Have you ever been to a friends house for lunch or dinner, or even afternoon tea for that matter, gobbled down something to die for and innocently asked “Can I get the recipe for that cake / salad / biscuit – It was AMAZING!” only to be smacked in the face by the abrupt (and in my opinion unnecessary) reply of “Oh, I don’t give out my recipes”?
Sorry, what? Who are you? Heston Blumenthal? Adriano Zumbo? Bill Granger? Gordon Ramsay? Hang on a second, all of those World Class Chefs actually do give out their recipes, so what’s the deal?
I’ve never been a recipe protector. I don’t see the point. You want it? You got it! I actually blog my recipes for the world to see. I really don’t understand why anyone would feel the need to conceal the combination of ingredients that form together a dish. By doing this what are they hoping for? That you will be forced to hang out with them if you want to munch on their prized goods?* Honestly, what other reason is there?
I’m trying to see the other side of the argument, as I’m sure there is one.
If a certain recipe was a moneymaker e.g. Colonel Sanders’ special spice combo for KFC chicken or Coca Cola’s secret chemical mix to make the famous drink, then I get it. Actually come to think of it, the same principle could be applied to the famous chef’s I’ve listed above and their schmancy restaurant dishes yet they share their recipes. When push comes to shove people will still go to the well-known chef’s restaurants to eat their dishes cooked by them (or at least by professionals) I mean I think even if you knew that Coca-Cola was made from 120g potassium 240g sodium blah blah blah (I’m an Architect not a scientist) you would still just grab one from Woolworths as opposed to knocking up a batch in your own backyard.
And I get it if the recipe is not yours to share in the first place. For example, on her death bed, your great Aunt Jude gave you her Strawberry and Pop Rocks jam recipe on the condition that you would “never EVER share it” – then okay, I can see how you would want to honour her dying wish.
A friend told me about a lady she knew, one of the mums from school, who was an amazing cook and confided in my friend that she hated giving out her recipes. So when asked, she would always leave one ingredient out and hand the list and method over with a smile. According to her, if the person was smart enough to figure it out then props to them, they “deserved” the real recipe but if not, then too bad. Harsh eh?!
The thing about “giving away” a recipe is that it’s still yours once it’s gone. Just because someone else make’s Natalie’s Chocolate, date and almond cake does not mean that it’s not Natalie’s cake anymore.
I also believe that it’s the person making the dish that determines the outcome, not simply the list of ingredients. Whilst one person will make the dish with love, another will make it in a rush and someone else will make it and be extremely heavy handed with the salt. The outcome will always reflect the individual who created it. For example, my grandmother, talks about LISTENING to your food as it “talks” to you. If it bubbles, it may be thirsty (add some wine) if it makes a scratching sound it could be dry (turn down the heat) and so on. It’s this attention to detail and the passion she puts into everything she does that makes the taste of her food so special and unique.
So in keeping with my theme I’d like to hand over my latest culinary acquisition, the recipe for a truly delicious and healthy summer salad. It’s really easy to knock up and is very, very light – just perfect as a side dish at your next BBQ! The recipe is actually my sister’s, I hope she doesn’t mind.
Asparagus, Zucchini and Pea salad
Serves 8 as a side
SALAD INGREDIENTS
2 bunches asparagus
8 zucchinis
3 cups green peas
1 packet Greek feta
1 bunch mint
DRESSING INGREDIENTS
8 lemons – juice of
½ cup olive oil
salt – 2 teaspoons
pepper – 1 teaspoon
oregano – dry, a pinch
3 cloves garlic – crushed
METHOD
1) Wash asparagus, chop in half, blanch in boiling water (about 3 minutes) then refresh in ice-cold water. Put to side.
2) Wash zucchinis then ribbon with a potato peeler, leaving the seedy core. (You can boil these cores and blend for baby food! If no baby, boil, drizzle in olive oil and eat!) Blanch ribbons in boiling water (about 30 seconds) then refresh in ice-cold water. Put to side.
3) Boil peas (about 1 minute) then refresh in ice-cold water. Put to side.
4) Gently toss the 3 green vegetables together in a bowl
5) Crumble a block of feta throughout the salad
6) Chop the mint just before serving and toss through the salad
7) Combine all dressing ingredients and lightly drizzle over (serve extra dressing on the side for peeps to add additional if they want, it’s rather tangy!)
*I just realised how that possibly sounds a little…..uh……wrong!
By trade she is an architect but ”by love’ she is a PHOODIE. Phoodie graduated from Le Cordon Bleu London’s Cuisine Certificate programme and is now more inspired than ever to fill in the gaps in her knowledge about food. Visit Phoodie’s blog here and her Twitter here.
Do you share recipes or guard them with your life? If you are willing to share why don’t you tell us your favourite recipe?








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I used to obligingly give out my recipes to anyone who would ask. I thought it was flattering that they would even ask me.
However, after many occasions of doing this, with several different people, I would ask them, ‘so did you make (insert dish name here)’? Only to be told and embarrassed ‘no!’
After being faced with this time after time, I decided that I would no longer share my recipes.
More recently, when asked yet again, by a very close relative, I reluctantly agreed to share a recipe. When she happily presented me, and various others with my signature dish, I was devastated that it didn’t taste anything like my dish. It was so far off, it was hardly comparable. I was then faced with people thinking I wasn’t such a great cook.
It just reassured me that my ‘no sharing’ policy is the right choice.
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Why do you care so much about whether or not they use the recipe? I’m genuinely curious. Is it because you’ve taken the time to write it out for them?
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While we’re on the subject…those of you who do share: Does anyone have a great recipe for gluten free Christmas pud? I’m you’re making a pud for 16 and I can’t afford to just wing it!
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I am one of these [terrible, nasty, awful, horrible] people who is not happy to hand out my recipes to just anyone. I spend a lot of time researching, tweaking, experimenting and trying different things to make food that people enjoy.
If a good friend asks for my recipes, I am happy to hand them over. If someone I admire, or someone I know loves cooking asks for them, then I am happy to hand them over. But when someone I barely know, or do not like wants the end result of all my hard work, then no, I am not just going to hand it over for them to take credit for at their next function.
If this makes me a terrible person, I’m just going to continue donating to UNICEF regularly and driving my Prius to make myself feel good.
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I asked a friend’s mum for a cake recipe once, not knowing if she would give it to me (I didn’t know her that well). She told me there are two kinds of people in the world: the people who are insecure and don’t want you to upstage the one thing they can do that gets attention OR the people who are flattered that you liked their dish enough to want to make it yourself and who are confident enough to know that even if the world starts making their cake, they’ll just find a new cake to make. She then went into the study and came back with a sheaf of copies she had already made to give out. Now I make the cake all the time and when people ask me for the recipe, I can give it to them from memory. And when I see my friend’s mum, I always tell her how many people and countries that recipe has gone to. Life’s too short to be stingy.
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You’re Mum’s friend is right. It’s my insecurities that keep me from being generous with my recipes. I don’t have much money or a large table – so when I gift someone my cooking it kind of feels like someone asking me how much it costs. I love offering my recipes if someone compliments but don’t like being asked for them – even though I always do give them over because I feel like you can’t say no – but I always resent it. It’s always the same people that ask too – and they want you to email it – typing it all out – ugh! Because of this I don’t ask for recipes either but research my own. Maybe I could say there are two types of people the seekers and the takers. I know a better analogy – the annoying person at uni who always asked for your reference list for an assignment because they couldn’t be bothered doing it themselves. However in saying all this I still acknowledge it is my insecurities because I want to be special at something!
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My sister in law’s mother (i.e. my brother in-law’s wife’s mother, not my mother in-law who is most generous with recipes) refuses to share her shortbread recipe, even though none of her daughters cook very well, and they absolutely don’t bake.
The recipe refusal makes me think she is a bad person, but really it is making me a bad person by thinking bad thoughts like “Giving me the recipe is your one shot at imortality sweetie, because after you go, I would still cook them, and my daughters (who do bake) who cook them too.” I know I will sit at this woman’s funeral in ten years time and think, what a bitch, why wouldn’t you give me the recipe? Am I not worthy?”
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OMG, I have tears rolling down my face… funniest response ever…. I can just see the tombstone “RIP, you bitch, why wouldn’t you just give me the damn recipe!!!”
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I mostly get my recipes from blogs so I share those. And taste.com.au is my fave website.
But my Nonna’s biscuits, pasta bake etc are a family secret. No arguments. My bf’s Mum makes these potato-cheesy awesome balls and I’m not allowed the recipe until we’re engaged/ married. I think that’s fair enough.
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Let’s hope if you do get married you stay married… otherwise who knows where the recipe could end up! Honestly, we wonder why woman are known as being bitchy. Why can’t we support each other in all that we do – including our cooking?
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fair enough and a little crazy even?
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I agree completely and ended up doing the same thing you did, starting a blog all about giving away recipes. What I really like about it is it’s a place to store my Great-Grandma’s and Grandma’s recipes. All my aunts have been wonderful and chipped in.
This way all their recipes will be captured for all generations t come. And often, the ones that get the biggest reaction are the ones that are from my Gran. Here’s one for everyone, passionfruit melting moments, just the way my Gran used to make – http://clevermuffin.com/2011/11/02/passionfruit-melting-moments/
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Oooh Aimee – I’m a keen follower of your blog.
In fact – I had your spinch & feta muffin for morning tea. Yum!
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Hi Phoodie
Do you have that recipe for Strawberry and Pop Rocks jam?
I couldn’t concentrate on the rest of the article wondering if that jam exists.
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Bahahaha!
I don’t but I could definitely create one!
I imagine it would be like any jam recipe and then I think the pop rocks would have to be tossed through at the end so as to retain their “pop”…. Otherwise I would imagine they would go “soggy”!
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Thanks Phoodie
Going to find tonights dinner on your blog.
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Great!
If you’re looking for anything in particular leave me a comment on the blog and I can help out!
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I have a special recipe, it’s the only fancy dish I can make. It’s not a secret, and the “name” of the dish is just a list of all the ingredients, but I don’t have it written down so can’t really give it to others. Most people get it from me by watching me make it. It’s rare that someone will come over and eat it without making it themselves at home.
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I adore it when people ask for my recipes, even better when people make ones I blog about (http://blithemoments.blogspot.com.au/).
However, we do have a secret family recipe for an amazing chocolate cake. It is the cake that we eat for breakfast on family member’s birthdays and as such it is pretty rare that people outside of the family so the recipe issue doesn’t really come up, but if it did, well I would have to turn them down.
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I am always happy to share my recipes, except for my Nanna’s shortbread recipe. This recipe is handed down through the generations, my mum, her sister and I spend a wonderful day before christmas baking this wonderful christmas treat for our families. There is even special stamping equipment that my aunt still has to enure that special touch! It is a wonderful way for us to remember Nanna and the joy she brought into all of us.
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I happily share anything; the problem is that I’m very much a make-it-up-as-I-go cook, so when I’m asked for the recipe I’m scratching my head to remember what went into it, and the actual quantities are even vaguer, since I tend to cook by intuition, rather than science. I do my best to write it down, and warn about which bits are vague — but I always feel rather embarrassed when I can’t give something that’s exactly reproducible
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I’m still trying to get two recipes from my Mum that I love but that she makes up as she goes along. I’ve decided I need to sit there and watch her make them otherwise I’m never getting those recipes.
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Sounds like my mum’s bolognaise…
Tell her to supervise you making it – by actually doing it, it will sink in faster and you’ll develop the intuition for the way it should smell every step of the way
http://thefridgedoorblog.com
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I I receive great joy in sharing and receiving delicious recipes! Why would you discover a fantastic recipe and then keep it a secret, so others cannot enjoy?
I normally play around with recipes (add more veggies, remove oil, add less this, add more that) and I always mention that (and what worked and didn’t work) when I pass on recipe!
Sharing is caring =)
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I get most of my recipes from magazines especially the womens weekly so if asked for a recipe I say where its from and hand it over. I like to think the way I make something is a big part of the success of the dish. I have never ‘made up’
an original dish in my life so it seems a bit silly to not share the source.
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I always share, because let’s face it, finding great-tasting gluten-free recipes is always exciting! The greatest compliment is, “Oh, is it it gluten-free? Really?!!”
Yeah, I know, a bit sad. That’s coeliac disease for you
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Understand your pain. My brother in law and my best friend are gluten free so I’m getting better and better at making gluten free goodies. I find Sticky Date Pudding works so so so well as gluten free. I think it may even be better than the regular version!
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Brownies are also better gluten free. Replacing normal flour with butter and ground hazelnuts or almonds? Yes please.
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Thanks for the salad tip – I am making a batch today (should get dinner & a lunch or two out of it). Will go nicely with the frenched lamb cutlets I just picked up on sale.
Sorted – thanks for sharing
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Will go bbbbbbeautifully with the lamb! Yumboooooo!
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I think there’s no greater compliment than someone asking for one of my recipes, it makes my day! I’m particularly on the hunt for vegie-concealing recipes for toddlers. I’ve posted an awesome and easy recipe for yummy pumpkin muffins here: http://roarsweetly.wordpress.com/2012/01/22/yummy-pumpkin-muffins/
This week I’m posting a recipe for sausage rolls that my super fussy toddler adores. They’re loaded with carrots, zucchini and capsicum and his little vegie-sensors would never detect it!
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A little vege-hiding trick I use with some friends who are *fussy* is to offer them lasagne, salad & baked chips…
* The white sauce isn’t actually white sauce – it’s pureéd caulflower.
* The bolognaise contains more very finely diced mushroom, carrot, onion, spinach,etc than meat and then I still put in a couple of layers that are made up of mushrooms, eggplant, artichoke leaves, etc.
* The chips are actually baked potato, sweet potato & carrot – cut like chips, baked like chips – but with none of the oil and fats.
None of them even notice the difference and all say that my lasagne is better than the frozen/microwave versions… (I’d want to hope my lasagne is better than a microwave one!)
Most of the guys stay in Con-Camps up here as they’re FIFO’s and as a result, aren’t allowed to cook in their rooms so I suppose any meal that doesn’t get served on a plastic tray is a luxury
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I’m a sharer and love it when people give me their recipes. I have a book filled with recipes for ‘Kristen’s Spaghetti’ or ‘Tara’s Lemon Cake’. I’ve moved around a lot and I love baking something from an absent friend. Beautiful memories as I cook, beautiful memories as I eat! Thank you recipe sharers.
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The ‘family’ cook book at mum’s place (a plastic display folder of recipes) has the owner of each recipe stamped at the top of the page. It’s very cute.
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I love to bake. I have a few select recipes that everyone always raves about but if I’m to take them elsewhere for a gathering with strangers they always say: “these are amazing can I have the recipe?” And I’m happy to give it out until… they keep on commenting on how there is no way I baked these because I don’t look like the baking type.
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I have a friend who ALWAYS asks for every recipe when I cook for her. I found out once she had then cooked a dish for our whole group of friends, lapped up the compliments, with no mention of where the recipe came from. What annoyed me is that that now I can’t cook that recipe for the same friends – they’ll think I got it off her! Now I leave ingredients out.
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Oh, so not fair! That would make me mad too.
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I share mine on my blog every week… Hell, I even ask friends if I can have copies of their recipes for the blog (that reminds me – MUST make & publish the Pineapple Cheesecake my best friend gave me).
In our family we’re more than happy to share recipes except for a recipe of my Nan’s which died with her (or so we thought).
For 10 long years everyone in the family tried literally HUNDREDS of pastry recipes to try and recreate my Nana’s apple pie. The phrase “it’s not quite Nana’s” was heard every time.
Until 2yrs ago when my Nana’s cousin, Mary, came to Australia on a holiday. Someone had made an apple pie and the phrase was bandied around the table. Our Mary was confused – why were we all critising the cook?
We explained the pastry-recipe loss to her, only to be told – “Oh that’s easy… it’s daa daa daa daa…!”
You WHAT!!! OMG!!! was cried.
Now that we have that sacred recipe, we have pie-competitions – all competing to make it the EXACT same as Nana did. Thus far – Uncle Mark is winning and my mum is losing – which, considering there are 25 of us vying for it – is pretty depressing for poor mum
http://thefridgedoorblog.com
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Ill bet your Nanna would be delighted that her pie continues to make such an impact amongst the people she loved. A great way to honour and remember an ancestor.
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Hey Blondage, I made one of your recipes – the big batch choc chip cookies and it was sensational!
I make it regularly and freeze most of it in a log so I can bring it out when I need lunchbox snacks.
If you never shared that I would still be making dodgy cookies.
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Aw thanks
Glad you liked it…
For a twist – leave out a cup of chopchips and replace with a cup of dried cranberries… *YUM*
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Haha. I remember my father’s complete and utter disappointment when raving about his deceased mothers apple pie only to have his father tell him that it only ever had one apple in it, the rest of the “fruit” was choko!
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For a minute there I thought you meant nannas, like you find in the frozen treats aisle!
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It occurs to me that the sharing of recipes is yet another of the wonderful humble but practical things that women (and no doubt some men) do to create the threads that make up the fabrics of our families and communities. Sharing recipes is just another of the multitude of ordinary little things that tie us together.
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My Mum taught me to share. And she and I (and my SIL) often have fun talking food and sharing with each other. When someone asks about a recipe, I take it as an honour – the highest form of food-praise. And I love to share tips and recipes and talk food.
I often asked my grandmother to teach me to make soups the way she did. I can make a pretty good soup, but not amazing like hers were. Tricky thing is that there wasn’t ever a recipe. She just did whatever came into her head and used whatever she had there. I watched her a few times to get the vibe of it, but I just can’t quite do what she did with them. So sadly, when she died her legendary soup-skills went with her without anyone who could weave the magic like she did. I really miss both her and her soups.
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Your grandmother’s soups sound like my mum’s Old English Stews.
She doesn’t have a clue what the recipe should be – if she finds it, it goes in there. If she can’t find it, it doesn’t.
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My Dad too… he’s a great cook but everytime I ask him what’s in something I get the answer “oh little bit of this and little bit of that “
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I have a colleague that says she doesn’t follow recipes & makes it up as she goes, that it is different every time. I think it is so we cant try to make it ourselves. Its not a competition as to who can cook the best but maybe it is to her…
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I’ve made up cook books for my children of all the meals and baking that we eat as a family. I wish that my mother had done the same for me and made me a book of all her baking recipes.
We are vegetarians and at times people have asked me for some idea of vegetarian recipes and I’ve printed out the main meals cookbook for them. They have always been most grateful.
A friend of mine, when people compliment her on her baking and ask her for the recipe she always hands it over quite happily. But unbeknown to them she subtlety alters the recipe so that when they bake it, it never turns out quite right.
She gets a great deal of pleasure when people compliment her on her baking ability and say that no matter how hard they try they can’t get the recipe to turn out as good as it is when she makes it.
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Ooooh catgirl, is there any way I can get a copy of your cook book? I am a vegetarian and am always looking for new recipes!
All I can offer you in return is a recipe for lentil pie and my sincere gratitiude
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I’m happy to share recipes so that they don’t get lost. My late mother used to make an apple cake with a layer of custard on top. If anyone has the recipe for that, I want it! I also lost my recipe for apple cheesecake which came out of a NZ North & South magazine circa 1993. I loved that cheesecake…
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The publishing house should have it on file… Try phoning them and being really really REALLY nice to someone who can access their archives
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I happily give out my recipes and always feel good when someone makes them.
I married into a German family and one of the Aunts is famous for her cakes including the jewel in the crown – a baked German cheesecake. The recipe was handed down from her mother – Ouma. Now Ouma taught me how to make the best potato salad before she died but the cheesecake recipe was Aunt Ingrids and Ouma told me to ask her.
For Aunt Ingrid this cake was her crowing glory and she told me flat out that I would never get it. This made my husband and his father very sad as we no longer live in the same state as Aunt Ingrid and so the cake was no more for us.
For the last 15 years I have experimented with every known recipe for baked cheesecake. Last year I finally cracked it and worked it out – much to the delight of the cheesecake obsessed men in my family! Now I am famous for MY cake.
And so, in the spirit of sharing, here is the recipe for a traditional German cheesecake – enjoy!
http://www.dianasdesserts.com/index.cfm/fuseaction/recipes.recipeListing/filter/dianas/recipeID/2244/Recipe.cfm
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Someone from my mums group withheld the other day! We were at playgroup and about 3 different people asked her for the recipe for her very scrummy cupcakes.
She sort of stalled them and then changed the subject but it was obvious she didn’t want to tell! As someone who doesn’t cook I found it very strange!
I would willingly share my recipes but I don’t think anyone wants to know how to cook burned food much!
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Next time ask her which brand packet cake mix it was.
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ha ha! Love it!
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I loooove being asked for recipes and love hearing that my friends have made whatever it was they liked at home. So flattering and such a nice feeling! I get a bit sick of being asked to bring a particular dish though. It’s something other people love but I can’t eat. I made it for my partner once, other people loved it and now I’m stuck with it. It’s messy and a pain to make/clean up after too. Think it’s going to have to become his ‘specialty’, heh
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My mum was a fantastic cook. People would always ask her for her recipes. She would rarely give them out, and then if she deemed the person to be a sub-par cook, she’d leave a crucial ingredient out. Mean, I know. But I always thought it was hysterical! Food was serious business to her!
I think it was a different era then though. Now, it’s easy to share recipes via email and search online for new recipes. Pre-internet days, Mum put a lot of time and effort into poring over cookbooks and magazines. She’d spend ages refining recipes and making them her own. It was her calling card. So I get why she held them close to her heart.
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Phoodie I love your recipes and they are presented really helpfully on your blog. Your hamburger cupcakes have become a bit of a party trick for me for kid’s parties and they always get a big response from kids and adults alike. I enjoyed making your shortcake witches fingers (best shortbread ever!) and Im going to give this salad of yours a go too.
My mum has an old dog-eared handwritten recipe book full of thinks like ‘Janet’s sponge’ and ‘Helen’s wholemean chocolate cake’ and ‘Keith’s prawn curry’ so a meal can be a reminder of her friends. Its a lovely thing.
I agree there is something a bit odd and mean about not sharing recipes. The more theyre shared, the more pleasure they bring, so why hold back?
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I’d never realised that sharing recipes could be a ‘thing’! When my partner and I moved interstate at the end of uni, one of our requests for our going away party was that everyone bring a favourite recipe and write it into our recipe book by hand. Now we have an amazing book full of friend’s recipes, from pork confit through to ‘Recipe for stuff’, which begins with ‘Call Mum and ask for instructions’.
Like most good recipe ideas, it came from my Nanna – she kept a fantastic book of recipes, all with the names of the people who shared them. The sad part was, we only really saw the book after she was quite badly affected by dementia, so we never had the chance to ask who these clever people were.
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Aw thanks so much Kate!
In a couple of weeks I am publishing another cracker post for a bday party I am hosting! I’m actually doing the hamburger cakes again but also lots of new stuff….. And something v v similar to the hamburger cakes….same principle – if u liked them you will LOVE this….so make sure to stay tuned to the blog
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Phoodie! You just reminded me – what are your thoughts on a Hoot (or Hootabel) cake for KDot? I’m not keen on fondant icing, but think buttercream might be a tad messy. I was thinking maybe making the cake in pieces and icing each bit separately then putting it together? Hmmm…
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Awwww Kris! A Hoot cake would be GORGEOUS……
Yup…l. Fondant can be the DEVIL. I Can totally understand you wanting to steer clear of it…..
You know what works well….PIPING the icing in different colour sections….. It’s late and I can’t write what I mean…..let me browse net to see if I can send u a link of what I mean….
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I’ve actually seen it done (or similar) with a smallish star tube. I don’t mind doing that, but I’m not the greatest of pipers. I’m thinking just a lamington slab cut out then coloured in with icing and use licorice (or something that doesn’t taste so horrid) for the black outlines and the eyes and stuff. I don’t want to have to work the fondant, and I actually don’t like eating it much either. The ABC kids cake book is pretty much all fondant coloured and put on cut outs, but I’m leaning more towards the old school AWW birthday cake book idea of cutting and building…
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I’m lucky enough to have a terrific library of cook books, which I adore, and cook from all the time (Stephanie Alexander, Maggie Beer, David Herbert, Kylie Kwong etc). I get lots of compliments from friends for my cooking, which is lovely. I figure that if the recipe is from a cook book in a book store, it’s to share, as credit really goes to the authors who put together great books. They deserve the accolades for having the brains behind the recipes and flavours – not me!
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Re your recipe: it looks delicious! I’m about to whip it up for this arvos barbie and wondering…did you leave an ingredient out- or perhaps add an extra seven lemons?!?
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Yay!
Ahahaha! No I have left out nothing! The dressing is v v v lemony but I like it like that!
Enjoy!
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ah silly me i just realised theres lots of everything in the dressing, the eight lemons stopped me in my tracks. Thanks for sharing!
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Good luck and let me know how you go!
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Salad was a hit- and so easy to make. Exclamations were made over the appearance and the super tangy dressing…thanks for rescuing me from an uninspired salad day!
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Awesome! I’ve been checking on here to see how it went! Yay!
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Not at all! My recipes are all ‘open source’:
karinscuisine.blogspot.com
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Ooooh, I love your salad – yum! As for sharing recipes – absolutely! Anyone who loves something I cook enough to want to make it for themselves deserves to know how.
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Agreed!
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EXACTLY.
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A friend, who was not it must be said, the world’s most innovative cook, would *never* share recipes. Her repertoire included a dessert slice that must have had about 4 ingredients – canned fruit salad, a packet of sweet biscuits, icing sugar and whipped cream – but I once saw her refuse to give the recipe for it to a friend who politely complimented her on it. What? “open the packet of biscuits, spread out on tray, top with fruit salad and cream” ta da!!
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No of course not. It’s called sharing. Learnt it as a toddler.
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Too true!
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My in-laws have a ‘secret family’ recipe for French dressing. My husband was livid when his mum gave it to him in a crockery dressing caraf for his 30th birthday as his only gift. Apparently it was a coming of age ritual.
We’ve subsequently handed it on to anyone who asks under strict orders not to tell his mum!
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Share share share, recipes. I’m not a great cook, Pavlova is my only “thing” . Its just a Womens Weekly recipe with lots of practice, and its the dish everyone knows I do well. I never get sick of making it, or eating it!
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Most of my favourite recipes are found on the back of packets, so I don’t feel too put out when someone wants the recipe.
I made chocolate brownies the other day and the recipe came off the back of the Nestle cocoa powder tin. I have tried millions of brownie recipes, but failed everytime – until now!
I make them all the time and I am happy to share the recipe. Although, if I was to go out and take a plate of them to someone elses house and 15 people bring (my) recipe, it makes it a bit awkward.
I have a list of things I make well and I rotate them regularly.
Banana muffins (dairy & egg free)
Potato Bake
Changs noodle salad
Anzac Biscuits
Ridgey Didge Neverfail Chocolate Cake
My quiche
Pumpkin soup
And garlic studded, rosemary roast lamb
Now I am hungry.
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Now you’ve made ME hungry, that’s the kind of food I crave!
Am not a great cook, but will admit to giving the Chang noodle salad a fair whack at BBQ season
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Mr Changs noodle salad! THE BEST!
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I could eat Chang’s noodle salad breakfast, lunch and dinner.
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A friend made an amazing potato salad but she would not share the recipe. Her husband was so embarrassed he copied it out of her recipe book without her knowing and smuggled it to me! It makes me laugh when I make it and of course I have shared it with many!
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My s-i-l in the US raves about my Vietnamese prawn rice paper rolls. So much so that she even blogged about them after nearly 5yrs! I not only made them on their recent trip, I gave her a gift pack of ingredients safe to transport btwn countries and a list of what else she would need to buy at the other end. I patiently showed her how to make them & helped ger learn how to roll them! It was her only real food request apart from the family Christmas pudding recipe!
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Wow that is so kind of you
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I love to bake rather than cook. In between stephanie alexander, jamie oliver, nigella, better homes and gardens mags and the CSIRO cookbooks nothing is secret. By the time I serve dinner normally the cookbooks I used are still open on the counter. Whatever you want to cook now is easily achievable by googling it.
Food is happiness, I say share it and spread the love.
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My sister in law copies some of my dishes which is fine by me, but she always serves them when we go there for lunch or dinner. She’s a great cook herself and I want to eat her yummy stuff not the things I cook all the time.
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My poor mum has the opposite problem!
Her amazing signature dish is quite laborious to make. Inevitably she is asked for the recipe multiple times each time she makes it, which she happily shares.
But then everyone sees how laborious it is and never make it…so she is forever being requested to bring it along. She is hanging out for someone to take over this recipe but no one ever does!
My big mistake was making and taking it to a few gatherings amongst my friends….the cycle seems to be repeating itself! Ah well
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I love this!
What’s the dish!?
I have this problem with my spanakopita (Spinach and Cheese Pie)……
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I think that it is okay to withhold the odd recipe, if you have a reasonable justification for doing so – for example, I have a few which are family recipes, or one which I created from scratch which I am so proud of and love sharing the meal with friends, it’s my ‘special dish’.
But I will share all other recipes. I think if you are generous about sharing most recipes, people understand if there are one or two you keep close to your bosom?
I think the old approach of keeping ‘secret recipes’ in locked recipe boxes is from an era where women’s worth was measured against their skills as a Housewife. Winning recipes were valued like big corporate wins in today’s world. While I don’t agree with it, I understand the sentiment behind this way of thinking – that the women kept their prized recipes.
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I agree that it’s nice to share your recipes, as most of the time (not all of the time) you get it from a recipe book. But, it is nice to have recipes that you make for your friends and they look forward to having it at your place, or look forward to you bringing it somewhere. I’ve shared lots of recipes with friends and people I don’t know very well, but I can also understand why someone would hesitate to share…it’s not being mean, it’s just losing that ‘specialness’ that only you can bring to a party.
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I say share your recipes, I love cooking, I love it when people love my cooking. Sharing food is the best. If someone gets a recipe of mine, and they make it better they can tell me how they did it. If they don’t credit you it doesn’t matter, how nice for them to get the compliment. If your getting together with friends I don’t think anyone will care if there is a double up. I agree with everyone that said it is an expression of love and an extension of friendship.
This debate is not as cut and dried as I always thought it was. I do get the lady who protected her mum’s recipes tho, that is very sweet.
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My mum won’t share her ‘Dutch cake’ recipe with me. Everything else however. Makes it seem a bit ‘special’ when we have it! Shame if it goes to the grave with her.
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I have a question re recipe etiquette.
I have given out sweet/slice recipes to family/friends only to find my favorites being brought to many get togethers that follow. Initially there will be a double up because I will also have brought it and so I move on to some other recipes to bake and bring only to find I get asked for those recipes too and the cycle begins all over again!
I always thought that if you asked someone for a recipe, you tried not to bring it to functions they would also be attending? Is this no longer the case?
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Agreed. It’s just respectful!
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From the sounds of it you are a great cook whom others wish to emulate! Imitation being the sincerest form of flattery etc. Share with pride! Then move on and impress them all with another fantastic dish, as you seem to be doing. Kudos to you! (You can always come back to your favoured dishes once the ‘followers’ have also moved on from them!
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Thats just rude, they need to find their ‘own’ creation to take along and keep yours for themselves when they’re at home.
I think that any sort of copying and publicly showcasing it is wrong. If someone asks me where I bought my shoes or dress I will tell them expecting they wont turn up wearing exactly the same thing next time I see them. It has happened and it makes me cranky that they havent got any courtesy! I have copied clothing or shoes in the past, but have always asked if they mind if I buy it first and always make sure I dont wear them when I see that person. Same goes for recipes in this instance!
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Totally agree, someone copied my child’s unusual name, and didn’t even bother to ask!
Recipes however are free for all, no so much names….
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Sorry, but that sounds insane. It’s food, people, here one minute and digesting the next. I hand out recipes left right and centre whenever anyone asks, and who cares if more than one person brings the same thing? Obviously it was good the first time, so it just means there will be enough for everyone.
Besides, I tend to be the one bringing things … I’m always THRILLED when anyone else brings something.
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I have had the exact same thing happen with family. Go to a ” bring a plate” family bbq and say i will take fried rice, then at said bbq everyone loves it, so give out recipe….next family bbq, say i will bring fried rice again to be told …no…the SIL is bringing it …argh!
So i take a fruit dip for dessert, everyone loves it and again i give out the recipe, guess what happens next bring a plate bbq…yep….i am agin searching for something ot make/take as the family have stolen and put dibs on bringing my other dishes!!!!!
Think. Might start leaving out ingredients too….then they can have the comments of not as good as mine…hehehehe!
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