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Tips for fussy eaters.

by PHOODIE

I know this may come as an outrageous shock to everyone but……I love food. Obsessively. Always have. Always will.
And when I say love, I mean LURRRRRRRRVE.

From the moment I popped into the world I’ve been chowing down on something. At first it was milk but pretty soon after it was rice cereal followed by mashed pumpkin, all other vegetables, meat, fish, chicken, pasta, bread, grains and pulses. Then came EVERYTHING ELSE! I’ve never looked back. Do I like sweet foods? Yes! Savoury? Yes! Meat? Yes! Vegetables? Fruit? Yes! Yes! Yessity! Yes! I mean really, there is nothing that I will not eat…..Although I can’t say I get regular cravings for offal!

That said, I do understand that not everyone is the same as me. Some of my earliest childhood memories involve Mum, with a flushed red face, chasing my brother around the swimming pool with a plate of dinner trying to get “at least one spoonful” of whatever she’d cooked into him! He was laughing as he ran faster than she ever could and she was just, well, just INFURIATED! Being a Mum myself now, I can totally understand her pain.

Not only is it a hard enough job for parents to feed their children nutritionally balanced and all round healthy meals three times every single day (plus snacks!), it becomes even more nightmarish when you have to make everything taste delicious as well (or at least appear to!) Over the years I have discovered some awesome tips on how to get the not so favourite foods higher up on the “things i love to eat” list! Some of these tips have come from family, some have come from friends, some I’ve made up and some have been doing the rounds for years! A couple of them may work really well for you and others might not. It’s all about giving them a go. The results will be hit and miss, but at least one hit is better than none!

GOOD LUCK!

Phoodie’s Top Ten Tips for Fussy Eaters.

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Sandwiches in fun shapes

1) Make food fun! Use cookie cutters to cut sandwiches into shapes. Cookie cutters come in every variety and size imaginable so pop to your local homewares store or jump online and order your child’s favourite one’s. If it’s shaped like a heart my daughter will eat a salad sandwich (A SALAD SANDWICH FOLKS!) within 30 seconds and not blink!
2) Pizza. Everyone loves pizza. And what a brilliant opportunity to grate all vegetables known to man and incorporate them into your child’s dinner. Carrots and Zucchini work really well. I do kid’s pizza’s at least once every week. Aside from the fact that it’s pizza (woo hoo!) the kids really love “helping you” cook, and this is a real no mess – no fuss one to tackle with little people.

3) Spaghetti Bolognese. Like pizza above, everyone loves spag bol. And even more so then the pizza, this is a world class opportunity to get kilos of veges into the fussy eater. I use tomato, carrots, zucchinis, mushrooms, sweet potato, celery, eggplant and capsicum. I chop them all very finely (even grate some) and add them to the meat sauce. When they’re cooked I use my hand held mixer to pulse the final bolognese sauce so that all of the vegetables are pretty much unrecognisable. This means there’s no small fingers singling out a lone piece of celery saying “I don’t liiiiiiike celery!”

4) Cauliflower and potatoes are both white! So what?! You say. Here’s what! This means that when boiling your potatoes to mash them, you can throw in a piece or two of cauliflower and boil/mash it as well! When cooked, add some milk and a bit of butter, mash it all up and no one will be any the wiser! This works very well so long as you get the proportions right. Too much cauliflower and the taste is too strong. It’ll end up in the bin. Too little cauliflower and what’s the point? (You want to aim for about 1/4 cauliflower and 3/4 potato.)

5) Cheese makes things taste better. For example, each Thursday at my local Farmer’s market, I watch billions (ok maybe not billions, but lots) of children chomping on Turkish Gozleme. Turkish Gozleme is packed to the rafters with SPINACH!……and cheese! Somehow that delicious, salty feta assists them in consuming, by the bucketload, the iron rich dark green vegetable normally reserved for Popeye. Be creative, add cheese to your favourite family meals.

6) Potato can have a similar effect to cheese. For example, Instead of opening a tin of tuna and placing it in front of your child for dinner try to incorporate it into a pie, or fishcakes. A quick and easy tuna pie can be made by frying off a small amount of onion and garlic and then adding in the tuna and some frozen vegetables. Layer this in individual pie dishes, top with some béchamel sauce, lots of mashed potato and then sprinkle with cheese. Bake in oven until cheese melts.

7) Fresh juices are great snacks for kids. Instead of loading them up with too many sugary pieces of fruit, sneak in carrot and celery. Again, it’s about getting the proportions right. Carrot is strong, so in a child’s glass of juice always go for 1 carrot only. Add to this  up to five stalks of celery, as celery is tasteless/sweet. Throw one orange into the mix and you’ve got the perfect kiddie combo. Fresh juices can also be easily frozen into moulds to make healthy ice blocks! (Image in gallery) Like the juice idea, soups are also a good way to get veges in. Instead of serving up a plate of boiled pumpkin, you’ll have more luck if you whip it into a soup and top it with sour cream! (Image in gallery)

8) Pasta is also a good “disguiser” of food. Sometimes if I don’t think my daughter is going to want to eat a whole piece of salmon with veges on the plate too, I toss the fish through pasta with crumbled broccoli and loads of ricotta and it’s eaten as a yummy pasta dinner rather than salmon with sides.

9) Another “make food fun” idea is to create characters, faces, ‘things’, animals on the plate. For example, my grandmother makes pinwheel sandwiches for all of the kids’ birthday parties. She packs them with healthy fillings and we are creative with the way we arrange them on the plate. For my son’s 1st birthday the theme was “Gardening” and we made a caterpillar of pinwheel sandwiches. They were gone in minutes! At the same party, instead of just serving an overwhelming platter of fruit, we separated the fruit skewers into 3 colours and served them poking out of watering cans – much more interesting! And for halloween just now, we ate cheese and tomato salsa on crackers, but instead of serving them the traditional way, we turned them into used bandaids! (Images in gallery)

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10) Be creative! If you don’t have time to sit back and dream up ideas, there are SO MANY great ones online. Browse for ten minutes and you are guaranteed to find lots of ways to have fun with food…. and be healthy at the same time!

 

After graduating from high school, Phoodie studied Interior Architecture at UNSW. She worked for several years as a designer before having the courage to throw caution to the wind and run, very, very fast to the Le Cordon Bleu cookery school in London. She is a cookbook, restaurant, and all round food obsessed blogger and Mum of 2. She can be found posting recipes here, tweeting here, or on Facebook here .

Do you have fussy eaters?! What tips and tricks have you learnt over the years to combat the fussy eater in the family? Were you a fussy eater as a kid?


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  1. Louise

    My 3 year old has always been an insanely fussy eater. He will basically only eat the following foods: oatmeal porridge, weet bix, plain yoghurt, bread with peanut butter and/or honey, “chips” (fries or boiled potatoes sliced) with ketchup, cheese and sometimes, if I’m lucky, fish fingers. The only way I can get fruit into him is via juice – apple usually. It drives me nuts. I can make cute faces out of his food as much as I like, it’ll still be refused. He won’t eat pasta with sauce, or any form of meat (except frankfurters once in a blue moon). He’ll eat pretty much anything sweet though.
    Any ideas?

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  2. Goldie

    My kids are pretty fussy too and it drives me bonkers! They like pizza but only with cheese, or cheese and salami so I got smart and made up my own tomato base sauce. I cook sweet potato, peeled zucchini, pumpkin, anything that I have spare and then blitz it til it is super smooth and add the tub of tomato paste to it and mix it all up. It looks just like normal tomato paste, but with a little somethin’ special in it! I freeze it in blocks and just defrost one as I need it. I also add it to pasta or bolognaise if I have run out of other veggies to hide.
    Is hard but you have to be fairly relaxed a dinner time and kids will eat better. Kids know what they need and some days they eat more than others but it all balances out in the end.

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  3. Bec

    My toddler started refusing meat. This is the same little guy who was eating steak and corn on the cob at 10 months.. I was all prepared for vege refusal but was floored by the meat one.

    So I still offered it. Covered it in tomato sauce which he sucked off and then spat the meat out (was hoping some would transfer in the 30 seconds it was sitting in his mouth while he sucked the sauce off) and then grated frozen cooked steak into his yoghurt for dessert.

    Thankfully he got passed that phase after a few months.

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    • Anonymous

      You grated frozen steak into his dessert??????

      That’s insane. Troll?

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  4. Lolly

    Great ideas Phoodie!

    I’ve got a 4yo, 2yo and 8 month old, who are pretty good eaters, but still have their moments of fussy/slow eating. Here are a couple of ideas for happier meal times…..

    - keep to set meal times (breakfast, m/t, lunch, arvo/t, dinner) each day. Nothing else, then they should be coming to the table reasonably hungry each time….nothing like a few quick crackers at 4.30 to bugger up a 6pm dinner!

    - a tapas plate at the end of lunch and dinner. So they eat their main meal (sandwiches for lunch, meat/vegetables for dinner), then they get tapas. It’s a mixed little plate of healthy foods they love (cheese, fruit, soy crisp), plus one or two new things for them to try (peas, tomato, olive paste on a cracker, sausage, piece of fish pie etc. It’s visually so interesting and appealing to kids, and quick to throw together. If they try/eat everything they could get a sticker on their rewad chart, or watch a bit of tv after dinner etc

    - download the free sand timer app. Give a set time for the meal, 15-20 mins. In our house, whoever has finished their dinner before time is up gets to watch Thomas the Tank or Raa Raa in the loungeroom recorded earlier in the day on our Foxtel IQ. If the timer runs out and you haven’t finished, you stay at the table and keep eating. (they might be able to hear the tv, just make sure they can’t see it!). If you’re still slow, the show will finish, you’ll miss it and have to just go straight up for a bath. We don’t use the timer every night (cause we don’t want them getting too dependent on it), maybe 3/4 nights a week.

    - talk about how lucky they are to eat such wonderful, interesting, delicious foods. It’s never too early to remind them that so many children in other parts of the world may only get a small bowl of plain rice every day for dinner. A bit of empathy and showing gratitude is great for kids!

    - it’s December now, so we’ve bought an advent calendar for each toddler (not the baby, obviously). Nothing like the promise of a little square of chocolate to get that dinner eaten! But if dinner is not eaten happily or on time, you must stand firm – NO CHOCOLATE for that night (leave it out for Santa’s elves, who might just be flying around tonight looking for good boys and girls!)

    Bon appetit!

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    • phoodietweets

      Lolly – you are AMAZING – 3 kids of those ages and still the time to be so creative and thoughtful about meals! Well done you!

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  5. Faybian

    With some kids, you need to try working on the behavioural side too.
    Try talking with your kids about what you expect (half of dinner at least, or try everything at least once etc). Tell them how they’ll be rewarded if they meet your expectations (trip to the park or whatever works for your child, after they’ve done well 3 times say) and make the meal only go for a specified amount of time (20 min etc). Take the plates away and go on as normal. Only give water and fruit between meals, or water if dinner time and let them go hungry. If done consistently, for a lot of kids there will be an improvement.
    Remember that kids, especially smaller ones require at least 7-10 tries of a new food before it’s accepted. If it’s not, then don’t offer for a few weeks and then try again.

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  6. Sasha

    My four year old son is extremely fussy at the moment, up until age 3 he was a terrific eater, would eat anything I put in front of him. Now all I can get him to eat is fish, chicken (no red meat), potato, raw carrots, apples, sandwiches or crackers with butter, jam, Vegemite or avocado, ham & pineapple homemade pizzas, weetbix & rice bubbles. I’ve tried cookie cutters & ‘face’ meals to no success. I’m really hoping this is just a phase!! :-/

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    • Luc

      I do think kids often go through this as a developmental phase. My little guy was an awesome eater as a baby, then narrowed down a lot as a toddler. He ate fairly healthy things, thank goodness, but there was only a limited number! Then at around five, his “food vocab” opened up again, and now at seven he eats almost everything again.
      I read somewhere that kid’s tastebuds are trained in the first two years, and if they are exposed to lots of things then, they will return to them when they are older.

      So here’s hoping it works for you too!

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  7. KCav

    My kids hardly eat a thing. Drives me mental especially when as babies they would eat anything and everything. My husband and I eat a wide variety of food, tarted up and plain. My only hope is that things change when they are older (they are 8 & 6). Daughter hates spag bol & pasta but will eat lasagne. Hates anything green, will dig up a ton of spuds from our garden but won’t eat potato of any form unless mashed by her grandfather (???), will force down salad, won’t eat most meat….I could go on and on AND ON and name pretty much every healthy food that’s going. My son is a picky bird that won’t chew crunchy veg and hates ‘slimy’ cooked veg, and don’t even start me on stir frying……

    How did this happen? Where did we go wrong? Why meeeeee????!!!!!

    They are very involved in food prep, we have a massive, productive vegie garden where we source most of our veg, they love growing things, and making meals just not eating them. We don’t eat crap, I just keep on serving good healthy meals everyday at mealtimes and to school and slowly go crazy after each rejection.

    I’m actually on the verge of challenging Jamie Oliver to get my kids to eat. I can’t believe that they are healthy, robust growing kids because based on what they eat, they should be passed out in their beds. They are fussy little so & so’s at the moment, a moment that will hopefully end SOOOOOOOON!!!!!

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    • phoodietweets

      I’m having a bit of a *blergh* day and your comment just put a big smile on my face! Very funny!

      I totally understand it must drive you mental but I love the way you worded it – I felt like we were having a conversation!

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      • KCav

        HaHa! Can you tell I’m having a *blergh* day as well!!!??? The kids are eating homemade pizza right now and picking off everything and eating the base. Am 39 weeks pregnant and hungry so going in for the scraps!!! Yeeha!

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        • phoodietweets

          Pizza – yum! It’s probably my favourite kiddie dinner!

          Good luck with your last week (or so?!!? or less!!!) of pregnancy! :)

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    • JosieY

      I hear you sister!

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  8. Tonia Zemek

    Genius! Such great ideas. The Caterpillar Smoked Salmon Sandwiches might just be rocking my next grown-up gathering! Love how you make food fun.

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  9. Healthstyler

    Some great tips thank you!

    What I find works well is getting the kids involved.

    At the supermarket: letting them choose the fruit they would like in their lunchbox, choosing 3 different coloured vegetables to have with dinner, choosing what flavour yoghurt they would like.

    At home: peeling, mixing, chopping, sifting, setting the table – whatever age appropriate task they can mange.

    A veggie and herb garden works wonders too – getting the kids involved in planting, watering, picking and coming up with meal ideas to you use the produce is a great way to get them to eat their veggies!

    http://www.healthstyler.com.au

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  10. Flutterby

    I agree with all of Phoodie’s tips except about being creative and making cute sandwiches. In my house – TOTAL waste of time.

    Most of my issues are with my stepson who’s been traumatised by various foods. Wont eat anything that “looks funny”. No Potato and must drown everything in tomato sauce.

    What works for us is that if you want dessert, you must eat 3 vegetables of different colours – it can be any vegetable you like. I don’t mind having heaps of veges in the fridge.

    We also encourage that if you don’t like something you don’t have to eat it. Now, this may seem like pandering at first but the rule is you must try 3 good mouthfuls. Most of the time, it starts to get liked after mouthful 2 or it is liked next time it’s served.

    Another tip is to give half a serve of the new food with other foods that will be eaten like fish fingers and home made nuggets. The “new” food usually gets eaten or at least has a couple of mouthfuls taken.

    Things in a tomato pasta sauce are usually very well received too. I made a ratatouille that went down a treat the other night.

    Some children are dippers and they all love to eat with their hands, so vegetables that you can dip into a yoghurt or avocado sauce are good too.

    Also, remember to dish younger children’s meals up before adding strong spices. Children have more tastebud receptors for bitter foods and this is often what causes the “yuck”.

    I remember as a kid hating my mums vegies because they were always overcooked and had soda in them to keep them green as Dad wanted tea on the table when he got home, which was a bit unpredictable. Cook your vegies properly and most kids will like them.

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    • phoodietweets

      Some great tips in there too Flutterby!

      Not all tips will work for all kids, but the more tips we can gather and share the more “hits” people will get…. and then again some poor people will just get all “misses”! :)

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  11. Kat

    These are good ideas but most of them would not have worked on my own kids during their fussy years (they all came out of fussiness by adolescence and are good eaters of a broad diet now). The big thing for my kids was they didn’t like foods mixed up. Each food needed to be separate from other, different foods. Does anyone else have kids like that?
    So all soups, stews, stir fries, and even bolognaise were out as there were too many things moxed together. What they liked was some plain pasta or rice, some plain meat or chicken or cheese, and some plain uncooked vegetables. Infuriating at the time, especially as I liked to cook interesting food – but also not inadequate nutitionally.

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    • Flutterby

      I know quite a few people like this. They also eat the food groupings one at a time.

      A mate of mines ex was like this. Boy is she loving eating pastas, indian and japanese and whatever she damn well likes now that he’s gone!

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    • Lozzie

      Love Phoodie’s posts but I;m with you Kat, my kids would not be swayed by creative ideas when they were younger and they were definitely plain food eaters ie. plain pasta, plain rice, plain chicken, sticks of cheese etc.

      I do like the idea of mixing in grated vegies in the Bolognaise.

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    • Snap!!

      I agree, none of those tips worked on my son, believe me I tried!! Plain food, all separate has worked, also serving it on a small plate has worked as well. I made the mistake of serving it on a big plate with too much food & he would be just overwhelmed with it. He also prefers raw veggies over cooked which is fine with me.

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    • chillax

      Nothing is more off putting to me that a beautiful roast meal swamped in gravy! I like my gravy to be on the side or preferably in a jug so I can pour it on bit by bit as I feel like it.

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  12. Me Myself I

    The veg hidden in spaghetti bol is brilliant. Will definitely give this a go and am slapping myself on forehead for not thinking of it myself. Thanks Phoodie!

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  13. Kat

    As an adult I still use some of these tricks in my own food – grated carrot and zucchini cook right down in a batch of chilli con carne and add a nutrient boost. I’m sure this would be popular with kids as well – who doesn’t like nachos?

    Be careful not to waste time trying these tricks when your kid just isn’t going to eat though! Mum still loves telling the story of trying to tempt me when I was sick with a veggie farm yard – think broccoli trees, carrot tractor wheels etc all stuck together with cream cheese. I wouldn’t touch the thing!

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  14. angie

    Thanks Phoodie, some lovely ideas there, but I just want to caution everyone about the concept of hiding or sneaking in regards to food (eg. Jessica Seinfeld style- I can’t stand that book). By all means, put veges into meals on a regular basis, eg in spag bol, but don’t ‘hide’ them and tell children otherwise- they need to learn to accept these tastes and eat healthy food, and children can lose trust in adults at mealtimes if they think they are being tricked and become even ‘fussier’. Research has shown many children take multiple trials of a new food (up to 11) before accepting them in their food repertoire. So don’t let one or two ‘yuck!’s put you off- keep trying, and be creative as Phoodie has wonderfully shown us- get kids involved in buying and preparing food and make it visually attractive. Food is fun!

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    • princessmelli

      I understand what you are saying, but Jessica Seinfeld recomends putting vegetables on the plate too so they have to eat some of them. Hiding them in the food just makes sure they eat more of them

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    • Maui

      I hated that book too, how desperate do you have to be to put spinach in brownies?!

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      • zia

        Oh yes, the spinach brownies! Made those once in a moment of desperation. Literally the most disgusting thing I’ve ever tried

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    • distracted

      I think there’s a halfway house – disguise the vegetables in the spaghetti sauce or whatever and give it to the kids as usual. Don’t lie about it – let them know that there are veges in there if it comes up in conversation, but this way you can say “Well spag sauce is FULL of tomatoes/carrots/zucchini and you love that!”. Has worked for me, anyway.

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    • M

      Agreed with you about the trust issues, I have a fully grown adult in my house (my husband) who still can’t trust his own Mother’s cooking because of a lifetime of lying about his food. Granted he has aspergers and all sorts of food sensory issues, and that was her tactic, but it didn’t work. With my own kids (and him!) I might still grate the carrot and zucchini into the spaghetti but there is full disclosure as to what is in there.

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    • phoodietweets

      Good point Angie!

      Haven’t heard of Jessica Seinfeld…. assuming she’s Jerry’s wife?! Am I missing out on something *runs off to Google…*

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      • angie

        loved your article Phoodie, didn’t want to sound like I was criticising, I just wanted to caution some people about the food hiding, as I see it backfire often! Your ideas about presentation are fabulous, and I love number 1) make food fun- that’s what food is about- enjoyment, social interaction and nutrition.

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    • kateusedtobeinLondon

      My father is the fussiest eater in the world. My mother has been lying to him about the contents of her cooking for 4 decades now. The rest of the family is also in on it these days. It used to cause issues at restaurants where he wouldn’t share meals with the rest of us, but as he is a little bit deaf now things much easier – ‘what did he say the dumplings were made of? Eggplant? I’m allergic to eggplant.’. ‘No Dad, she said eggs and greens.’ ‘Oh, Ok.’

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