Memories stir powerful emotions and are triggered by many things: a comment; a photo; a thought; a smell; and most importantly for me, a book. As the summer holidays meander along amidst the idyllic pastime of lounging by the pool with a good book, I am reminded of the most powerful reading memories in my life.
There was the Christmas holiday when I was twelve. I had recently discovered Gone with the Wind on the shelves of the school library and I was heavily invested in my Old South period. For the six weeks of school holidays I swanned about in dresses with the fullest skirts I could find, transported back to Georgia in the 1860’s, totally infatuated with cotton plantations, a town called Atlanta and a feisty and enigmatic belle called Scarlett. I have re-read Gone with the Wind many times over the years, and every time I hold that magnificent tome in my hands, a part of me is transported back to that summer as I remember myself in a white dress with straw hat, seated prettily in my backyard imagining a life at Tara with all my beaux.
As I grew older I continued to devour my beloved books. At the age of eighteen, I began my lifelong love affair with the writings of Jane Austen. I had already read Pride and Prejudice by this stage, but now had to study Emma for my HSC. My magnificent teacher taught me to appreciate the wit and rich irony of Austen’s prose, and I can no longer read Emma without being transported back to the English classroom of Year 12 with its graffitied desks, wooden floorboards and green chalkboard. We would passionately debate Emma’s character, and whether she was spoilt or sheltered; whether she was manipulative or caring. We all agreed that Mrs Elton was ridiculous and thought Jane Fairfax was quite welcome to Frank Churchill, thank you very much.
Books have been my friends, my succour, indeed my existence through both good times and bad. The memories induced by my books are generally pleasant ones, however, there are some reading memories which evoke reminders of more challenging times in my life.
Five years ago I was diagnosed with breast cancer. I was still in my thirties, and a mother of two young girls. Anyone who has been there will know that it was the most challenging and terrifying time of my life. I was too numb, and too ill to want to read much. And for me, a reader, this was a terrible loss. I mourned my inability to read yet I could not find any reading material which tempted me much beyond a couple of pages.
So when I heard a radio story about secret reading pleasures, I was intrigued. Listener after listener (mainly women) rang in and named the Stephanie Plum books by Janet Evanovich as their “guilty reading pleasure”. Full of curiosity and chemotherapy drugs and feeling like crap, I tied a scarf around my bald head and went to the local library where I borrowed the first three books in the series.
I have never been a literary snob. I believe all reading is good reading, as long as the reader enjoys the experience. So I will read literature one week and am quite happy to read chick lit or a thriller the next. I soon discovered that the Stephanie Plum books are not literature. Far from it. But I think Janet Evanovich saved my sanity during the biggest crisis of my life. After the first three books I returned to the library to get the rest of the series, and I just kept reading. And whilst I was immersed in the adventures of the world’s worst bounty hunter, Stephanie Plum, I didn’t think of cancer once. When I read about the men in her life, the handsome Joe Morelli and the smouldering Ranger, I forgot that I had ugly new scars on my body and no hair. And when I read about the fabulous Lulu, squeezed into her lycra leopard prints and hiding pork chops in her purse, I laughed out loud for the first time in months. Whenever I see a Janet Evanovich book these days, I am transported back to that time and still feel grateful for the life force she gifted me through her writing.
Books are more than mere stories. They are volumes which make us reflect, which evoke our feelings and develop our senses. Our favourite reading experiences should always stay with us as all good memories do, ready to be re-visited and re-lived during the nostalgic times in our lives. This summer, I’ll be revisiting mine with the latest Stephanie Plum book and a yet another dalliance with my dear friend Emma.
Karen Powers is a Teacher Librarian and mother of two teenagers who spends her spare time writing about books and reading. You can read her blog here.







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Oh, I remember wiling away countless hours in my own little dream world; always a book in hand. I was (am!) a bit of a shy, nerdy type. Books were (and still are) my salvation.
I don’t think many girls can go past Jane Austen. When I was a lot younger, I loved Anne of Green Gables, Playing Beattie Bow, Flowers in the Attic and Agatha Christie (and I remember Judy Blume books being furtively passed around like contraband in a prison!).
Once I was well into my teens it was ‘classic’ literature and historical fiction all the way! Still is.
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Karen, I LOVE the Stephanie Plum series too! I devour each new book as soon as the library has it. The characters, the writing, the laughs…
So glad to hear there’s a kindred spirit like me who loves the Plum books!!
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There are so many of us! I have been reading the comments and counting the many Stephanie Plum fans. Obviously Mamamia readers enjoy switching off and having a good laugh – such great stress relief!
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Uncle Tom’s Cabin. Taught me what love was.
And it is NOT a love story
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Kushiel’s Dart had a huge impact on me – reading a book with a young woman as sexual, kinky and into women as much as myself was amazing. Plus she was a great heroine. I got my first tattoo based on that book, a brair rose with the saying “love as thou wilt”.
When I was younger I read a lot. The Lion the Witch and the Wardrobe was huge for me, as was Little Women (though I remember/love the film more).
But it was definitely the books I read as a young adult that influenced me the most. Tipping the Velvet was like coming home when I read it – the perfect coming of age lesbian story. To this day it remains comfort reading at its finest. I credit The Hitchikers Guide to the Galaxy with contributing to the geek I became today. And the Mists of Avalon series has had a strong influence on my spirituality.
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I haven’t read Tipping the Velvet, but Fingersmith, also by Sarah Waters has to be one of the most finely-crafted books I have ever read. It is amazing. I also loved Mists of Avalon as a teenager.
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My relationship to GWTW — I’m embarrassed to admit now — went beyond obsessive. Like you, Karen, I first watched the movie and read the book when I was just shy of 12. Since then I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve seen GWTW and read the book. I have boxes full of GWTW memorabilia — ‘making of books’, plates, dolls, figurines and any number of GWTW-tainted knick-knacks, the sad, sad list goes on (I have sold some things on ebay in recent years). The pinnacle of my obsession came in 1999 when I went to a 60th year reunion (of the film) celebration in Savannah, Georgia and met some of the (child) stars of the film. I indulged every last GWTW fantasy and visited every possible GWTW tourist attraction I could — the GWTW museum at Jonesboro station, Margaret Mitchell House, the Atlanta Library, etc, you name it.
While I still hold an enormous soft spot for this book & film — and have a store of GWTW and Vivien Leigh trivia (I was on the Einstein Factor with Vivien Leigh as my topic) in my head that could rival the internet — that trip was something of an eyeopener. When confronted with what a GWTW fanatic actually looks (and sounds like), I thought it might be time to take stock and re-evaluate…
I have since acquired a number of other interests and read many, many other books. I consider myself rehabilitated, but old obsessions die hard. I still have around 15 copies of the novel (different editions, of course).
To give you an idea (this was taken at the closing night ball in Savannah).
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Mel, I tip my hat to you! What a wonderful story and what a true GWTW fan you are. I love the photo of you (very Vivien Leigh) and I think the best part of your collection is the different editions of the book. (I have a similar collection of Pride & Prejudice editions). I’ve often thought they should do a re-make of the movie with Lauren Graham (from the Gilmore Girls) as Scarlett. But I could never work out who could rival Clark Gable as Rhett…..
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There was a lot of speculation about a remake in the late ’80s — names like Kathleen Turner and Jane Seymour were considered — I don’t know how I’d feel about a re-make personally, but I think Hollywood will take it on one day. Don’t know about Scarlett, I can see what you’re saying about Lauren Graham (although she’d be too old, really). For Rhett though, I’ve could easily picture (and accept) George Clooney.
Joanne Whalley-Kilmer in the sequel ‘Scarlett’ – all wrong (but then so was the book). Brown eyes, I’m sorry, you can’t have a brown-eyed Scarlett. Oh dear, I think you’ve got me started…
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Oh dear, there goes your rehabilitation! And yes, I can see George Clooney as Rhett – absolutely!
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Wuthering Heights in year 9 began my long love affair with bonnet dramas and the tendency towards lusting after dark swarthy silent types (yes reader, I married one) ala Heathcliff/Mr Darcy. I clearly remember this as being a huge turning point in my reading life towards darker adult themes. And Karen I agree, reading has helped me through the darkest periods of my life. When my mum was dying with cancer I turned toward Pride and Prejudice,Emma, anything by Jane Austen and mum and I read them together to escape not so good days.
Another biggie was Harry Potter lol, I became a little obsessed and now have A 12 year old daughter who is exactly the sameLOL
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I also find Jane Austen very comforting and can understand why you chose her writing to share with your mum through those difficult times.
And I too am a little obsessed with Harry Potter!
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Catcher in the Rye – because I read it at 17 and identified so much with all the teenage angst! I didn’t realize that other people felt the same way, I had never identified with a book so much!
A dolls house by Henrik Ibsen – studied in year 11, a great text as at the time I had found that acting silly and dumb was a great way to get along with certain people. This book made me determined never to act as someone’s puppet and never to hide my intelligence. It seemed like an easy trap to fall into at the time, playing dumb and cute. Never quite read anything with a similar message.
And Jane Eyre because she is a wonderful, strong woman, an amazing book. Such a good role model.
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Like you Karen Powers I grew up adoring Gone With The Wind, the books of Jane Austen,and many others (too many to list).
I also went through a time in my life where I experienced such deep grief that I was completely unable to turn to my usual solace – reading. It only made an incredibly sad time even harder to bear, but as time passed it was the Outlander series by Diana Gabaldon that eventually managed to pull me back into my lifelong love affair with books.
So much did I love the early books in this series (the late ones not so much) that the names of her 2 main characters even found their way into my own children’s names
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I love the early Outlander books too! Read them when my children were little.
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Beautiful jetmum!
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Ah Gone With The Wind – great book AND great movie – Vivien Leigh so utterly perfect as Scarlett.
My teenage years were filled with the series that started with Flowers In The Attic – recently re read them in my late 30s and still couldnt put them down.
Also loved Sweet Valley High – so much so that I called my daughter Jessica (not necessarily after the character though)
As a Mum with always be thankful to JK though for giving my boys who hated to read Harry
Nowadays love Marian Keyes – my husband keeps asking me why am I laughing so much when I read her books
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I’ve laughed out loud many a time reading Marian Keyes. I think she’s under rated as an author – I ‘spose it’s the ‘chick-lit’ tag.
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Pants on Fire by Maggie Alderson… I picked it up at St. Vincent de Paul for $2. It was my first ‘grown ups’ novel out of the Blume/Marsden/Dahl/Klien period of my life.
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The Little Prince – Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
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And in French – just beautiful. Le Petit Prince…
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The Poisonwood Bible by Barbara Kingsolver profoundly affected me. I think it was the first book containing serious, thought provoking issues that I had ever read and it gave me so much to think about and opened my mind in a big way to issues facing people in the Congo and other parts of Africa. Issues that I will never have to face here in Australia. I am a better person with a greater interest and empathy in humanitarian issues, thanks to this book. It also illustrated the way in which some so called do-gooders can do more harm than good through their interference.
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The Power of Now!
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Yep the Power of Now helped me through dark times on the IVF roller coaster! Had me thinking differently so I suppose it was life changing!
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‘The Little Engine that Could’ by Watty Piper. It was read to me when I was very little and ever since, whenever I don’t think I can do something, the chant begins in my head……”I think I can, I think I can, I think I can….”
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Sounds silly but The Babysitter’s Club series by Ann M. Martin really helped shaped my childhood – I started a similar club with friends at age 9 which lasted until our mid-teens. I was completely obsessed with the series, babysitting and the USA, so I wouldn’t say the books’ influence was particularly healthy, but it was life-changing nonetheless.
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Absolutely ADORED the babysitters club. I always wanted to be Stacey!!
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I wanted to be Claudia! My best friend and I took turns buying them so we each ended up with half a set. I remember when they started coming out with the big editions where they went on holiday and so on. I loved those books!
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i’m not sure if the books have an influence on me or my life at the time affects how I read the book?
Lovely Bones- had a huge influence on my life. After I’d read it I knew something in my thinking had changed and I started to look at people differently.
Also Bridget Jones’ Diary- it helped me to realise there were other peole like me out there and i was satisfied with being single and happy in my own skin. A month later I met my boyfriend- we’ve been together almost 5 years now.
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Out on a Limb, by Shirley Maclaine. I read it when I was 13 and it made so much sense to me. I should probably read it again (35 years on)!
Eat Pray Love, which I devoured, is in the same space for me.
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Tully, Tully, Tully.
I think I might start reading it again tonight!
Also, The Bronze Horseman Trilogy.
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Oh yes!! Each time I re-read Tully it is like I am catching up with my best friend.
Paullina Simons writes her female characters so beautifully. They are so real.
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Oh, I LOVE The Bronze Horseman. One of my all time favourites. I agree, she is such a beautiful writer.
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My husband is always a little disconcerted whenever I re-read The Bronze Horseman, just doesn’t get it. If he catches me wiping away a little tear he enquires “Are those crazy Russians still eating that wallpaper paste?”
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My husband says something similar every time I reread it. Which is twice a year I’d say. I have read this trilogy abouy 10 times now. If not more…. = )
I even got my mama onto it, and she now owns 3 different editions of the books. The discussions we’ve had about the story & characters are some of the most spirited we’ve ever had. Probably has something to do with growing up in Eastern Europe and being able to relate to the reality of life depicted, if not the war. Hands down our fave. Makes me cry every time.
Simons’ Tully and Girl in Times Square come close.
Other books that have impacted on me as as an adult include Pride & Prejudice, The Book Thief, A Thousand Splendid Suns, House of Spirits….so many more.
My childhood was shaped by Babysitters Club, Virginia Andrews, Judy Blume, The Gymnasts series…
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Fingersmith – Sarah Waters, I’ve leant it to everyone I know who reads.
This Charming Man – Marian Keyes, I love a bit of fluff here & there & this is my fave Keyes book.
Memoirs of a Geisha – Arthur Golden, well & truely pulled me out of a reading drought that had carried on way too long.
The Great Gatsby, so looking forward to the movie!
Roald Dahl, Babysitters Club & Judy Blume books all raised me…. oh, and Virginia Andrews.
There have been so many, I could be here all day listing them!
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Love Marian Keyes.
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I love Sarah Waters, although I haven’t read Fingersmith. Must put it on my list.
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Flowers in the attic was probably my first big influence…and later Poisonwood Bible
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Celestine prophecy – reading it was like I finally came home.
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I survived my teenage years thanks to Judy Blume. Forever, Summer Sisters and Are you there God, it’s me Margaret?.
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Me too! And superfudge was a good one by her too…
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Superfudge was hilarious! When I was 11, my teacher read that book to the class using different voices for each character – highlight of the school day!
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Are you there god was super thrilling and had a big impact on me as I headed to puberty.
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Looking for Alibrandi.
I read it when I was about 12 or so. It helped me overcome so much pain in my own family and began a healing process for me. I will always love that book.
This much I know is true by Wally Lamb, for the same reasons.
Princesses and Pornstars by Emily Maguire. I read it in Yr 12. It’s a fantastic, simple to understand 21st century feminist book.
The Help. Just brilliant.
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Growing up it was the Tomorrow series by John Marsden. I have just finished We Need To Talk About Kevin & I cant get it out of my head! Very thought provoking.
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Currently reading both the tomorrow series and we need to talk about kevin. Absolutely loving both of them!
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I remember reading the Tomorrow series when I was growing up too – it was full-on. Checkers and So Much To Tell You (also by JM) had a lasting impact as well; there is something about his writing that gets under your skin.
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I read So Much to Tell you when I was about 8. It was the first time I ever remember realizing books can really affect you emotionally. Loved it!
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I read We Need To Talk About Kevin years ago and loved it – but it was so disturbing that I can still picture certain scenes quite clearly!
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As Much Right To Live by Nuri Mass. I read my mothers copy in the early 2000s, and it has always made me cry. I understood the futility of war before I understood war itself.
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I know it sounds smarmy and annoying, but “Eat, Pray, Love” was mine. Apart from my avid and evangelical love of Elizabeth Gilbert’s writing, the book’s main impact on me was to cement my decision not to have children. I’d always ummed and ahhed, and kind of thought in the back of my mind that maybe motherhood wasn’t for me, but “Eat, Pray, Love” helped me to realise that it wasn’t a mandatory part of having a successful and happy life. That’s not to say that I have since gone and travelled the world or found my spiritual nirvana necessarily, but I feel a huge weight off my shoulders since coming to a final peace with my decision. Her unhappy desperation at the prospect of living someone else’s life really resonated with me. I guess you could say that her book freed me in a way.
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HARRY POTTER
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Heck Yeah!!!
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My place by Sally Morgan which was a year 9 text. Being a 14 yo white Melburnian at the time this was a real eye opener about how aboriginals live & are treated in Australia.
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Completely agree. When I first read it I didn’t quite understand. But I re-read it later after I had started to understand about the stolen generation and it was just amazing. Should be required reading.
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I did the same thing! Read it a few years later & picked up a whole lot more. I love how she wrote it without judgement.
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Erm, what is the rest of the last sentence in that first paragraph?!
I love Janet Evanovich’s Stephanie Plum novels so much. They are the funniest books I have ever read. It’s not often I laugh out loud regularly whilst reading – they are great for transporting you elsewhere and making you forget your troubles for a while.
Jane Eyre told me a lot about the kind of love I wanted; I admired her independence and fire, the way she embraced her plainness and his, and how true their love was. I felt a kinship with Jane that has stayed with me to this day.
Nikki Gemmell’s book Pleasure: An Almanac for the Heart has had a huge influence on my life; it has shaped my relationship with my body and sex (so, by extension, my relationship with my boyfriend too). Less so, The Bride Stripped Bare.
There are others, but these two are the first I thought of. Great topic.
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Thanks picardie girl, I have fixed!
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Thanks Natalia!
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Love Janet Evanovich! I’m team Ranger all the way!
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I became an English teacher because of my passion for books. As a kid I was a voracious reader and lapped everything up. In my mid teens I read three novels that had a profound affect on me; To Kill a Mockingbird, The Colour Purple and The World According to Garp. In my early 20′s I read Margaret Atwood’s The Haindmaid’s Tale and i consider that a work of genius. I love the richness of the texts and the fact that everytime I go back to them I learn more.
I tell my students that the difference between literature and what I call junk food reading is that literature changes you, by the end of the story you look at the world in a different way. Of course I also love my junk food too, my kindle is full of trashy crime novels and bodice rippers by Karin Slaughter, Michael Connelly, Stephanie Laurens et al. Sometimes you just want something that requires minimal intellectual commitment.
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I love a bit of junk food by Stephanie Laurens too!
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Ad when you read them on a kindle it’s super easy to look up that word you don’t know and discover its an 18th C word for shawl. No way I would have traipsed through a dictionary to find that!
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Handmaid’s Tale – Fantastic book! The Blind Assassin is another favourite form Margaret Atwood.
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Lisa Pryor’s “The Pin Striped Prison” – read it in my last 6 months of uni and it all suddenly “clicked”. Still reeling from the realisations about myself after reading it! Got it out from the library this weekend for the 4th time to read.
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The Perks of Being a Wallflower. It was a 15th birthday present and I read the entire thing in less than a day – loved it. I believe it’s being made into a movie with Emma Watson… hmmm…
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That was what I was going to put! Amazing book…I always meant to make a tape that copied his mix tape with The Smiths.
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She is a really good bounty hunter! Not on purpose of course and with a huge amount of help from Ranger. I often wonder why he doesn’t charge her a percentage on her bond commissions.
Book loves have been Magic Faraway Tree series when I was little, a love of Russian writers introduced to me by Dad and uni – Solzhenitsyn and Dostoyevsky, then chick lit greats like Marian Keyes (especially Walsh family books) and Janet Evanovich when my brain was too busy with work or tiny children.
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I think Ranger would put helping Stephanie under ‘entertainment expenses’
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Ahhhh the Magic Faraway Tree – LOVED it!
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To Kill A Mockingbird has always had a profound effect – I want a man like Atticus.
Recently, The Lovely Bones. I was on the brink of making a massive decision in my life and for some reason this book showed me how connected I was to forces unseen. This gave me such a feeling of being protected, no matter which choice I would end up making. Difficult to describe – probably haven’t made much sense here!
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Yes! This book means so much to me that my son’s middle name is Atticus.
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More recently, Looking for Alaska and also Paper Towns (both by John Green). They both made me wonder about the way my life is going and whether I should go about planning the way I do or just live for the moment. I chose to do both (in moderation, of course).
At the moment I’m reading In Cold Blood by Truman Capote. My friend put me onto it and although it’s slow at times, I can’t put it down.
I have been reading for I don’t even know how long. Mum used to have to have a key on her for the bathroom because I’d go to the toilet for hours and just read (gross I know, but I was just sitting there, not actually “toileting”). I read everything: cereal boxes, cosmetics labels, papers, comics, old babysitters club and sweet valley books. I actually have an issue with my 14 year old sister and her friends (maybe its a generalisation) but I feel like the younger ones just don’t read anymore. Being 10 years younger than me, I feel it’s my duty to feed her the words, thoughts and feelings of some of the greatest authors I’ve had the chance to read. Any recommendations on how I can get her to put the iPod/laptop down and open up a book?? It’s not that she doesn’t want to read, I think she just gets bored very easily with something that isn’t instant and flashy with sounds and lights and a tangible reward at the end.
This turned out to be a longer post than I intended – apologies!!
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Does a Kindle appeal to her? The ‘tech-ness’ of it might…
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I have a theory that everyone is a reader…some people just haven’t found the right book yet. My mum used to always make me read the things she loved when she was younger, but I liked a slightly different genre.
I LOVE reading – I work from home, have young kids but still manage to find time to read 2 or 3 books a week! My husband never read at all when we first met but now I know wht he likes, I can get him to read at least a few books a year. So maybe it’s a matter or working out what she would enjoy – romance, thriller, action, comedy?? It might not be your cup of tea, but so long as she is reading.
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Kindle has a PC app available for free download – if she’s glued to her laptop she might like to read a book there. (I’ve become hooked on reading books on my smartphone.)
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Murder on the Links by Agatha Christie. I still remember buying this one school holidays at 15 . I worked hard to overcome dyslexia and this is the first book I read cover to cover and thoroughly enjoyed. I will always have a soft spot for Agatha Christie and still reread her novels on occasions. Finishing that novel encouraged me to read.
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“so many books, so little time”
My first grown up reading was Agatha Christie and I still enjoy her, but the books that influenced me most were A Difficult Young Man (Martin Boyd), part of a series of four which are an insight into the days when England was regarded as Home by Australians and also an insight into the futility of war. I was really influenced by the Nun’s Story by Kathleen Hulme. It still influences me today, but for different reasons, I’m afraid the complete sacrifice of self, as seen in the book, no longer strikes me as romantic, as it did when I was a teenager.
I love Stephanie Plum, too. She must speak to something in many of us, but what it is, I don’t know. (Topic for another time, perhaps?)
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Wind in the willows, 100 years old and still a beautiful and engaging book. Have recently read it to my daughter and she has loved it too. Magical to watch her fall in love with the characters like I did at her age.
Anne of green gables – I lived in a 100 year old queenslander, with a gable growing up. I thought I *was* Anne. Who else is a red headed pre-adolencent supposed to identify with. Beautiful books.
Tully, my all time favourite.
The gift of fear by Gavin de Becker . The advice given literally saved my life in my early 20′s.
Backwards in high heels- like having a girlfriend in a beautifully packaged book, full of wisdom and common sense advice
My comfort reads are anything by robin hobb, particularly the assassin apprentice and fool series. Just brilliants escapism.
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Oh, yeah! Wind in the Willows was the first “real” book I ever read…
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*such* beautiful language. Although I had to do a wee bit of editing – the ” smoking room ” became the library, but I kept the bits about ratty packing pistols and otter cuffing rabbits for information !
My favourite bit is the piper at the gates if dawn. Reading as an adult is it really interesting to see all the esoteric references.
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Not to mention Pink Floyd albums
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I thought it was Gerry rafferty ?
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Darkness At Noon by Arthur Koestler and The Crucible by Arthur Miller.
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Lord of the Rings was always my favourite book, but I think The Bible has the most influence. Convinced me to become an atheist and embrace reality.
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I love you.
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The Artists Way by Julia Cameron
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Eat, Pray, Love by Elizabeth Gilbert.
I read this when on the cusp of a long term relationship breakup, and it gave me the strength to make it through the pain to the other side. Yes, it hurt (more than I could have imagined) to get here, but now I’ve been blessed with the life I dreamed of
“My thoughts turn to something I read once, something the Zen Buddhists believe. They say that an oak tree is brought into creation by two forces at the same time. Obviously, there is the acorn from which it all begins, the seed which holds all the promise and potential, which grows into a tree. Everybody can see that. But only a few can recognize that there is anther force operating here as well-the future tree itself, which wants so badly to exist that it pulls the acorn into being, drawing the seedling forth with longing out of the void, guiding the evolution from nothingness to maturity. In this respect, say the Zens, it is the oak tree that creates the very acorn from which it was born.”
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Harry potter. It got my friends to read at an age where reading wasn’t cool, it gave us strong role models (do heroines get better than Hermione?) and was a fabulous creating by an amazing woman. Thank god for jk Rowling!
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When I was 18 I remember going to the shops after a tiff with my boyfriend & getting recommendations from book shop staff about a great new author, Paulina Simons. That was when I bought the book Tully. I read it so quickly; couldn’t put it down & I’ve loaned it out many times to anyone who shows a glimmer of interest in reading. Tully was an amazing story that made me think about all sorts of things in my life and my future and I love reading it.
Other favorites to re-read include Jessica by Bryce Courtenay – it make me eternally grateful for the close relationship I have with my Mum & sister; and Pride & Prejudice from Jane Austen.
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Tully is my all time favourite book. Ever. My daughter was thisclose to being called Natalie because of “tully”.
Have re read it once a year since I was 16. Brilliant.
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Tully for me too, I read it every year as well! Something about it always puts things in perspective for me.
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Ooooo intrigued to try Tully- although I cant find it as a Kindle book? Does anyone know if it is available for kindle or if it has an alternate name?
Ta…
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not sure about Tully in kindle format, but it is fairly old now ( circa 1997 ish) – you can definitely get it on booktopia and the like, and I saw a copy at dymocks last week.
it makes for some uncomfortable reading in places. But when I first read it I remembered being so disappointed it was finished and walked around missing the characters for a few days.
A very powerful novel about, resilliance, choices, and the nature of love and friendships.
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You’re making me want to read it! I think I’ll have to borrow it soon.
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I LOVED that book as a teenager, I’ve never met any-one else who knows it! You’ve inspired me to re-read it….
Other favourites: Animal Farm, Wild Swans, A Brief History of Tractors in Ukrainian.
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Tuesdays with Morrie by Mitch Albom,. Truly great read that makes you ponder on your life
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Dickens’ A Tale of Two Cities personified real, true, sacrificing love. I was in Yr 10 and studied it for the School Certificate and remember crying quite loudly when Sidney made his final speech. I’ve re read it countless times since then and it still makes me cry. Sidney is up there with Mr Darcy as far as I am concerned.
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For me it was My Brother Jack by George Johnston…in fact, the whole trilogy (Clean Straw for Nothing and the unfinished A Cartload of Clay)
I just related to the character of David Meredith because, like him, I’ve never truly conformed to the stereo-typical Aussie bloke…
I also really loved A Happy Death by Albert Camus…It’s kind of a “practice” novel written prior to The Stranger, but I much prefer A Happy Death…again, there was something about the main character that I could relate to…and again, there was a theme of “the individual vs society” that I related to…
Both books have obviously influenced my individuality and self-awareness…
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I don’t read much (other than geek stuff) but read My Brother Jack in high school and loved it.
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