by KATE LEAVER
You wouldn’t think teenage girls would need much coaching in melodrama. They’re predisposed to it. They’re naturals when it comes to scandal-mongering, and they converse in bits of gossip. But teaching drama to girls in years seven and eight is truly one of the happiest challenges I’ve undertaken.
It was in that classroom, coaxing the girls to improvise, write scripts, develop characters and sort through their feelings with an audience, that I observed the delicate process of Teenage Self-Discovery close-range.
With my Mother Hen maternal instinct on high alert, I was always on the lookout for signs that one of my girls might be struggling. I adored them, and despaired at the thought that any one mightn’t know what to do if they were depressed, or considering self-harm. I remember so well, the alternating fragility and strength of adolescence.
It’s an immense relief to me to know that if approaching an adult or a friend is too much for them, these days teenagers can get support from the privacy, and even anonymity if they need it, of their internet connection.
Things have changed since I was a teenager. A decade ago, you had to speak to real-life doctors or keep your suffering to yourself. Decades before that, ‘depression’ was a dirty, shameful word rarely uttered. Whiling away my homework time on MSN Messenger was the most constructive thing I did online. But now! To think! There’s the option to seek help and find information online.
It’s a beautiful thing, to see government money go where it’s needed most.
With the National Disability Insurance Scheme stalling, as state and federal politicians scrounge around for funding and play with priorities, it’s nice to know that the mental health sector is getting some attention. It gives me such hope, to see the abundance of online support for young people with mental illness themselves, or advice on how to help someone who does.
It’s brilliant, actually.
The evidence is there: We know that 1 in 4 Australians will grapple with mental illness this year. We know that 75% of these people won’t be treated properly, or even seek help. We know that mental illness is grossly under-reported by young people, and we know how utterly isolating it can be to deal with depression. Addressing the mental health and wellbeing of young people is one of the most important things we can possibly do. It’s urgent.
This study and that have denounced social media for enabling loneliness, and parents hate that their kids spend so much time on the interwebs. There’s even such a thing as “internet dependency.”
But the advent of online mental healthcare is something we should celebrate, and explore. The wonderful thing is that teenagers can side-step the fear of asking for help, and find information themselves. It’s empowering, to educate yourself about mood disorders, eating disorders and symptoms of depression at your own pace.
Two new e-mental health initiatives to get excited about:
We’ve had news this week that 15 new headspace centres will open this year! Mark Butler, the Minister for Mental Health and Ageing, has rather excitedly announced that the new centres will be located where they’re needed most (visit here to find a location near you).
While headspace offers terrific virtual counseling and a catalogue of studies and helpful information, their physical centres are integral to the success of their organisation. A headspace centre is a rare space where young people can seek help for depression, anxiety, mood disorders, eating disorders, alcohol, and substance abuse all under the one roof.
This week, ReachOut have launched smartphone and tablet versions of their online services, and spruced up their website. This means young people can access information and get support whenever they want, wherever they want.
This is the future, right here – you can sign up for free daily SMS ‘stress tips’ and ‘random acts of kindness.’ You can download the ChangeMaker App here, which puts all of ReachOut’s best services in your pocket. The WorkOut campaign gives you clear exercises to improve your mental health and calm, in a familiar quiz format.
Kate is a radio producer, writer and Goon Show enthusiast. You can find her website here, and follow her on Twitter at @Kateileaver.








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This is also a very helpful website:
http://moodgym.anu.edu.au/welcome
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I’ve had 2 very different experiences with Headspace. When in canberra I approached headspace and was inducted into the system quickly and set up with a good psychologist who I worked with for awhile. When I moved to Sydney the experience was totally different! I was first referred to a ‘career guidance counsellor’ despite explaining I was struggling with depression/anxiety issues. I waited over an hour to go in and the clinic manager was completely hopeless as was the ‘career guidance counsellor’. I then asked to transfer to a psychologist and they said yes they’d call me back and never did! I tried again a few years later, had to wait about a month to get into see someone (after numerous phone interviews). When I finally got in I was told they were too full so I had been assigned to the private clinic and had to pay $200 for the appointment which was a shock when I’d been told it was 100% bulk billing at Headspace. So quite impressed with Canberra but Central Sydney has some serious issues.
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I wish they had told us about this when i was in my final year of school last year. At least 4 of my friends struggled with depression and self harm, and many more people in my year who i didn’t talk to probably did as well. i know some i struggled pretty bad to get through the day and yet there was literally no information given to us about depression. Every year from year 8 to year 12 we had talks about safe sex and puberty (2 in year 12 i think) and yet nothing on depression, no info on the signs you may have it or what to do if think you have it, even though is is so prevalent among teenaged, especially when exams are looming over your head. We had a counsellor at school, but if we don’t what to look out for how can we seek help??? Sorry for the big rant, but seeing people i care about struggle with depression i think schools need to do more to educate students about depression and not make it a taboo subject.
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My 16yo son has struggled with depression for 1 year now. We have been lucky with access to a school psychologist and he now attends Reach. He spends a lot of time in his room on the computerr, I will talk to him about these websites and I know he will usectgem if he feels the need
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Does anyone here know of any organisations that I could volunteer to work with troubled teens? I’m interested in potentially taking the plunge and doing a Counselling course but I’d love to real life experience in order to ascertain that it is something I can emotionally deal with and find rewarding. I have a naturally empathetic personality and a genuine caring personality and don’t think I’m too old to be ‘out of touch’ (I’m 28). I’m hoping I can find a way to make a difference as I was once a troubled and depressed teen.
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this is just a thought but you can become a chaplain, i mean like go to skools because that is where most tenns show depression, being in mind that its just a thought!!!
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as a teenager who has struggled with depression with family very much at the root of it I found it very hard to seek help.
i most definitely referred to these two websites, headspace may be government funded but it had no centres near me so was not that helpful. i live in the eastern suburbs of sydney and have to say i am quite dismayed at the lack of community centres or youth centres, theres WAYS in bondi but would take 45mins to get to from where i live which makes it too much of an effort. i think if there were more youth centres like WAYS it would be easier for teenagers to seek help
On the other hand i highly recommend reach out, i found its pages very helpful in the strategies it gave particularly in topics like avoiding self-harm which is kept pretty taboo and takes a great deal of courage to confess to have done it to anyone even if they are a professional
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I agree, I am a psychologist who lives int he East, and I would be thrilled to get a job closer to home. But there are NO JOBS for Psychologists working with youth, so i have schlep to the Inner West.
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Start a practice !!
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definitely thinking about it…
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Yes – it’s still happening today too : (
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Timely post. My teenager told me this week she went online to kids helpline. She wanted to discuss her issues online rather than with a GP or on the telephone. She found that less confronting.
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These are great initiatives, but its also important for people to know there are plenty of options if you do want to see someone in person. See your GP (or even a random GP) and let them know you are struggling. If you get a referral from your GP it is ALOT cheaper to see a psychologist – and some will even bulk bill.
And services like Lifeline, KidsHelpline and Suicide Call back service, are also great phone based options for those wanting to speak to someone without having to look the person in the eye.
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Are they educating children about mental health awareness in high school? I went to high school in the 2000′s and zero focus was put on mental health besides a brief project I did on eating disorders in dance class, would love to hear if it’s being included in high school health curriculum these days.
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I graduated 2 years ago, and from year 7-10 mental health issues were included in Personal development/health class. And my school had quite a strong emphasis on recognising mental health and what to do if you or a friend was suffering. Having said that I went to an independent school, so I’m not sure whether it’s included in public schools.
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My school put very little emphasis on mental health issues. I think we had one talk in year 10 that mentioned it briefly. Definitely needs to have more focus on it in schools.
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Thank you! Last night I was confronted with my 13 year old’s anxiety issues and had to end the conversation with sorry I don’t know the answers and I need to find out how to help you.
This article could not be more timely. Thanks again
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Could I just add that I’m not suggesting mental illness is treated online, but that education about mental illness is encouraged & applauded? And that online resources like the ones I mention help young people understand their condition.
I must stress that anyone who feels they may have depression, or anxiety, or anything related, should seek proper medical attention, and see a doctor – in person.
But websites are a wonderful way to get started.
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In addition to headspace NSW Health also have youth health centres across the state and within various local health districts in Sydney alone. I work as a Psychologist for a youth health centre in South Western Sydney and we provide free confidential counselling for young people aged 12 to 24. The advantage to these services is that they are funded by NSW Health therefore young people do not need a Medicare card to come and see us. We work closely with Headspace however with Headspace the young person requires Medicare card and they are limited to 10 sessions per calendar year. For those who need more than this it’s good to know of other possible options.
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wells-said, here are some youth Health Centres in Sydney:
Youthblock, Camperdwon
Traxside, Campbelltown
The Corner- Bankstwon
FLYYT- Liverpool
High St- Parramatta
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Ive attended headspace for the last 6 years. Including online. I have been treated with so much knowledge, professionalism, compassion and kindness. Because of them im still here. Because of headspace there is a bright future ahead of me and i will be eternally grateful.
Great to see them getting some recognition and much needed funds.
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Great piece!
Here is another perspective – Girls are emotional creatures and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. In fact, rather than molding girls to fit in to the world, the world should be embracing the energy teenage girls bring to it.
I believe it is societies suppression of girls and women which leads to a lot of the depression that occurs.
This is my favourite part of Eve Ensler’s talk on Ted called “Embrace your Inner Girl” – “you don’t tell the Atlantic Ocean to behave”
http://www.ted.com/talks/eve_ensler_embrace_your_inner_girl.html
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