UPDATE: After calling the clinic in Sydney, we’ve decided to visit on Monday instead of today, when only staff will be present. We’ll still be live tweeting and will post about the delivery next week.
When two friends in the UK noticed a group of pro-life supporters outside their local abortion clinic silently maintaining a vigil, they decided to act.
A counter protest didn’t seem right – why draw attention to the protesters and further upset women going to clinic? What they wanted to do was something for the people inside the clinic; the staff, and the women accessing services who would be most affected.
They decided on treats. Jaffa cakes, doughnuts, flowers and yo yos. Every day for 40 days they took the treats to the organisation to give something back to the people “that provide excellent services and don’t deserve people on their doorstep being annoying.”
“Let’s make people happy” was the message the two women – Carmen D’Cruz and Liz Lutgendorff – wrote on their website, which they named 40 Days of Treats.
We ran a post about the ‘ultimate act of defiance‘ at the time arguing that it was one of the best forms of protest we’d ever heard.
So when we heard those same pro-life campaigners – who go by the name 40 Days for Life – would be holding vigils around clinics in Australia from tomorrow, we wondered what we could do.
Answer: bake. Just like the women in the UK, we’re planning to show our support by baking cakes.
More about that in a sec, but first – here’s some info about the group that call themselves 40 Days for Life.
What is 40 Days for Life?
They’re a Texas-born anti-abortion group is preparing to spend the 40 days of Lent praying outside abortion clinics around the world.
They don’t hold signs or megaphones; they don’t wear tents or fight police officers. There’s no chanting or yelling. They stand silently and their intent is to shut down facilities in the name of religion.
According to the group’s website, they’ve undertaken 1633 campaigns in 422 cities. They say they’ve ‘spared’ 5045 lives from abortion; witnessed 61 abortion workers quit their jobs and walk away from the abortion industry; and forced 21 abortion facilities to shut down completely as a result of the campaign.
They staged their first post in Brisbane in 2009, and this year they’re calling for volunteers to man vigils in 7 locations around Australia (which we’ll list further down the post.)
In an article in the Brisbane Times, Founder of the 40 Days for Life Australian chapter Brendan Wong rejected the idea that the group was “fanatical or obstructive”, saying instead that the methods were “peaceful and focused on prayer.”
This from the Brisbane Times:
Mr Wong said while protesters did hope to convince women entering the clinic to think twice, the protest was aimed at a larger audience.
“We’ve had a few women who have turned around [from entering an abortion clinic] but while really we’re happy for those wins – we’re happy for people to come out and realise the error of their ways – we’re also looking for a broader change of people’s viewpoints on this,” Mr Wong said.
“We’re all about praying that people change their hearts and minds and come to view abortion as more than just another medical procedure.”
Here’s what we’re going to do.

Co-organiser Carmen D'Cruz with some chocolatey goodies for the staff at one of the British Pregnancy Advisory Service offices.
This is a not a post about the right to life – or even the right to choose. It’s about finding a unique way to show love and support for women who are already going through a difficult time.
Just like the women in the UK, Mamamia’s Publisher Mia Freedman, Managing Editor Lana Hirschowitz and I are going to bake cakes (Chocolate? Vanilla? We’re open to suggestions) and take them down to the clinic in Sydney where the vigils are taking place.
Do you want to get involved?
You can. You don’t have to be a master baker. (I’m definitely not.) Packet cakes are fine. Ditto packets of lollies, biscuits, boxes of chocolates or bunches of bananas. Or flowers.
It’s the thought that counts – the smallest act of kindness can make a difference.
Head to your closest organisation and show your support.
Mia, Lana and I will deliver our cakes to staff and women at the clinic in Sydney’s Surry Hills before the week is out. We will live tweet from the clinic and next week I’ll write about it and tell you all how it went.
If you want to get involved – please do. Take a photo and add it to the comments section.
Here’s a list of where the vigils are taking place. There will be pro-life ‘protesters’ standing by the clinics every day, 6am until 8pm, from February 22 until April 1.
SYDNEY
Preterm Abortion Clinic
Corner Elizabeth & Randle St
Surry Hills, Sydney
MELBOURNE
Fertility Control Clinic
118 Wellington Pde
East Melbourne
PERTH
Marie Stopes International abortion centre
8 Sayer Street
Midland, Western Australia
HOBART
Specialist Gynaecology Centre
1a Victoria Street
Hobart, Tasmania
ADELAIDE
Pregnancy Advisory Centre
21 Belmore Terrace
Woodville Park ,South Australia
BRISBANE
“Dr Marie” Marie Stopes International
(formerly Planned Parenthood of Australia)
8 Campbell Street
Bowen Hills, Queensland
TWEED HEADS
Options Clinic
127 Wharf Street
Tweed Heads NSW
* It’s probably a good idea to give the clinic a call beforehand and give them a heads up that you’ll be turning up with cake
Ben Fordam tweeted this link earlier today. It’s audio from a story he did from the Sydney abortion clinic about the pro-life supporters who stand outside the facility. Have a listen to what they have to say:







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453 Comments so far
I am completely getting on board with this, this just made m start crying at my desk.. ahhh… I live in hobart.. when are they in hobart and how ca I help more?
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This morning I popped cards in the mail to all of the clinics above. As I’m miles away from any of them I thought the best thing I could do was send some kind words.
Thanks Mamamia for highlighting that there is always something we can do to support others in need x
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This is an excellent idea, I will be putting my support in writing for these clinics today.
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Nice one!
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Thanks for this idea – have just written up thank you cards for all the clinics listed. You are a good egg!
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Great idea! I’m going to do
that also!
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I am against abortion – but I am not against people making choices freely. I have 2 close friends that have had abortions (that I know of). As I said I don’t agree with it but it was their choice. One of those friends of mine made that decision because she was in an abusive relationship with a now ex-boyfriend who was controlling, physical and an alcoholic. She could not bare the thought of bringing a child into his world. Selfish? Maybe. Does she regret it? Everyday. But it was her choice and what she needed to do.
Also, what about women who fall pregnant from rape?
I love the idea of bringing baked goods to people in need – but this is ridiculous. The people that need baked goods are those women who for whatever reason feel the need to make a visit there. Otherwise we will end up reverting to backyard abortions and women dying.
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Err they are giving the cakes to the women inside the clinic not the pro-lifers out the front…
Personally I don’t think its ridiculous at all I think its a wonderful show of support and as Idle Dad said below its more a drop the cakes off and leave, not a hang around and have a chat sort of a thing.
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Bubba’s Mumma – we’re taking the cake to the people INSIDE the clinic not the protesters outside!
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Oh I see. Sorry.
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Ahh, the debate that brings out the bigot in all and the hypocrisy.
Pro Lifers: You must have the baby
Pro Choicers: How do I raise it
Pro Lifers: That’s not our problem, we just want to tell you what to do.
But from the other side of the fence…
Pro Choicers: My body my, my choice, my responsibility, now give me tax payer money to pay for my choices.
Maybe “my responsibility” is a misnomer eh?
I suggest a new category – Pro Responsibility
Pro Responsibility: My body, My choice, My responsibility, so I will therefor; earn the money it takes to support a child and be responsible for my choices.
Whether you like left or right politics, there is one thing that can’t really be argued and that is: Time is money. If I work then I give my time from my life to earn money, if the government wants to take my money and give it (against my beliefs) to people who refuse to accept choice + responsibility = Adult, then what you effectively do is take part of my LIFE.
I often question what society will devolve into when we all just stop taking responsibility for our choices and it makes me shiver.
I take issue with both sides, but to Pro Choicers who have no intention of taking 100% responsibility, who think they’re rights are more important than the people paying for their choices are hypocrites.
Just an observation is all.
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Bigoted response? hummmm
Pro Responsibility – How about My body, Our choice, Our responsibility, We will work this out together ( I know in an ideal world). Your pro responsibility theory focus on one person, who might that be…uh the woman. Must have been her fault getting pregnant!
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A lot of women are asked to cough up a fair wad of cash for a termination. Yes they may get a Medicare rebate (depends whether the clinic has already put in a Medicare claim or not), but I’d call that taking responsibility for my actions. Most people do out and work after having a baby anyway. So that long winded post probably didn’t add much to the conversation.
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Faybs
Long winded eh? Ad hominen?
Did you address what I said? – No, succinct way to say nothing.
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As far as I know, Medicare only covers the cost of the consultation/ultrasound. It still costs approx $400 for the termination. As far as your original post: Whose responsibility is it if contraception fails? And should we all stop having sex in case we might fall pregnant? Yeah, that’s gonna work.
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So by “taking responsibility” you mean forcing women to carry a child to term against their will? A child is not a punishment for being sexually active and shouldn’t be treated as one. The mealy mouthed “responsibility” rhetoric is just the usual anti-abortion.line dressed up as something else.
For me, taking responsibility means making choices about my body and supporting other women to have the same choice.
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@ Bel
“How about My body, Our choice, Our responsibility, We will work this out together”
Who are the “our”, because if you’re referring to the partner then okay, but if you’re referring to the general public, then my original point stands.
@Katherine
Cool your jets.
“The mealy mouthed “responsibility” rhetoric is just the usual anti-abortion.line”
1. I thought it was pretty direct, so well done one keeping your temper.
2. I am pro choice, so who is your misdirected anger aimed at?
3.” For me, taking responsibility means making choices about my body and supporting other women to have the same choice”
Well, responsibility means being liable and accountable for one’s actions. Choice without responsibility is by definition Irresponsible.
So as a Libertarian feminist I demand women have the right to choose, but I also expect them to take financial responsibility for the choices they make.
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So then abortions become an option only for those who are well-off enough to afford them and for the others we force them further into poverty by making them have a child they can not afford. Or they give the child up for adoption, in which case, given there are more children then people who want to adopt them we force them into the foster care situation and that costs even more than an abortion. Besides the fact that economically it makes no sense, that’s not going to create the kind of society I want to live in.
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Pro responsibility, you might want to be more ‘Pro considered’ in your posts. I think you’ll find that most woman who have abortions are not simply using the choice as a way of avoiding responsibility. In fact, responsibility is often the key to their choice. There are many reasons for abortions- some of which can be medical. If you’re so concerned about “your money and taxes” then you might find comfort in knowing that terminating a pregnancy will burden your pocket less than supporting a severely disabled child, or a mentally ill mother. How dare you accuse woman who have abortions of being irresponsible.
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My temper is fine. Your logic is not. Responsibility as you define it is simply a convoluted way of slut-shaming women who have abortion and denying women in poverty access to abortion services. Some choice.
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“My body my, my choice, my responsibility, now give me tax payer money to pay for my choices.”
Same could be said for most illnesses and injury. Lung cancer, heart disease, even a broken leg from poor choices on a dirt bike.
As a tax payer, I’m more than happy to contribute to a medical care system that supports people through their mistakes and accidents, just as much as it supports those who have come into a medical issue through no fault of their own.
We all make them and if it benefits the wellbeing of the greater community, I’m all for it. If we start using the ‘responsibility’ test when giving health care, it’ll turn into a massive widespread problem of lower class illness and more babies being born to poor households isn’t a good thing.
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What a fantastic idea, combat this massive act of passive aggression with love and respect.
Weird and insular thinking that 40 Days for Life protesters cannot see that this is actually an exceedingly violent form of mental assault/torture they are inflicting on people who are already going through a traumatic time. A classic case of putting the boot in when somebody is down.
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Passive-aggression is exactly what it is Ken.
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Just looked on their website, it’s very sad that a number of facilities have been shut in the US due to protests. No matter what your personal beliefs are, it’s horrible to think women are denied this service. Women’s emotional well being is overlooked by this group!
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Not to mention the amount of murder and violence committed against those working in abortion clinics in the US: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anti-abortion_violence
It’s absolutely disgusting and this growing participation in the US-like anti-abortion protest in Australia is really scary.
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I love this idea – although I had a thought that if I worked at these clinics I’d be worried about the food being contaminated (would someone do this? I shudder to think), so I’ll be dropping off something packaged.
In the USA people wearing orange fluro vests escort people past the protestors. This is especially important as many places that provide abortions also provide pregnancy support, contraception and STI assistance. Three cheers for them too!
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I must say I had the same thought about the potential for contaminated food. I’m not sure I would eat something homemade that a stranger dropped off at my work place. Sad as that is. Pre-packaged food is a great idea – probably not as yummy though!
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Just as a random but slightly relatedc comment, there has never been a reported case of poisen halloween candy in America.
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I was thinking laxatives or similar, not poison. Interesting statistic though – I remember reading about mums being scared of razor blades in Halloween apples in a Judy Blume book once!
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I can’t say I agree with either side of this story.I should imagine I would like to be left alone ,except for professions, whilst making one of the most serious decisions of my life.
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I think the idea is to pop in, leave the cake and leave immediately. At least, that was my plan.
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I’ve been working right near the Surry Hills clinic for about a year. Those pro-lifers aren’t just there for Lent, they are there every third day. They try to hand me pamphlets every morning and afternoon, and on more than one occasion handed a visiting friend “a pretty medal” as we walked past without telling us what they stood for. I’ve told them not interested, yet the same people still approach me. They don’t just pray, they have about three graphic signs, including one that says “this clinic dismembers babies”. Ive seen people argue with them, I’ve heard from a friend that they accosted her at the door trying to go in.
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on my rare trips to surry hills ive seen a little old lady wearing a two sided sign with abortion is murder (or something along those lines) standing on a street corner…
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I drove past once and saw a fellow wearing a similar placard. I wound down my window and yelled out ‘When you have a uterus – you can make a choice!’
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The woman on Devonshire st? She’s there at least three times a week and I’ve seen her accost women going in a few times now, shouting things like “don’t become a murderer today!” – each time, it’s resulted in me having a pretty lengthy argument with her.
She’s started displaying some pretty disgusting images too, from what I can see – all of them are medical images of late-term miscarriages. Pretty awful woman.
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The miraculous medal is a medal of Our Lady, Mary mother of God. If you look up the Saint, Catherine Labore, you will read her story and see how the medals came about, either that or you can read the paper that each medal handed out is stuck to. If your interested, the body of Saint Catherine Labore, although she died many many years ago, was uncovered and found to be incorrupt, that means she did not decompose as a human normally would, her body is still as if she had just passed. There is no trick, all the medical tests from all the atheist, non believing professionals in the world have been conducted and there is no scientific or medical explanation for such a phenomena. Regarding the medal itself, our Lady has promised for those who wear it as a sign of love, protection from evil thoughts, words and deeds, graces in abundance.
It is up to you whether or not you accept te above information, but I was simply providing it as your above comment suggested you were not given it at the time.
As for your friend being “accosted”, people use adjectives willy nilly, and thats how all the lies about what we are doing spread. We do not shut “murder” to people, we d not wave banners in their face, we do not even judge them, that is not our job. We simply accompany the dying with prayer on one side of the street, and offer women information on the other side of the street….talk about womens rights? Well they have a right to that information.
We also offer them support, and guess what, some women take it and are thankful for it. Our support is ongoing, throughout the pregnancy and after the child is born, until they are on their feet. The suppot comes in a variety of forms. We tailor the support to the mothers needs. We have talked to many women in the worst situations, over the many years we have heard just about every awful situation that exists, and every single person who has decided to accept our help, HAS been able to be helped.
I’m all or liberating women from the horrible affects of abortion, which society has tricked them into thinkng is a solution and a right. Women have the right to be truly looked after and have their bodies respected, not torn apart.
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Women have the right to be truly looked after and have their bodies respected, not torn apart.
And what, exactly, do you suppose forcing compulsory childbirth on a woman does, hmmmmm?
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So can we bake cake for the protestors to support their peaceful prayerful vigil?
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It is all about ‘pro choice’, so you may choose to do as you wish. All we ask is that you (and they) respect the choices of others. Understand?
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Sure, they could use some cake too. Being judgemental and not minding your own business for 40 days sure would make a person hungry.
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Great idea!!
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I can’t help but think this provides a no-brainer opportunity for nutter religious terrorists to deliver poisoned goods, or explosives. These people have walked in and SHOT people before.
I would be very wary if I were staff receiving these… It’s a nice idea though…
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I wasnt aware that nutter religious types ever required any sort of invitation…
I suppose you could be right though – opportunists take all walks of life unfortunately, even the nutty ones.
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This is a really good point – perhaps prepackaged food or flowers is better…?
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Does now!
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How many nutter religious terrorists do you think there are?
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Stretchyprincess – it only takes one to poison a cake.
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They might not aim to kill but they might put in something to make people sick, I could really see that happening.
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Look up Army of God…..
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I did this. What horrible people they are! I notice they do not show photos of early term abortions. They just show photos of late term abortions, which do not make up the majority of abortions. They then go on to say that the murder of an abortion clinic doctor is “Justifiable Homicide.” In doing their ‘work for God,’ they are actually going against it! One of the Ten Commandments is “You shall not murder.” It doesn’t say “You shall not murder unless it’s someone you don’t agree with.” Disgusting people!
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I’m sure for the families of people who have been killed by them, one is more than enough.
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I don’t know how attempted murder would fit into their statement non-violent protest.
This is Australia, not the US. Common sense prevails.
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People have been killed in Australia too. Not many, but it has happened.
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I’m not suggesting that these protestors would do it – but promoting a campaign where people are invited to drop off baked goods intended for staff and patients of these clinics? There are certainly people out there who would (who have) considered this type of act.
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omgosh peeps, the actions of one individual do not represent the mass. 40 Days for life in ANY country is not affiliated with some nutter who went in and decided to murder someone for killing the unborn. Quit spreading untruths about our vigils, that guy had nithing to do with us
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I’m not sure why you commented against me, I agree, hence my comment?
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“Quit spreading untruths about our vigils, that guy had nithing [sic] to do with us”
From news dot com:
“Peter James Knight is serving a minimum of 23 years for the murder of 44-year-old father-of-seven Steven Rogers at the east Melbourne clinic on July 16, 2001.
The original trial heard that Knight, an obsessive anti-abortionist, was carrying spare rounds of ammunition and 16 litres of kerosene, and had planned a massacre at the clinic.”
How do you suppose this character became an “obsessive anti-abortionist,” Anonymous? What, the idea just popped into his head? Your lot are directly responsible for the summary execution — the death — of a man. Oh, did you know that the murder victim had seven children? (Not that the murder of a person with less or no children would have been any less reprehensible). Do your lot bother with the importance of these children? I bet not. They were not foetusy enough, were they.
It is tellingly incongruous that your lot crow about “saving lives” because you argue that your protest/vigil (harrassment) is responsible for changing patients’ minds yet somehow your wonderous powers to convince people apparently had NOTHING to do with an obsessive anti-abortionist. Uh-huh.
No, he may not have been ONE of you, but Peter James Knight was motivated by you. Motivated to murder.
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I think “nutter religious terrorists” goes a bit too far.
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Perhaps – what do you suggest we call the people who have bombed clinics and shot guards and doctors?
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People who have gone too far. I just don’t like it how the actions of a few seem to badly stereotype the rest of them. I’m religious, but I by no means would bomb a clinic or shoot guards and doctors. I believe in a woman’s right to choose. It is not up to me to impose my beliefs on others. It makes me sad that people do this, but please don’t lump us all together.
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How about “single issue terrorists” ?
That is the fitting appellation used in one jurisdiction to described the violence by compulsory birthists. Most of the activists conduct their activities under the guise of religious (Christian) sanction and thus can be described Christian Terrorism.
Yes, I realise that not *all* Christians endorse this behaviour just as not all Muslims are terrorists (despite the prevailing anti-Islamic narrative in this country).
Compulsory birthist terrorists from the USA such as Jo Scheilder have not been granted a visa to enter this nation because of their proven aggressive and violent activities towards clinics and patients.
The compulsory birthists in this country HAVE resorted to stalking of patients and staff from clinics. This is reprehensilble behaviour. That is terrorism.
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But poisoned goods and explosives could kill the unborn children anyway, so I doubt they’d do that. If you make mum sick, baby might get sick. If you blow up mum, you blow up baby. I don’t think they would do anything that would potentially harm the unborn children.
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Do you think the protesters will be in Canberra?
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I just posted this below, but to let you know there is an ongoing protest outside ACT Health which is opposite the GPO in the city. The Women in Black have a vigil there every Friday morning and since mid last year they have been joined by pro-choice activists. It is all silent, just signs and the black clothes vs coloured ones. Mind you I haven’t been past there on a Friday morning for awhile so I’m not sure if it is still going on.
You can read about it on RiotACT http://the-riotact.com/friday-morning-protests-pro-choice-or-anti-choice/59663
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Last week they were there on Thursday instead of Friday, so maybe they are trying to avoid the pro-choicers.
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Thanks Vivacious!
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Wow, it’s a bit awkward being pro life and visiting this site… Well, from the other perspective, my best friend takes part in the 40 Days for Life vigils and I personally think it’s lovely. Each to their own, I guess.
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I am in no way trying to be bitchy or confronting, but im genuinely curious as to what the people who are doing the vigils hope to achieve. Are you able to shed some light, because admittedly my first thought was that it was to sliently shame the women attending and working at these clinics?
Would love some perspective.
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They believe they are saving lives.
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I think the purpose of the vigils is like any ‘silent’, or other, protest. To highlight the fact that people are against the product/event/person/service
I guess it is just to make people aware of a different viewpoint.
In North Sydney there is a clinic on the Pacific highway which often has people out the front giving pro life pamphlets away, and whenever I walk past I get mad and say to my husband how annoying and idiotic they are – and he always points out to me that they are just doing something they really believe in and which isn’t illegal.
Hmmm,… maybe that is the answer – we make our own pro-choice pamphlets to give out, or do our own silent vigil….with placards saying “We support you” or “You’re not alone” or something…
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I’m pro choice (but pro life for myself, long story), but to me, how is taking in baked goods to the people who work at abortion clinics and the women going there any different to the silent protest? One side is silently saying they are pro life while another is silently saying they are pro choice? Your husband is right, they aren’t doing anything illegal, just expressing their beliefs, which is what people are also doing when they bring baked goods.
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Well, no, they’re saying they’re anti-choice and by virtue of being there they’re trying to change people’s minds about using the clinics.
The anti-choicers must have supporters giving them food and stuff for their protest, so why not show support for the clinics and their staff?
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I personally find it pretty insulting that the people holding the vigil believe that someone having an abortion hasnt considered all their options.
I have never had an abortion, but it would be hard enough walking through those doors, let alone if there were high and mighty people silently trying to convince me that i might not have thought it all the way through.
Its perfectly fine to believe that for your own body, you choose life. But i think its a stretch to consider that other people make their choices lightly.
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At least with the 40 Days for Life people, they are peaceful. They aren’t shouting or shaming people verbally, they are just standing there. Makes me respect them more than other protesters, like the Westboro Baptist Church for instance.
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It’s still seriously intimidating and judgemental.
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Which is exactly what they want. If they changed one person’s mind about getting an abortion that day, they’d consider it a win. They can dress it up all they want as peaceful, but that’s the aim.
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I mean this as tactfully as possible, because I respect another’s right to believe as they do. But can’t the people who belong to 40 Days of Life pray from … home? They are adding to the distress of these poor women who are making a tough choice. I don’t believe many women suddenly decide to pop into town for an abortion one day, on a whim. I don’t believe they want to be there. And I realise the *logic* of a visible prayer vigil, which is to try and guilt and shame them into not going through with it … but that’s just ignoring the fact they’re causing more pain and they know it.
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Rick, I was just about the post the same thing! There is nothing ‘peaceful’ about being there to judge and intimidate (by their numbers) those women who are already agonising over making one of the most difficult choices they’ll ever make. They can pray from home. Once they’re at the clinic, it’s a different story.
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why do you assume they are their to judge and intimidate – why dont you go up and ASK them what they are trying to do, what they actually SAY to the women, cause frankly rick, that isnt something you could possibly know without asking. You might be suprised. Enough with the assumptions already people, you are all to ready to tell everyone what you assmed they are doing, instead going and asking them yourselves. Do you have the courage to go up and engage in diaologue with them, or you gonna continue to spread lies about them, make assumptions about them and diss them behind their backs. Go and inform yourselves
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“why do you assume they are their to judge and intimidate ”
Oh probably because I know a woman who attended a clinic then later was recognised by a vigil protestor in the street who called her a “slut” and “whore”. May be that is why.
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Maybe they want to be there as a form of support if one of the ladies (or partners) wants to talk or be prayed for?
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I think that’s a stretch. They know why they are there. And it ain’t support.
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spreading lies again, go and ask them, support is EXACLTY why they are there. And all kinds of support is offered. But if you are so sure in yourself that it i not support that they are offering, then go up and ask a coucellor Rick, ask them what they re doing, ask them what they say to the women, and then come back and tell us all. We would all love to hear of your findings, seeing as what this foum needs is some firsthand evidence of this question being asked.
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OK.
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The clinics all have trained counsellors inside, in addition to that you need a referral to a clinic, 9 times out of 10 a referral comes form a Womens Health Clinic where there are also trained impartial counsellors, who have access to all of the available information on not only abortion but adoption, and open adoption, support services for young/older/lesbian/single/married/working and stay at home mums..
I think that a group of women protesting (peacefully or otherwise) are not the best people to be talking to in this situation.
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Rick, every time you say something, I love you even more.
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Get in line, woman
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I think that yes, they are doing what they beleive in, but there is also nothing wrong with supporting the workers and the patients who are in the midst of a difficult time.
Sending flowers/baking cakes etc is a lovely thing to do also, and is not a way to embarress or counter protest. It is just supporting those inside the building, as those outside are making it harder for them.
Those outside say that they are trying for ” a broader change of people’s viewpoints on this” and that the individual “win” is not the ultimate goal – so why is it awkward for you to read something about supporting those who are inside asking for guidance.
Not every person walking into these centres are there for abortion, and if they are they are first off going to be counselled and encouraged to think about their actions. No one working in one of these centres does so because they want to push women into abortions!!
Each to thier own is true, and I think that both sides should be supported.
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I am pro-choice but have no problem with these people taking part in a peaceful protest to express their beliefs. But according to the article they have forced 21 clinics to be shut down? That is something I don’t approve of. I believe in everyone having a right to express their beliefs peacefully. But forcing your beliefs on others by forcing important health services for women to be shut down is wrong.
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Clearly, I’m a horrible person or alternatively, the summer flu is getting to my head, because my first thought was “I’ll make red velvet cake, for in case of any confrontation with the crazies, the food colouring will stain their clothes and stupid signs”. Better go back to bed, haha.
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I love this.
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Ah, I wish I still lived in Brisbane- I am so going to get some friends of mine to do this.
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I’m in Melbourne too and would like to get involved, maybe we could get a bunch of us together and drop off some goodies?
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I just moved to Melbourne and would love to get involved too. It would be great to get together as a group and do it.
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I’m in Melbourne and I really really want to do this too – I’ve had many compliments on my double choc chip cookies….
Only thing though is that I am currently 7months pregnant – would it be completely inappropriate for someone like me to show up for this?? I have no problems with fronting up to the protestors if need be, but I don’t want to upset anyone inside….
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So in. I bake a mean pav.
Twitter hashtag? #Aus40daysofTreats? Something shorter?
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Fantastic. Thank you for doing this. A baking great way to quietly have your say.
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What, none in the nation’s capital? Don’t women here need abortions? I guess they’d have to picket the main hospital if that was the case, as I don’t think they’re done anywhere else. I guess I could post goodies?
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That was exactly my first thought – as well as how i would post baked goods.
But then i realised that its probably a positive thing for the local abortion clinics in the ACT to not have to be a target for these people.
Maybe we could send edible blooms to a chosen target clinic instead?
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There is a silent vigil by the Women in Black every Friday outside of the ACT Health building opposite the GPO. As of mid last year, a group of pro-choicers were joining them every Friday morning: http://the-riotact.com/friday-morning-protests-pro-choice-or-anti-choice/59663. I’m not sure if it is still going on, but it was quite amusing to see the two groups standing there silently.
http://the-riotact.com/friday-morning-protests-pro-choice-or-anti-choice/59663
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The tried and true food item to send by mail is Anzac buscuits.
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I would love to get involved! Do we just give the treats to the receptionist or similar or is there some sort of process? Are they aware that we’ll be doing this? I don’t want to be seen as some weirdo dropping off treats if they don’t know why… it might come across a bit creepy and random.
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Maybe give them a call before you drop by. That’s what we’ll do. But at the end of the day, I’m sure no one will say no to cake!
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I just emailed the Sydney clinic to ask permission to drop off goodies.
Easy and gives them a chance to say yes or no.
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Will you come back and let us know what they say please?
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No answer Cara, which I’m taking as “not interested”.
I’m cool with that, I can respect it could be awkward.
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That is such a fantastic idea. I’m definitely going to head down to the Melbourne clinic and do the same.
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