The book chosen for the Lifestyled/Mamamia bookclub this month was as significant as Bridget Jones in terms of defining a genre: in this case the working mother diaries. Paula and I sat down after (bizarrely) appearing on the Kerri Anne show on the same day (which is why we have so much make-up on – we’re actually both wearing ugg boots) to discuss ‘I Don’t Know How She Does It’. We have answered two video questions and added more discussion questions below for those of you who can’t view videos online. Please share your thoughts on the book in the comments.
We’ll be telling you about the next book shortly.
Synopsis
A fiercely ambitious and talented thirty-five-year-old hedge-fund manager at the London firm of Edwin Morgan Forster, Kate Reddy is a successful woman in a notoriously sexist business. Her trouble is that her other life, as a married mother of two young children, is hopelessly at odds with her day job. Her architect husband, Richard, is sweet and feckless and would never dream of replacing the paper towels in the kitchen, and Richard’s mother keeps telling Kate that her poor boy is looking thin. The children’s nanny, Paula, is haughty, spiteful, and inclined to emotional blackmail. The housekeeper doesn’t clean anything down low (bad knees) or up high (vertigo).
Kate can juggle nine different currencies in five different time zones and get herself and two children washed and dressed and out of the house in half an hour (though occasionally with the baby’s banana oatmeal smeared on her Armani suit). She can read Guess How Much I Love You? to her son while scanning the prices on a stock ticker. She can do it all (it seems)—but the stress is ridiculous. Smug stay-at-home mothers at her daughter’s school, members of what Kate calls the Muffia, are always asking her when she’s going to start working part time. How long can she go on like this?
Top Comments
I'm definitely a fan of this book and how it sheds light on the reality of life as a working mother. I also can't wait for the upcoming film. I just watched the trailer and now I'm hooked!
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Hi Mia & Paula,
Just finished reading the book. Just a few random thoughts are posted on my blog. I found it hard to read, but then realised it was because it wasn't fiction enough! A little too close to home, methinks.
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