleagues, crappy everyone in every profession. And as one who sat up til the early hours watching Cadel compete in the Tour, I have to say: Nothing crappy about that at all.
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I can’t seem to reply directly to Rick’s last … but I think he’s being possibly a little disingenuous (or too trusting!). I would bet London to a brick that there was a conversation BEFORE the segment where they (Mia + Karl or one of his producers) discussed EXACTLY what Mia was going to say … you can see it in the way Karl introduces the segment and sets Mia up to launch into it, and the way that Mia is obviously rehearsed.
Look, I understand, it’s breakfast television, it’s a game, it’s entertainment, it’s not real. But for a lot of people watching, it seems real, which is why you get this reaction. I don’t think you can defend her by saying “well, she was just answering question”. She was on there for a specific purpose, and thought she knew what she was doing.
But she miscalculated.
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Couldn’t agree more Anon and Mark.
Rick you’re too quick to jump to Mia’s defence under the guise of “let’s keep this argument clean”. I would argue that you’re overly protective of Mia as she is your boss.
Karl didn’t “push her”. She’s a paid commentator and was clearly uninformed about what she was talking about. Mia needs to have a thicker skin.
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Wow, that is it. Mia loses, you win Andre. What a compelling argument!!!!
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