There’s a niggle in your gut that you just can’t shake. He’s come home late again, too tired for eye contact, let alone sex. Or your baby seems really sick, even though the doctor says it’s just a high temperature.
Sometimes it’s hard to know whether that feeling is your intuition whispering the truth, or you’re just being anxious and a bit paranoid.
Rachel Voysey is a psychologist and ‘cheating expert’ from the Relationship Room in Balmain. She says there’s new research that shows that there are neural networks in our brain, heart and gut.
“It suggest there is real intelligence in ‘just knowing’ or feeling something. That the intuitive heart and gut actually do communicate with the subconscious parts of the brain. It may be more scientific than we thought,” she says.
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Voysey believes that where infidelity is concerned, most of the time a woman’s intuition is right.
“Basically you would say that there’s definitely a level of intuition you have around cheating. There’s a certain level of disconnect that needs to happen before an affair begins. Having a single liaison maybe you won’t pick it up, but if it’s an affair there has to be a certain level of turning away from you and turning towards someone else. There needs to be a certain level of resentment, and they might start hiding their phone, or coming home late, or avoiding the children. There’s a series of events that have led to that disconnect.”
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When a woman loves you,she loves for real and its always quite obvious. with my partner it was love at first sight and everything was going well until he started acting up. Restraining his mobile from my reach which made me more suspicious.
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