Well, I have a lot to tell you. A couple of weeks ago I spent a few days in Papua New Guinea, a country I was only dimly aware of until recently.
You can see a gallery of photos from the trip here (taken by the extraordinary Conor Ashleigh who is only 22 and a photographic genius).
I went to PNG in my capacity as ambassador for Vicks’ Road To Relief program which works like this: you buy any Vicks product marked “road to relief” and your purchase will pay for one child in a developing country to be immunised against measles.
It’s that simple.
I will admit I was apprehensive about the idea of going on this trip. I don’t like to fly. I don’t like to travel. I don’t like to do new and adventurous things. And I’m a complete wuss-bag about children doing it tough or being in any kind of distress. I can’t bear even the thought of it and I turn into a puddle.
But that’s a totally pampered and privileged view. You can’t be an ostrich forever and I wanted to push out of my comfort zone and learn a thing or two about a country that is just a couple of hours from our own. It was an amazing few days. Amazing. I travelled there with Jolie from Vicks, Catriona from UNICEF (who are managing the distribution of the immunisations in PNG and other developing countries), photographer Conor and videographer Tara.
We were a tight team and we saw some wonderful and upsetting things together. Everyone who heard I was going to PNG raised their eyebrows into their hairline. “It’s sooo dangerous,” they exclaimed. “Be careful.” In Port Moresby, where we were staying, we had armed guards and weren’t allowed to leave our hotel. But on the first two days, we climbed into our mini bus and drove about 90 minutes out of Port Moresby to the province of Kwikila where we visited a health clinic, a mobile immunisation clinic and a school.
Here is a video overview of the trip and the Vicks Road To Relief program…..
And this is a feature I wrote about our trip to the health clinic…..
Tiny twins Lucy and Christina were only eight weeks old when they started coughing. And they couldn’t stop. Quickly, they became sicker with high fevers and wheezing as they struggled to breathe. In the middle of the night, in their remote village with the nearest hospital almost two hours away, their parents were terrified and desperate.
Without ambulances or even transport, they were forced to wait until morning when they could send word to the local health clinic at Kwikila. A ute was immediately sent to fetch the girls and their mother Geue. The diagnosis was pneumonia and while Lucy was stabilised, Christina was transported to hospital in Port Moresby.
But this story turns out well. When I meet the girls seven months later, they’re all shy smiles and big brown eyes, peering at me curiously from their mother’s lap as they wait in the line to be immunised for measles. I’m in Saroakeina, a tiny remote village in Papua New Guinea as an ambassador for Vicks Road To Relief immunisation program.
Around 200 local babies and toddlers have been brought by their mothers to the mobile clinic for measles immunisations and it’s quite the sight. Clinic is a bit fancy a term for what it is: four nurses who brought the vaccines in cold eskies and set up a makeshift medical area under some trees. But there are no complaints. The mothers are grateful to be here because they know this immunisation could save their children’s lives. Pneumonia (as one of measles’ most common complications) kills almost 2 million children under 5 worldwide each year.
Christina and Lucy were lucky and their mother knows it, holding them close as they wait their turn. The atmosphere is relaxed and social with kids running around and the women chatting while they sit on the ground breastfeeding babies and trying to amuse nervous toddlers who have sussed out what’s going on and have begun to cry.
The older children happily play with rocks and sticks and each other and I think of the mountains of toys my own kids have. I’m glad I stole some before I left. The wide eyes when I hand out a knick-knack that came in a cereal box or a showbag breaks my heart a little bit. Earlier that morning, we’d been to the nearby Kwikila Health Centre whose name also belies the reality of the conditions.
Rhoda, the clinic sister who has worked there for 24 years, proudly gives me a tour. It doesn’t take long. Imagine a demountable classroom divided into three cramped rooms. The first is for admin, the second is for general patients and the third is the ‘labour ward’. In it, there are three old iron-frame beds, each with a thin stained mattress covered with a rubber mat. That’s it. When I ask about pain relief, Sister Rhoda thinks for a moment. “Oh, we have some Asprin”.
Most of the women waiting to have their children immunised gave birth in this small, dirty room. One woman has done it five times. I wonder if the Asprin helped. I flash back to last month when I had to take my 4 year old to hospital late one night. Having parked across the road, I sent whingey texts to my husband during the two hours we spent in the waiting room. We should be so lucky. Free, safe and available healthcare is a pipe dream for millions of people, even our neighbours.
Papua New Guinea is just a few hours from Australia and the living conditions for much of the country’s six million people are dire. 85% of the population live in isolated rural areas and poor sanitation leaves them terribly vulnerable to malnutrition and preventable diseases like measles and pneumonia. Nothing can prepare you for seeing this up close. And never again will I take the availability of immunizations and basic healthcare for my children for granted.
I’d gone to the supermarket before leaving for PNG and bought a whole lot of stickers and party blowers to hand out to some of the kids I met. They proved popular and I quickly ran out. Right at the end, before we left the village, I saw a little girl who had a terrible skin condition. Her clothes were rags and unlike some of the other kids, she didn’t have any little string bracelets or anything girly. I took off my scarf and wrapped it around her neck because I wanted her to have something to make her feel pretty.
(It’s lucky we left at that point because I was thisclose to taking off my watch….as it was I kept giving away my shoes. Some Witchery slip-ons at the hospital and my Converse to a street child outside the airport. I came home in clunky biker boots.)
The day after I wrote this, we went back to Saroakeina to visit the little school – which was actually just a few little huts with no desks or chairs let alone books and stationary. But the kids were all there in there school uniforms, beaming proudly. Some of the little ones were quite scared because they’d never seen white people before but mostly, they were just fascinated and excited to talk to us. Sitting on the ground, talking to the kids, I showed them some home movies on my iphone and immediately, a crowd of 30 kids had gathered around to watch.
Jolie played netball with some of the girls and Katrina and I played volleyball while Conor and Tara shot and played. One thing I noticed: these kids laughed so easily. Real belly laughs, loud and genuine. Western kids don’t do that very often. They’re jaded by comparison.
The final day was the hardest. We went to visit the children’s ward in the Port Moresby hospital. By ward, I mean a very large room with small beds lined up a metre apart. The energy in that room was surprisingly peaceful. The parents just sat on the beds with their terribly sick children, sometimes other relatives or children slept or sat on the floor beside the bed.
These kids mostly had meningitis, malaria, pneumonia, cancer and other critical illnesses. It was heart-breaking and I struggled to hold it together. I spoke to many of the parents sitting on the beds with their children and babies. They told me that the medical care was free for children up to age 7 but they had to buy food and drink for them, none of that was provided. It was very basic. No TVs. No Gameboys. No toys of any kind.
Had I not been to visit the kids in this hospital, I could have come away without the full picture of how desperate the conditions are for kids in developing countries like PNG. So please support the Vicks Road To Relief campaign.
Mostly though, I have been humbled. I am a pampered, privileged Australian who went to PNG for a few days in safe, clean and comparitively luxurious circumstances. The people I met are not so lucky and yet everyone I met was resoundingly positive, warm and welcoming.
Going to Papua New Guinea changed my life. Now please help me to change the lives of the children I met, and millions more like them.
WHAT YOU CAN DO RIGHT NOW:
Please buy any Vicks product marked with ‘Road To Relief” and you will be providing one measles immunisation to a child like the ones I met in PNG. You can also become a Facebook friend for Vicks Road to Relief here.
Every friend will buy yet another immunisation. Just one click. Their lives might quite literally depend on it. And please tell all your FB friends to do the same….
PS: You can see the photos of the trip taken by Conor Ashleigh here (they’re amaaaaaazing).
And Conor has done a stunning slideshow of additional shots from the trip here.
Have you ever had a life-changing travel experience? Or maybe something you saw closer to home that changed the way you viewed the world or your own country?












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There are many places we are not still aware of, Mia. It seems highly unlikely for a person to be able to visit every country in the world. So far, out of the South Pacific countries, I only knew about Australia and New Zealand.
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Mia that was all very brave of you and it must have been incredibly daunting visiting the hospital. It seems senseless that both PNG and East Timor are so close to us and struggling so much and we do so little to help. We rarely even hear about them (unless it is to try and offload our obligations to other desperate people onto them).
The photos are beautiful. It must be startling to see such humanity and warmth on the backdrop of so much suffering and poverty. I am always struck by people who seem to do so much with so little, and I don’t think we should forget the happiness that is mixed in with the sadness. Its nice to be reminded of the importance of perspective and gratitude for what we have here (if only we were a little more gracious in sharing it). I really hope to get out to East Timor at some stage and help out in some way. I hope you write a column about your experiences too, it will certainly be interesting to read.
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I lived in PNG in 2008 and 2009. Even though I lived in Port Moresby and am Australian I got to visit friends in Port Moresby general hospital and was disgusted, the first time was when a friend had a baby and the second was when the same baby developed menegitis when she was 6 weeks old.
But the scary thing is that it isn’t just the general hospital that has things like this, I was treated once at a private hospital there and had to have a D&C and because the nurses and the doctor on call couldn’t get a drip into me until literally 5 seconds before they started the procedure I had no anaesthetic and the pain killers didn’t kill in until well after it was finished and I felt like I was screaming the place down. The one time I had an x-ray I had to stand there while the technician dried the actually x-ray with a hairdryer. Now I can look back on it and it is almost comical. At the time I didn’t really feel the same.
But on the other side of things I’ve also lived in so very remote parts of Australia where the closest medical facility of any kind was 130km down a dirt road, other than the one day a week that the nurse visited for about an hour, which isn’t great when you’re screaming in pain after almost breaking your hand, thankfully it was only tendon damage, but at the time that wasn’t the point. And where medical conditions that the general population of Australia hasn’t had to deal with for a long time are prevelent… there’s nothing like going to an optometrist in Melbourne and asking them to check on trachoma as you had the initial signs of it a few months earlier and then having to explain yourself to someone who has no idea on the condition.
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My mum and dad live in Port Moresby. They tell me of some of the stories and my heart shatters. My mum volunteers in Port Moresby Hospital and she has told me that she found at the very back of a store room information about AIDS/HIV. She put some of the pamphlets out in the waiting room. Half an hour later, when she stuck her head back out she saw every single woman in the room with their heads burrowed into these pamphlets – talking to each other and talking. The HIV problem is so bad in PNG that Catholic Ministers are now giving out contraception.
It makes me so angry that so close to Australia there is so much poverty, and so many people dying needless, premature deaths.
Mia – love your work.
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Love your Mum’s work, too, Ella.
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I will remember that child with fluid on the brain next time I have to wait hours at the E.D. with my child, for my free (sort of), world renowned, paediatric care.
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Good on you Mia. I love Eternal Caterpillar’s idea of donating the $125 to an international immunisation program. I didn’t even know that we get paid for immunising our kids?!
I’ll certainly be doing that when my daughter has her 18 month jab in a couple of months time.
Thanks again for sharing this.
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I enjoyed reading your account of your time in PNG Mia. It sounds like you were humbled by your experience and it has taught me about the real struggles that people have over there.
It is scary to think that this is going on so close to home. Too often, I think Australians consider poverty, inadequate access to health care to be further away in places like Cambodia, Africa, South America etc.
It is pleasing to see both you and Georgie Parker as ambassenders for the Vicks Road To Relief program. I will most certainly be popping a few items into my shopping trolley this week, with your trip in mind.
It really does open your eyes to what goes on in these countries and that there is still so much more that we need to do. We complain too easily about getting the common cold, flu or runny nose yet we are SO lucky that we can go to our local GP and get antibotics.
I’m sure lots of people would agree that we complain too much about the waiting time in doctors surgeries – we don’t really stop and think that we’re lucky to be living in a country with a proper health care system.
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thanks mia, great story and a good reminder for us to really appreciate what we have here.
makes our health system look amazing, that is for sure.
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With Danielle ….we wish you were running for PM
Loved the artical and photos
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Beautiful and heart-breaking story, Mia. Thank you so much for sharing and being brave enough to go. I can only imagine how much this trip has changed you. Other than buying Vicks products and joining the FB group (done), is there a way we can donate extra money online or something?
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Thankyou Mia for this beautiful story. I’m sure it wasn’t without cost to your and your family.
I grew up in PNG & so know the difficulty of living in ‘two worlds’ – so different from each other. It is good for us to be reminded of what’s really important in life to others.
Thankyou, thankyou Mia xx
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Thanks for sharing your experience with us Mia. It can be very difficult to come home after such an experience and not be swamped with guilt and/or anger at the waste of resources we have in our own society.
I spent a brief few months in our own Torres Strait Islands working in health clinics. Most of the clinics have a full time Remote Area Nurse (RAN) with the doctor visiting once every two or three weeks. Some of the more northern island clinics will see patients from PNG, as part of a loose definition of the ‘traditional trade’ arrangement made between the Torres Strait islands and PNG.
Basically, if the PNG patients can get themselves to the clinic, they can get some (emergency) medical care from the Aussie staff.
In a society where we watch people self destruct from their inability to resist cigarrettes, alcohol, poor diet and sedentary lifestyle, it was a refreshing/depressing experience to see PNG families pitching together to pay for the fuel needed to get to these clinics.
So many human stories gather in those clinics. I recall one little boy in particular who had a suspected dislocation of his shoulder. The injury had happened over a week prior to the clinic having the doctor available. He was wearing what I assumed was a (very ineffective) home made sling, a remnant of an old shirt that draped over his left shoulder and around his torso. It was about 5 or 6 cm in width and was filthy with dirt. After checking out his arm, which if I recall correctly, was a fracture, but not a dislocation, the realisation was made that this piece of rag was not a sling, it was his only shirt.
The RAN (one of our world’s true role models), had a stack of second hand clothes that friends would send to her intermittently. She scrounged up a pair of old basket ball shorts – you know the ones made of synthetic that ‘pill’ on the first wash and a faded pink t-shirt with a glittery, fairy applique. These were the only things she had remotely in his size. His bright smile and proud posture in his new kit was sheer beauty.
The gratitude shown for a simple antibiotic, second hand shirt, bag of apples … well, as I said, it is a toss up between refreshing and depressing.
It is sometimes so difficult to come back to a culture where a woman will sue her doctor for implanting two embryos instead of one. It sometimes becomes difficult to resist judging our own entitled population. I guess it is all relative to what our society deems as normal.
Hold onto that reverse culture shock Mia, and keep spreading the word.
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Dear Mia,
Thank you for this article and video. I was initially skeptical, as I tend to be when brand names are attached to ’causes.’ However, this move by Vicks as a company is a sterling example of the abilities all of us have to impact the world outside our own little bubbles. I’m a recent member of the MM community, but I think I’m hooked because you are a refreshing voice of honesty and encouragement.
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Inspiring and amazing. Amazing people do amazing things. I have just discovered your blog and I am blown away by you. I wish you were running for PM, you’d have my vote.
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Thanks Mia. I want to make a difference somehow. I have now become a Facebook friend of Vicks Road to Relief and have recommended it to my friends…and next, to buy some Vicks!
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Mia I am so happy (? it’s not the right word) for you that you got to experience this life-changing, perspective-altering trip.
I have ‘liked’ Vicks Road to Relief as you suggested.
It’s amazing what you are doing for their profile, and for the children of PNG. Thank you.
I haven’t ever done anything like this, but have recently had my perspective shifted by an enormous family tragedy.
It’s strange. I am devastated. I cry a lot. I can’t sleep. I feel my family members’ pain & also feel my own pain.
But the sky has never been brighter. The world never more beautiful. My child has never been more precious, my partner more handsome, considerate & loving. I want to savour every second.
And money & work have never been so unimportant.
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Beautiful story Mia… I am humbled too. Will pass on this piece and the links to all I know.
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Thankyou for this story, Mia.
Maybe the MMers who have read this and commented or just read it and been thinking could tell their local pollie or pollie-wannabe during this campaign that we care about decent programs for things like immunisation in PNG and financial and educational support for the people there to create their own path to development.
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You can do that here http://www.makepovertyhistory.com.au/blog/2010/08/09/make-poverty-history-forums/ & and here http://www.makepovertyhistory.com.au/blog/2010/08/09/the-poverty-question/… xxx And see if there is a local forum in your electorate while you’re there
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Good on you, Mia, and thankyou. I feel inspired and kind of helpless/frustrated all at once. How is it possible for humanity to live so differently with just an oversized creek in between? I suspect we could learn much from some PNG communities, in exchange for a little of our medical resources.
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Last week my 18 month old daughter had the last of her vaccinations (until age 4). For this, $125 was deposited into my bank account.
What a contrast. Not only is immunisation free, accessible and scheduled, but families are paid for it. Australia might have some issues, but in so many ways we really are the Lucky Country.
Thank you for this Mia. I think we will be passing on some of that money from the Government.
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What I great idea!! Share your daughter’s immunizations around the world! =) xx
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I volunteered in West Africa several years ago. It changed my life – changed my perceptions of how I thought people were, what I could do, what would help. But I need reminding ALL the time – of what it was like, what it could be like, what my life is like and how genuinely blessed I am. This is a good reminder and a beautiful read. Thanks.
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Thank you Mia. My brother-in-law works as a pilot in PNG so I have heard his stories of what he has seen and experienced. This is a fabulous reminder of how lucky we really are and is a good reality check.
I remember a friend of mine, many years ago now, left to live and work in an African school and I found myself so engrossed in her blog and her recount of her experiences there. Just so different to the everyday lives we live. I laughed and cried with her as she saw everything that was good and everything that was so wrong in the community.
We need more of these stories in our lives
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How did the trip change your life?
(not being flippant or snarky, just genuinely interested!)
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Well, I guess it opened my eyes to the terrible living conditions and healthcare people (children!) are living with so close to us. It made me think about how lucky we are ….. And how lucky our kids are to have good affordable and accessible healthcare….opened my eyes…..
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Thanks for responding!
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Thanks Mia, for sharing that with us. It sounds like a great initiative and I hope it achieves everything it sets out to do. I wish I didn’t need to be reminded so often how lucky I am to have grown up with clean water, plenty of food, decent medical care and all the other things (both basics and luxuries) that I take for granted — but it seems I do and I guess it’s yet another way I should count myself as fortunate. I bet there are millions of people who’d love to be in that position the world over. Thanks again, and great pictures Conor!
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Great article Mia, I spent 2 weeks in PNG working at the labour ward in PMGH and it changed my life, my perspective on my career as a doctor and my perspective on being a female in Australia. I wouldn’t even consider the possibility of dying in childbirth, but in PNG the risk is somewhere around 1 in 20 of dying from pregnancy related complications.
I spent a day in the paediatrics ward too and I know exactly what you mean. Heartbreaking does not even begin to describe it.
Thank you for raising this issue. xx
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Mia, I too have witnessed the very simple lifestyle the natives of PNG get by with day to day and whilst many are happy, it is when the children or those most defenceless become ill. My trip there changed my life, and I wished I could do more to help, this was 4 years ago.
Funnily enough a lot of Australians go there to either walk the Kokoda track or work in the mining companies. I would love to know how much money is given to various charities like this one, from those who profit the most within PNG.
I wanted to help with education materials, clothing, sporting goods and various other things and my request over several months fell on deaf ears so I obviously did not go through the right channels. Thank you for this information and you have awakened me again to what I can and will do in the coming months.
The children of Papua New Guinea are truly beautiful, and I look forward to doing more to help!
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Hi Christie,
There is an organisation called and event called the Kokoda Challenge that helps Aussie kids who then help PNG kids. I have been involved in the organisation in the past and they are all very grassroots and passionate.
Check out the website and see what they are doing for the local Kokoda School and Hospital here http://www.kokodachallenge.com/png-projects
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Wow Mia… what a powerful piece. Thank you for sharing it.
I think sometimes we’re all guilty of getting caught up in our own worlds (& often the 1st world problems that exist within them) without giving much thought to what else is happening elsewhere. Again, thank you.
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This is such an amazing story Mia. I have long wanted to volunteer overseas to see how others live. I can’t wait to go and help out somewhere in the world.
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Well done Mia.
As hard as it may be for people to accept celebrity endorsements, sometimes it takes a familiar face amongst the unfamiliar faces to remind us that these people are as real as we are.
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I’m gobsmacked. So beautifully written.
It certainly puts things in perspective.
Props to you Mia. You did a good thing.
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Yes that was indeed beautifully written.
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Too often we don’t think about what we buy. I will now look for Vicks brands and make a conscious effort to choose their products.
Thank you
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onya mia! and onya vicks! love seeing brand build this type of community action into their way of operating. i will go buy a vicks product today. will prob help my sore throat!
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I have never done anything like this in my life, which I think is sad.
What I am wondering though is if there is an organisation somewhere that I can send things to that will then be distributed in PNG? If anyone knows of one, I would be very grateful.
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Check out the Goya Foundation
http://www.goyafoundation.org
I know they do to East Timor and pretty sure PNG.
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Not to be a complete party pooper, but I just wanted to point out that whilst sending stuff from here is great, sending money to an on-the-ground charity has a much better outcome. Less environmental pollution from shipping our stuff over there, and there’s also an economic stimulus to the local guy that they buy resources from.
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I am a weeper and found it difficult to watch and read some of this. I visited East Timor last year and ever since have been weeping at stories and pics like this. PNG and ET are so close to home but horribly different in terms of healthcare and basic needs and nutrition.
This is a great foundation I stumbled on after I returned that helps woman and children in both PNG and ET.
http://www.goyafoundation.org/
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I went to PNG in 2008 to complete the Kokoda track as part of a NBCF fundraiser. I too found it to be a lifechanging experience. I went expecting the physical challenge to be the hardest part of all but never anticipated just how much I would fall in love with the country and the people. The people were simply amazing. They get such pleasure out of the smallest, simple things and truly live life to the full.
Some of my favourite memories are:
* Handing out stickers and braclets to the children and watching their little faces light up like you had just given them a million dollars
* In one small village giving a boy and his grandfather some glow sticks at night. I will never forget the image of this 70 year old man dancing in the middle of a field in the pitch black, glow sticks on his wrists and ankles.
* Taking photos of the children on a digital camera and then showing the children what they look like. For children who have grown up in a remote village, without any mirrors, just seeing themselves in these pictures was amazing.
* Rugby league is an institution over there. The people LOVE it. World cup was on and we all (12 Australians, 30 or so PNG locals) gathered around the fire late at night, listening to the radio and listening to PNG play over in Australia.
* The singing. Will never forget the singing. Such beautiful voices. We walked and climed and climbed and walked and still the people kept singing.
People with so little doing all they can to not only survive but get their children an education, basic food, shelter etc. Truly opens your eyes to just how much STUFF we have and take for granted.
I could go on but I think I have bored you all for long enough.
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Your story is not at all boring!!! I read with great interest! I long for the day that I can do something like this.
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Rugby league is more than an institution up there. I lived there in 2008 and 2009 and went to a game last year between PNG and Australia in Port Moresby and the police had to shoot tear gas to stop people trying to get into the ground without tickets and they were almost breaking the fence down.
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*sniff* Mia, I am wiping away tears. Well done.
People may scoff at you being an ‘ambassador’ but without your input many of us here would not know about the conditions in PNG. Thank you.
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Tissues please…
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