By LOUISE JOHNSON
We’ve just celebrated all those dads in our lives and hey presto, it’s Fertility Week –a perfect time to talk about men and fertility, no?
If you only ever read women’s magazines, you could have the misconception (pardon the pun) that becoming a parent doesn’t involve men at all, that only women struggle with infertility and that it’s only a woman’s age that counts when it comes to conceiving and making healthy babies.
Let’s bring the blokes into the picture:
1. Male infertility affects about one in 20 men. For about one in five (heterosexual) couples having trouble getting pregnant, the fertility problem lies solely with the guy.
2. A man’s age also impacts on a woman’s ability to conceive and have a healthy baby. The quality of a man’s sperm decreases over time. As a man ages, it takes longer for him to get a woman pregnant. There’s also an increased risk of a woman not conceiving at all. Whatever the age of the mother, the risk of miscarriage is higher if the father is over 45. As men age, the children they father are at greater risk of autism, mental health problems and learning difficulties.
3. Smokers beware! Tobacco smoking is not only a well-known case of lung cancer, emphysema and heart disease, it also reduces fertility. Men who smoke heavily produce up to 20 per cent fewer sperm. Tobacco smoke also damages the sperm’s DNA – the genetic material that’s going to ‘make up’ your child.
4. Men create sperm approximately every 70 days, so if you’re trying to conceive, make sure that the sperm is as healthy as it can be.
5. While there’s no evidence that wearing ‘budgie smugglers’ affects men’s fertility, it’s true that hot testes have trouble making sperm. So men who want to make a baby should stay away from hot baths, spas and saunas – and wear boxer shorts to be on the safe side.
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I think this article is fantastic as it highlights MALE infertility! My husband and I conceived our daughter via IVF as he has a very low sperm count. I cannot tell you how many people assumed I had the fertility problem & were very surprised when corrected. Hubby is young, fit & healthy & we were completely shocked with the diagnosis. Male infertility is a taboo subject & needs more discussion as we both felt that there is a complete lack of resources/support/empathy when compared to female infertility.
Last year, just before my husband's 30th birthday he was diagnosed with testicular failure. He has never smoked, never been a big drinker and never used other drugs. He's never been overweight and never had an STI (we are high school sweethearts). He'd never had trauma in that region nor could the doctors find any other reason for his condition. His body just doesn't produce sperm. I also have mild PCOS. As we went through the fertility investigations and eventually IVF procedures we did realise that nobody talks about fertility unless its about women in their late 30s/early 40s - male infertility certainly is a taboo topic. Even the magazines in the waiting rooms are all women's mags. Thankfully my husband was open minded enough and wanted a family as badly as I did and last Sunday e celebrated his first Father's Day after I gave birth to our daughter in July - conceived through IVF with the use of donated sperm. Only a select number of people know this as we agreed that we would decide together who to tell. He loves our daughter so much and we will explain to her how she was conceived when she's older but it makes me really sad that we keep this a secret because it makes other people uncomfortable. It's a sad situation but we overcame it through science and love and to all those couples out there struggling with fertility - my thoughts are with you but know that one of the most important things you can do to help yourself is to share your feelings with those you love and trust - get as much support as you can & break the taboo.