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Screen shot 2012 06 30 at 8.38.23 AM 380x277 Katie Holmes paid $3 million a year to stay married

UPDATE

After 5 years, a scientology marriage ceremony, a daughter born during a silent birth, endless chatter about their age difference, countless red carpet appearances and a declaration of love, live on Oprah – Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes are splitting.

Once you have a standalone ‘couple name’ ala Brad and Angelina, then there really is no question that you’ve made it in Hollywood. And yesterday brought the news that ‘Tomkat’ is no more.

The split had everyone talking about the future custody arrangements for their daughter Suri and whether Katie would break with the Church of Scientology. But today the media circus moves on… to the pre-nup.

The Courier Mail reports:

The details? For each year the couple stay married, the Dawson’s Creek actress collects $3 million – to a maximum of $33 million after 11 years – as well as their palatial home in California.

Then, if their marriage had lasted more than 11 years, Holmes would have received half of Cruise’s reportedly $250 million fortune.

After filing for divorce less than six years later, according to the agreement, Holmes should only be entitled to $15 million as well as the couple’s $35 million Beverly Hills mansion. But with an estate worth upwards of $275 million, Holmes is expected to seek more and there is already speculation as to how much she will collect when the papers are signed.

Sources say the 33-year-old is asking for a “suitable amount” of child support, as well as a division of property, though no mention was made of the prenuptial agreement in divorce papers.

TMZ are quoting that the famously controlling Tom Cruise, has said that he is ‘very sad’ about his wife’s decision and ‘did not see this coming’.

Ninemsn reports:

The office of New Jersey divorce attorney Jonathan Wolfe confirmed to the Los Angeles Times that he is representing 33-year-old Holmes in the proceedings, but declined to say whether the process had formally begun.

“This is a personal and private matter for Katie and her family,” the attorney told People magazine. “Katie’s primary concern remains, as it always has been, her daughter’s best interest.”

TMZ reports:

Katie Holmes is the one who filed for divorce and Tom Cruise was “blindsided” by Katie’s legal move … TMZ has learned.

We know Katie filed the divorce docs in New York on June 28, citing “irreconcilable differences.”  She is asking for sole legal custody and “primary residential custody” of the couple’s 6-year-old daughter, Suri.

We also know Katie is asking for a “suitable amount” of child support .. this according to the divorce docs.

Katie also asks for a division of property in her divorce docs, although we know there was a significant prenup that is based on California law.  Katie makes no mention of the prenup in her filing.

We’re also told there is some “nastiness” here, evidenced by Katie’s move to get sole legal custody.

Tom’s rep has released a statement saying, “Kate has filed for divorce and Tom is deeply saddened and is concentrating on his three children.  Please allow them their privacy to work this out.”

So what’s next for Suri Cruise, the 6-year-old fashionista with the multimillion dollar wardrobe, who is almost has famous as her celebrity parents? Leslie Gornstein from E! Online says:

I spoke to several high-powered celebrity divorce attorneys who have been following the split. If you buy some of the tabloid reports, Katie may or may not be seeking sole custody of Suri and she may have filed in New York.

If she did file in the Big Apple, that’s a very telling fact, I am told.

“It’s the public policy of New York state to recognize pre-nuptial agreements,” says Paul Talbert, partner at Chemtob Moss Forman & Talbert LLP. California, by contrast, is known for being friendlier to people hoping to fight a prenup.

Now, it’s pretty much a given that Tom and Katie’s prenup—and by all indications, there is one—likely favors the Rock of Ages actor in the cash department. So if Katie filed in NYC, she might desire something else instead, something she really thinks she can get. And that would be her daughter.

“It’s very interesting if she filed there,” Talbert tells me. “If she filed in New York, as opposed to Colorado or California, that would lead me to believe that there is a significant purpose to that filing, and my best guess is that this is where she wants to live with Suri.”

Suri reportedly attends a Scientology-influenced school in California. The logical takeaway if Katie filed in New York? She may want her daughter out of that school, too.

Katy Perry and Russell Brand split last year after 14 months of marriage

 

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172 Comments so far

  1. John

    I think it’s sad when any couple break up, especially when there are children involved.

    My thoughts go out to Tom, Katie and little Suri during this difficult time.

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  2. Donna m

    A really eerie coincidence is that all of Tom’s marriages ended when the wife was 33. Mimi, nicole and now Katie, mmmmm wonder if there’s something weird about that number?

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  3. Anonymous

    Half after 11 years. No wonder Nicole got turfed around the 10 year mark.

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    • Anonymous

      Yes, I’ve heard that before. When celeb couples break up before 10yrs I wonder… coincidence? Unfortunate? Premeditated?

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  4. brizzy

    I’m really saddened about this split. I always read the media reports that implied they were living separately and unhappy but I thought that they were actually very happy and we would all see that when we read about their 30 or 40 yr anniversary. Oh well maybe they will live happy ever after someday.

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  5. thenezzie

    Katie should have stayed home and had her mums lamb roast.

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    • Charlotte

      Hahahahaha that’s gold!!!!

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  6. Anonymous

    Yay for Katie, no more sugar Daddy, now she can be herself and now she can hopefully find another man that can be honest with themselves and will treat her properly.

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  7. Serena

    More importantly… Who gets the Beckhams in the divorce??!??

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  8. Anon

    Tom and Katie’s marriage was a reall as John and Kelly’s is.. Publicity people. Let’s not forget that Scarlett Johansson was first approached by Scientology to be Tom’s next wife but she saw since and ran for the hills. Katie was the perfect candidate because she famously said in an interview that she wanted to marry Tom Cruise when she was growing up.

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    • aless

      yeah, Scarlett ran STRAIGHT to Ryan Reynolds.

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    • Anonymous

      ‘she famously said in an interview that she wanted to marry Tom Cruise when she was growing up’ – and that’s the creepiest part of all! He was already grown up when she said that.

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    • Donna m

      I don’t believe it can only be for publicity. Who has kids for publicity? They are real families, I think telling these kids that they were only born to further their parents careers and reputation is really hurtful.

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  9. Jane DJ

    Very smart – dress her daughter in ludicrously expensive designer clothes , keep every receipt as proof of the cost of supporting her daughter, then insist the cost of upkeep was astronomical, and get a hefty financial child support arrangement….Katie’s no dumb bunny.

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    • tanlee

      Hmm, that seems a tad cynical in the face of an event that is no doubt very sad and distressing (if not traumatic) for all parties. I’ve been through a divorce and it was no easy matter.

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      • Jane DJ

        Let me imagine a scenario – a bright young woman falling forTom’s charisma, whirlwind romance, lightning quick impregnation.

        In light of a water tight pre-nup agreement that she has voided, combined with the slow filtering through of the realisation of how burning crazy the Scientology religion/lifestyle is – yep, I’d have been putting on a good natured tolerance of the lavish excesses too, then run as soon as the Scientology school indoctrination of Suri started.

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  10. AJS

    I’d bet the marriage was about as real as the marriage between Rock Hudson and Phyllis Gates.

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  11. Jimmy's Girl

    Lamb roast, anyone?

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  12. Seahorse

    I don’t know what the relationship between Nicole and Katie is like, but wouldn’t they have a swell time swapping stories over a bottle of Chardonnay?

    Maybe Nic can give a few tips on how to get Suri out too, after the probs she had getting Connor and Isabella out.

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    • kirsten

      Would you take tips on how to get your kid out from someone who ‘failed’ to get her kids out?

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      • Pollyanna

        You are assuming that the wishes of the children were not taken into consideration.

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      • Ree2

        They also may have decided that it was in the best interests of the children that they be with their father. It is not such a far fetched idea that this could be the best option at the time.

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  13. Heather Smith

    Mimi Rogers 1956; Nicole Kidman 1967; Katie Holmes 1978 – analysis says Tom Cruise’s next wife was born in 1989 …

    (I saw that quote somewhere)

    I have never gone through a divorce, but I would have loved this to have read the mother sort sole custody of her and NOTHING else. If you were really concerned about your child’s WELFARE, wouldn’t that be what you would seek?

    I dislike it when people say; I am divorcing for the safety / sake of the children, but then spend years fighting for cash and property…in the name of the child.
    I would rather be poor and know my child was safe.

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    • daughtersofmassdestruction

      If she were going for the money she would have filed for divorce in California where the pre-nup wouldn’t stand and she would likely have been granted 50% of Tom’s assets. Filing in NYC renders her way more likely to get sole custody plus whatever she was entitled to in the pre-nup.

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    • Anonymous

      It cost money to raise a child – both parents should be responsible for it, not just the mother.

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      • Anonymous

        I like to think of Katie as a small town girl, and that she won’t get caught up fighting for money. Of course it costs to raise a child but I’m raising two on my salary (not much). I guess it’s all relative, and they live to their means… oh well… good luck to the three of them. I hope it works out, as well as it can, anyway.

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  14. bek

    Hopefully now she’ll put on a few kilos and start smiling again

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  15. Shannon

    I cant help but be reminded of the interview where it was stated that Bella and Connor call Katie “mum”

    Glad you are free Katie !!

    Tom makes great movies and was a childhood crush (Risky Business/ Top Gun era) but he has become a weirdo!!

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    • Sally

      Whatever you think of Tom Cruise though, don’t you feel it a little sad his older children risk losing the woman they have come to see as their mother from their lives? If they lose Katie too then that’s two mother figures lost from their lives within a decade or so. That they called Katie “mum” suggests she filled a void after Nicole Kidman was axed from Tom’s life. Whatever you happen to think about Tom or Katie or Nicole I think a little compassion for these young people (Tom’s adopted children) is in order

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    • shanny

      the first time i heard that i thought if i were nicole and they were my kids, it would be like a knife through the heart, and then thought “gee, imagine if katie and tom broke up and katie’s kids started calling tom’s new wife ‘mum’…”, that would really bring it home!

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    • anon

      I feel for their birth parents too. Thinking they were giving their children up for a better life. Sure their adoptive parents are millionaires, yet they have lived a rather dysfunctional life despite all of their material advantages.
      Probably would have been happier in a poor household full of love and stability.

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  16. Ree2

    Just a random thought – I wonder if Tom is bald and that is just a really good wig?

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    • anon

      Have you seen the photo of John Travolta this week? Now that is a bad wig!

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      • Ree2

        As in *eeeewwww*.

        I used to fancy John when he was in “Welcome back Kotter”. Not all men age well.

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  17. Mosquitonet

    Mamamia team – would be great if you could do a post on Scientology

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  18. phoodietweets

    SH’ES FREE AT LAST!

    SO happy for her!

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  19. simone

    calling someone a ” midget” is offensive. My son is short in stature and there’s nothing wrong with him.

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    • Sydgel

      Thank you for comment, I have edited it and apologise for the offense.

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  20. Sydgel

    Absolutely no surprise here, he’s been away doing non stop movies – keeping his stardom alive! – whilst she’s stayed at home with Suri.

    Anyway he’s a tiny man!!!

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    • Victoria

      There’s not much he can do about his physical stature, so why pick on that? There’s SO much else to choose from with Tom.

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      • guest

        I agree. My son is also very short, but what he lacks in height he makes up for in awesome personality. I find it pretty pathetic that Tom’s height is brought into this!

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  21. lani93

    Oh gosh, I want so badly for Katie to do some kind of scandalous tell all interview with Oprah, just to get some kind of insight into Tom’s strange, mysterious world.
    I also really hope Katie does get full custody of Suri. The thought of children being brought up in a religion like that makes me shudder. The contact she has with scientology needs to be minimal.
    Good luck Katie!

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  22. Anonymous

    Can anyone shed some light on what exactly we all mean when we talk about Tom in relation the cult/Scientology/ etc. I can’t stand him but I want to know more. What exactly does he believe in/practice. I need specifics. Plus I can see what Katie saw in him. He is very generous and romantic and exciting and gushes like a nob. He is full on. What young woman woulnt fall for the private jet whisking her to Paris etc. I think she’s now grown up and realised for whatever reasons that it’s not for her. I think Tom lies a lot too. Remember all the gushing he did during marriage to Nicole only to dump her without warning. Maybe he’s dumped Katie too and calling the shots on who says what so he can seem the victim.

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    • Victoria

      Google Scientology – it will keep you busy for hours … and scare you.

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    • anon

      I agree. He doesnt seem to have a sincere bone in his body, he just comes across as so fake. The world is a stage for him and everything he does seems to be an act.

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    • Lozi

      I wouldn’t fall for any private jet, no matter where it was going, if it contained Tom Cruise *shudder*

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  23. misha

    Smart move Kaitie.

    From the posts below, it would appear Tom is a controlling, religious fruitcake who treated Nicole badly and may or may not be gay , but you have to admit, that the man appears to have discovered the fountain of youth.

    Would love to know his “beauty” regimen because whatever he is doing – its working. He;s been looking 20 years younger lately.

    Still wouldnt marry him though

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    • Loop

      Anyone looking 20 years younger all of a sudden probably has a beauty regimen involving Juvederm and/or Botox plus assorted other artificial assistance …

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  24. Anonymous

    I’d be very surprised if this is the real story. Tom is a master of spinning stories to the press. He couldn’t leave her without hurting his image, but her leaving him out of nowhere can spun in both their favours.

    As for Katie, she was a grown woman when they met, fully capable of making her own decisions. Marrying Tom kept her relevant (when she met him she was just that girl from Dawson’s Creek who hadn’t done much since). She got more out of the relationship PR wise than he did.

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  25. Sue

    I just read ‘Inside Scientology’, scary, scary stuff. This organisation (cult) took on the US Tax Department and won! I wonder what they did to Nicole Kidman after they deemed her a ‘suppressive person’.

    If Kate does try to get Suri away they will try to destroy her. Although maybe she has dirt on them…..

    Good luck Katie, run fast and stay safe!

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  26. Angel

    Seeking sole custody is the clue in all of this. Poor Suri. Poor Katie. Poor Katie’s ex boyfriend. Poor Katie’s parents having to watch over their daughter all these years.

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    • Sydgel

      Poor Katie’s “ex boyfriend”??? How come????

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      • Me here

        Katie was going out with Chris Klein (from American Pie) when she met Tom. Apparently, he was shocked to be dumped at the time…

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        • BCG

          Ive always thought Suri looks alot like Chris Klein… and Tom didnt have any kids with his other wives so I always thought there was a story there!

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  27. oopsyboops

    I try not to buy into hollywood stories and gossip, but Tom Cruise is one celebrity that I am fascinated with and can’t not read stories about. Of course we don’t know what really happens behind closed doors, but gee we can speculate…

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  28. Jimmy's Girl

    Often I will feel sad about a celebrity split, especially if the couple seemed well suited. But this pair were always a very odd match, and I am neither surprised nor saddened by it. The whole thing seemed like a set up from the start. Tom has never had the ‘look of love’ for Katie – even in the pics above, Tom only has eyes for his ‘audience’. Good luck to Katie in the future and I really hope she doesn’t get cut off from Suri in the fallout.

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    • Suze

      I would hope neither parent is “cut off from Suri in the fallout”…

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  29. Delilah

    People in the public eye, who use the public to advance their own interests have little chance of privacy when their lives unravel. They let the world in when it suits them and then they want the world to go away when it doesn’t suit them anymore? Doesn’t work like that. Everyone will have an opinion and everyone will be an expert. Tom Cruise and the lovely Katie Holmes never looked right to me. Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman looked super wrong. Doesn’t mean Ii know what happened in their lives. I just feel that something just didn’t make sense about either couple. Always thought they would break up. I think the same about Julia Gillard and her Tim. They don’t seem right to me either. Something just doesn’t fit.

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    • Pollyanna

      Given that nearly one in three marriages in Australia ends in divorce, you could say this about just about any couple. Nothing to do with “they just don’t fit”.

      Its a bit like always being able to pick the Melbourne cup winner having narrowed the field down to 8 horses and then telling everyone how clever I was.

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    • Sydgel

      I think Julia and Tim make a great couple, fanastically suited.

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    • Tatyana

      I agree with Delilah, something about Julia Gillard and her Tim don’t look right. I could say more but I won’t. Of course couples who look wonderful together can also break up. But an opinion about whether a couple appear the real deal can be made by everyone and anyone. I’ve been shocked by people who split up who looked so much in love but not shocked when a couple who just didn’t seem to be quite right together call it quits. Good for you Delilah. I agree with you.

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  30. Suze

    Katies own father is an attorney specialising in divorce. I am sure with his knowledge and contacts, and her money, she will assemble an excellent legal team! She has gotten off to a good start.

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  31. Kayla

    Tom Cruise is blindsided by the divorce. I remember when Nicole Kidman was blindsided by Tom. Karma can sure be a bitch……..

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    • Delphi

      Ooooh Kayla. My sentiments exactly!

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    • Sydgel

      He is “acting” blindsided. He’s been away for months on end doing various movies. I reckon it’s been over for a while and he’s now, cleverly, aiming for sympathy. He’s a smart man and a good actor.

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  32. KookyChic

    Its amusing to see so many people commenting as if they actually knew Tom and Katie!

    You dont know any more about this relationship than you know about Mr and Mrs Jones down the road.

    You know what you see in the media (New Weekly, WHO, Famous, Perez Hilton?) the ultimate bastions of truth!

    So Tom has acted a little nuts over the years, there are gay rumours (there are gay rumours about just about every male celeb at different times) and hes a member of the Church of Scientology (so is Kate Cebrano, Giovanni Rabisi, Juliette Lewis, Jenna Elfman to name a few) thats all you really know about Tom. You dont really know what happened between Tom and Nicole, and you definitely dont know anything about Katie.

    Dont you feel a little silly talking like you have more information that you do?

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    • Suze

      You read my mind KookyChic!! None of us actually know anything about these people other than what the tabloid media feed us, and this is only going to get worse as divorce proceedings continue and PR units representing both sides swing into overdrive, including that of the Church of Scientology.

      Disclaimer: I use the term ‘Church’ loosely when referring to Scientology…

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    • Anon

      Nope, I don’t feel silly. Any 40-something who is willing to jump on Oprah’s couch to (quite literally) shout to the world that he’s so in love after several high profile failed marriages/relationships is fair game for a bit of relationship dissection in my book!

      By the way I know loads more about these two high profile public figures than I know about Mr and Mrs Jones down the road, or even myself for that matter – there’s no privacy in public life these days!

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    • Pollyanna

      There is a Scientology video that gives a really good clue as toTom’s personality *scared shudder*.

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    • Bluebell

      Geez, lighten up Kooky, we all know we don’t know them….. really we do.

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      • KookyChic

        My coment was very light hearted, like I said, I find it amusing.

        I said the comments were written ‘as if’ they actually knew Tom and Katie – I have quite a good grasp on the fact that they don’t actually know them.

        My point is that what people know is fed to them by the media. Even inteviews can be heavily edited to pur things out of context.

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    • Sydgel

      You’re absolutely right. We will now stop having any fun and get back to the excitement of our normal but mundane lives….

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      • KookyChic

        Oh yeah I guess you’re right, its so much fun speculating about celebrity divorces, what was I thinking?

        Seriously? help me out here, what part of this is fun? I’d rather do the groceries and scrub the toilet than speculate about someone elses life.

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        • Jen

          And yet here you are…

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  33. R

    I understand what it is to fall in love with a man whose religion you don’t agree with, and it’s a damn tough situation. Personally, I decided to build a life with the man I love but not have kids.

    If she really doesn’t agree with his religion then Katie dug herself into hell of a hole by having Suri, and I feel really sorry for her. Whether she loves Tom or not is irrelevant if she thinks that Scientology will damage her daughter.

    Good on her for making this move, I think it’s terribly sad but incredibly brave.

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  34. becauseimthemum

    What? He couldn’t see it coming? I could see it from here.

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    • R

      I doubt very much she gave him no indication! Sounds like a play for public sympathy to me.

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  35. jon

    katie, i am available. Can we hook up?

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    • Sydgel

      Tom, I am available. Can we.. naaaa don’t worry

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  36. anon

    Its no surprise, she has looked miserable in photos for ages. She was once such a vibrant woman but she has been looking very down and sad for a long time.
    I hope she can find her spark again and be happy. And it sounds like she hasnt let him sap all her spunk away, she made some nifty moves in the legal stakes at least!
    Anyone can marry the wrong person and get divorced, but after 3 divorces I think thats a big sign that person is the problem.

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  37. Anonymous

    It’s certainly a shorter contract than poor Nicole had!

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  38. Sweetjane

    I guess her contract is up…

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    • Ziggy

      This is exactly what we said this morning when we heard Sweetjane.
      I am happy she is away from him and I hope she can find her own Keith Urban now.

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  39. Guest

    Two hollywood actors get married. Like so many do.
    Two hollywood actors split up..just like almost every hollywood couple does and a significant number of regular people do.

    Why is this even news? I can’t believe people are speculating about the details. WTF?

    The wheels really are falling off… maybe there needs to be a list of human beings we are allowed to slag off and a list of those who are out of bounds. There is such a double standard going on here.

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  40. daughtersofmassdestruction

    Well I can’t say I’m surprised. I read something three months ago that said that she had agreed to stay until the publicity for Rock of Ages was over and then would be out of there. Good for her.

    I find it hard to believe that someone would bring a child into a contract marriage with an expiry date, I certainly hope that wasn’t the case. Regardless it sounds like she is a smart cookie and is going to do her best to get Suri away from the Scientology cult. Suri is younger than her elder siblings were at the time Nicole and Tom divorced, and as they were older their desire to stay with dad/Scientology was part of the custody arrangement. This time the courts will be looking at her best interests without any potentially brainwashed testimony from Suri.

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    • Rister

      Thats right, Nicole said that in an interview I believe – that she would dearly love to see them more and even have them live with her however the kids were older and it was their choice.

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    • mummamaya

      And yet Nicole didn’t fight for her children. She moved far away. She now says that she wishes she had spent more time with them but she turned and ran to wherever her current beau was living. To me, it was more about Nic than the kids. But who am I to say, I had to stay and fight a massive war when my marriage broke up, I stayed firm and I kept primary custody… there really was no alternative for this mother to take. Ain’t no way I’d leave them behind.

      Interesting how Katie did choose NYC ~ about as far from the Scientology Centre in LA as she can be and still keep her finger in the pie of her craft. I hope she retains her dignity ~ and the bulk of custody of her child.

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      • Eddie

        Its a bit hard to fight the wishes of an older child.

        My son was fourteen when he made the decision to live with his father. Apparantly it is quite common for a teenage boy to choose his father. I am sure that with good parentlng that can be a reasonable decision so I wouldn’t be too critical of Nicole.

        Sadly my son now looks back on his decision with regret. Good parenting is not always available.

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        • anonymous

          I think there’s a great deal that Nicole is not allowed to say about that time. I fear she wasn’t allowed her children.

          You can’t fight something as huge and influential as the Church of Scientology. Plus, as Eddie points out, the kids were older.

          And Eddie, it’s interesting but I’ve had a few friends who’ve had sons who chose to live with their fathers when they were about that age and then moved back home within about 4 months…I hope you’re ok with it all…I know how heartbreaking it can be.

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          • Eddie

            Thanks. I am getting better. It is difficult to get the relationship back on track but we are all working on it.

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        • kirsten

          Connor was six when they divorced. Do you think he made the decision to stay with his dad or would that decision be made by his parents?

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      • Faybian

        Nicole was single for some time after her break up with Tom. Maybe she didn’t feel she could fight it at the time.

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  41. Rister

    Loved reading the comments below! I am certainly not innocent of thinking or saying majority of them myself HOWEVER, although I don’t think divorce is a nice process for anyone I think we should stop with the whole ‘Poor Katie’….She was an adult when they met. We all have our choices, allbeit some are ones we might regret later in life but no one held a gun to her head people! I think we should sympathise as I am sure this wasn’t the result she wanted going in, but it does her an injustice to treat her like some poor pathetic little kitten who was forced into this relationship. Who knows, maybe she realised it a little sooner than 5 years into it (which is my suspicion) but possibly has a little pride in wanting to stick it out to fend off the ‘I told you so’ comments that we are all saying now…

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    • Shelly in PNG

      Yep, yep and yep! Besides, she didn’t exactly have a hard life. Mind you, I say that from the outside looking in. Nobody knows what life is like behind closed doors

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  42. Petal

    No wonder she’s filing in NY. She wants to keep her daughter! Unlike bloody Nicole who lost her children to a controlling maniac! Good on you Katie! Can’t help feeling a bit scared for her though; hope she doesn’t lose Suri.

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    • Faybian

      She learned a very big lesson watching what happened to Nicole with the kids, I reckon and is determined that it won’t happen to her.
      It would be interesting to be fly on the wall if her and Nicole got together post divorce.

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    • Sydgel

      Nicole did not “lose” her children, she just didn’t bother. Even when they, Nicole & Tom, were together the two kids were shoved off to various schools and rarely saw their parents.

      It’s all an illusion.

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      • Anonymous

        And you know this personally do you? Oh to sit on the side lines and judge…

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        • anonymous as well

          Sydgel, that simply isn’t true. There’s a whole lot more to that story that will come out one day.

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          • Sydgel

            Do tell! Seriously. I was told by some senior journalists who were writing about their breakup at the time.

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            • Leftie

              And a journalist would know all the facts because …….. ?

              And even if they did, they chose not to publish because ……….?

              No, I can’t answer these questions either.

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      • anon

        and you were privy to their custody arrangement , were you sydgel?

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  43. Guest

    Katie knew what she was doing all along and followed in Nicole’s footsteps and married him to advance her career … and I don’t personally agree with Scientology, but Katie chose that religion’s practices of her own free-will for her wedding, the birth of their daughter and has raised Suri with those religious beliefs and practices for the past 6 years – Katie should be held accountable for that just as much as Tom.

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    • Sydgel

      But unlike Nic, Katie has not advanced her career. She hasn’t even really bothered with it but instead has focused totally on her daughter.

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      • bek

        Actually, I think Katie has done some work on broadway etc, maybe she doesn’t want to be a big movie star in LA but is happy dabbling in acting in NYC. That’s hardly an odd decision, plenty of others do the same. Good luck to her I say

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      • MiddleC

        And Nicole did the same when married. Did a few movies, but she mainly stayed home with the kids. Her career only sky rocketed after the split.

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        • Sydgel

          I don’t think so… could be wrong but she did a lot of movies but they were mostly flops. The Stanley Kubrik movie, Moulin Rouge, Stepford Wives movie and many others while she was married.

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          • Eddie

            I loved Moulin Rouge.

            And that other movie where she played the TV weather girl.

            And correct me if I am wrong but didn’t she win an Academy Award?

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  44. Cinnamon

    Why she married him in the first place is beyond me! I don’t know these celebrity couples just confuse me.

    ‘irreconcilable differences’ – everyone’s reasoning in Hollywood!

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  45. Anna

    I don’t know what she thought she was doing marrying him in the first place. She was over the age of consent. She can’t have been that dumb or that much in love to marry one of the most famous & controversial figures on the planet and not see where it was headed.

    The rumours about his sexuality have been doing the rounds for decades. It’s not new. If the truth is that he’s gay & both marriages were contracts then I have no respect for either Nicole or Katie, because of the children if nothing else.

    Good luck to her on getting full custody. The church of Xenu wants that one as well as the other two.

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    • Sydgel

      Oh come on we’ve all made bad choices in men,well most of us have. I certainly have.

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  46. m

    I would like to preface this by saying I have NEVER liked Tom and I too am guilty of judging celebrities based on tabloid speculation.

    Im looking closely at the public’s reaction to this news I have to conclude that people don’t have much respect for Katie. This is a grown woman who made the decision to marry a man and has now made the decision to divorce him to suggest otherwise is offensive. To suggest that she is a victim or unable to make decisions based purely public perception of their relationship reflects just as badly on Katie as it does on Tom. In the end we are all delighting in a horrible situation that is only going to get worse as proceedings continue. What does that say about us?

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    • m

      sorry to get so philosophical on a Saturday morning! lol!
      Also my apologies for spelling grammar etc I can’t edit on my phone!

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  47. Brave Heart Sportswear

    Finally some FREEDOM for Katie. It would have taken a lot of courage for her to get out as Im sure she knows she will have a fight on her hands.

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  48. YoungVintage

    This is so sad… I hate hearing about hollywood break ups :( I guess it really does prove that money doesn’t equal happiness…

    If Pacey and Diane Kruger ever split I’ll be devo! Same goes for Channing Tatum and his beautiful lady… They’re my celeb crushes.

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    • Anonymous

      I agree! Even though I’m not a fan of Tom, still sad. Also, I love both those couples! Diane is beyond beautiful, reminds me of Grace Kelly.

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  49. alliekat

    Wow, what a fascinating saga – so shocking and yet not shocking! Always wondered about the contract that was rumoured as a cover for him – Looks even more likely now we see the outcome – 5 years, 1 kid and she is out of there. My instinct was always to feel sorry for her however if she went into it eyes wide open to make cash or fame, then I guess they are as calculating as each other?! Hollywood huh.

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  50. kirk_is_innocent

    Interesting that he didn’t see it coming when we all did???

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