It was one of her first outings with her newborn. The baby was curled up and swaddled to her chest. Maybe she needed clothes, supplies; maybe she just need to get out of the house.
What she didn’t need was to be body shamed.
New mum Kelly Howland was shopping in a department store last Wednesday when she was approached by a woman looking to promote a weight-loss program.
“I’m a brand new postpartum mom,” Howland posted to Facebook following the incident.
“A woman approaches me and chats me up the usual small talk about ‘how old is she?’ and ‘how much does she weigh?’ And then she asks The Question. ‘Have you heard of It Works before?'”
For the uninitiated, ‘It Works’ is a line of weight loss products. The company is known for “that crazy wrap thing“, a cloth wrap infused with a botanical formula designed to “tighten, tone and firm” the skin.
There are garments for thighs and stomachs and hips and upper arms.
Howland wasn't surprised she was approached by the 'It Works' sales representative. She believes her "baby billboard of being brand new postpartum" made her a predicable target.
"Let's not pretend that approaching me specifically was a coincidence," she wrote to Facebook.
Top Comments
I think a better message is that *no woman* needs that sort of pressure. Post partum women are no different to nulliparous women; nobody appreciates having someone come up to them and suggest that they are fat (particularly if they are selling a gimmick rather than a real solution!). We don't need to celebrate women for their ability to child bear (or protect them for the same reason); we just need to celebrate women for just being them.