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1337692707 miley cyrus article 380x528 Celeb News: Miley Cyrus on why sex is beautifulShe’s just being Miley.

Miley Cyrus is forever being criticised for “growing up to fast” and “being too sexy for her age”.

But in this interview on The Conversation with Amanda de Cadenet, the 19-year old former Hannah Montana star opens up about the pressure of living in the public eye and how she is only just trying to be herself.

“I feel I was so trained in my interviews to be All-American or whatever. I just got so set in the way of saying the same things I did when I was 12-years-old… I guess I kind of realized that my whole life isn’t one giant press junket. I don’t have to be smiling all the time and always have the perfect answer.”

Her transition into a young women has seen her struggle at every turn, from her views on same-sex-marriage and religion, to her bong-smoking and ‘sexed-up’ image.

“For me, what I do [being sexy] is not the point. You’re not sitting there trying to be sexy. If people find that [I am], I take it as a compliment. People are so scared of seeing a woman being like, ‘This is who I am and you’re not going to change it. [It] used to be if you’re a woman you do not sing about sex, and now if that’s not what you’re singing about, if that’s not your entire image, you won’t get played [on radio and TV]. The last season of ["Hannah Montana"] I put out “Can’t Be Tamed,” which even just the title of that for a woman to say that she can’t be tamed, and of all people in the world, my face saying I can’t be tamed, when that’s all people really wanted to do — I think that proves how sexist people still really are and judgmental. It’s the whole thing of saying ‘be sexy, but our way.”

The singer also opened up about her feelings on how many young women value themselves based on their sexual experience.

“The girls that really base how much they’re worth on the sexual favors they can do for somebody, that makes me really sad. Because sex is actually really beautiful. It’s the only way we create, and it’s the only way the world keeps going. So it’s ignorant not to talk to your kids about it or [not] make it seem as magical or cool as it actually is,” she explained. “[Kids] have a TV, so they know what sex is. So educate them and let them know … it’s a beautiful thing, and it is magic, and it’s when you connect with somebody. And it isn’t how much you’re worth. Your worth isn’t based on that, your worth is based on how you feel about yourself.”

Check out a snippet of Miley Cyrus’ interview below. To watch the full episode visit here

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  2. ash

    I agree, this too shall pass. Love it.

    And love the puppy!!

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  3. ViJo

    I really admire Miley. It’s so refreshing for a celebrity her age to have such inteligent views on something apart from which hair product is better than the other. I totally agree with her, though. Why (paranoid) people shield teenagers from sex (I mean, for crying out loud!) is beyond my belief. Children, sure, but teenagers?! They live in a world full of it anyway.

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  4. Anonymous

    I love Miley, always have.
    And I love that in recent times she’s been so honest about who she is and her mistakes, and still does her job so well and professionally. She’s coping so much better than child to adult stars who came before her. Looking at you, Lindsay!
    I also love how she expressed her views on sex and female sexuality.
    “Your worth is based on how you feel about yourself.”
    Not how much sex you are or aren’t having. Not how many people or how few people you have slept with.
    For a young girl to not view her sexuality as a tradable commodity is a very powerful and important thing.
    I know you could argue that the way she dresses and dances and blah blah blah shows the opposite, but like she said, her worth is based on how she feels about herself! :D

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  5. Anonymous

    I love Miley!

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  6. neola

    She’s growing on me, this girl. Can’t stand the music, but she comes across as sincere and thinking for herself lately, instead of accepting everything she’s told.

    Also, love Amanda de Cadenet! Anyone know when I can this show will be on Australian screens?

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  7. j-l

    I’m inclined to agree with Miley on this. Clementine Ford has written an interesting article about teenage sexuality in the context of the ‘idol worship’ that teen girls seem to display for pop singers (and the risks of discouraging it or making it seem ‘bad/wrong/dirty’). It’s definitely worth a read, as are all her articles:
    http://www.dailylife.com.au/news-and-views/dl-opinion/teenage-sexuality-20120416-1×261.html

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  8. eatmeetswest

    I’m beginning to think that more people should be listening to this girl. It’s exactly the kind of attitude towards sex that people should have – it’s special but fun and not ‘bad’ or ‘dirty’. It’s HEALTHY. It just needs respect.

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  9. Kitten

    That puppy!!!! Soooo much cuteness.

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  10. lozzie

    Love her comments
    Plus, If I was dating Liam Hemsworth, I would think it was magic too

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    • MamaMel

      LOL! Wouldn’t wel all…..????!!!!!

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  11. Anonymous

    I like this girl :)

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  12. Heather

    I love her! So true Miley

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  13. a

    She definitely gets some unfair labelling. I remember when I was 17 to 20 and the short, tight numbers I used to wear then. For many it’s the process of finding your sexuality, finding your style, growing up and trying to fit into the confusing message of being an empowered woman and a feminist at the same time. Imagine trying to go through all that in front of everyone.

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  14. Barb Fisher

    Personally, I’m loving the new Miley.

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  15. Anon

    Go Miley! She is excellent, I love her.

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  16. JAC

    love this so much. I think she gets a lot of unfair scrutiny – I actually loved what she was wearing at the billboard awards, people forget she is actually over 18 i think.

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