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1. Stop the Western World. We want to get off. Because in our world, Victoria’s Secret models are held up as the epitome of female glamour. The look and body shape that every woman is supposed to aspire to. But if we’re supposed to aim to look like this, then there’s something seriously wrong:

 

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Candice Swanepoel posted this picture of her stomach on Instagram

 

Yep, that’s the stomach of a Victoria’s Secret model. The CONCAVE stomach of Candice Swanepoel, who posted this picture on her Instagram to show everyone how hard she’s been working out before the Victoria’s Secret fashion show next Wednesday.

 

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Candice (middle) with other Victoria’s Secret models

 

Feeling bad about yourself now because your stomach doesn’t look like that? Please don’t – because NOBODY’S STOMACH LOOKS LIKE THAT. Unless they are a lingerie model who may or may not have eaten solid food in days, because they are planning to strut down a catwalk next week wearing a few scraps of fabric over their genitals along with a giant pair of angel wings .

And remember this. Regardless of how flat/concave their stomachs are – the models will still get airbrushed when they appear in print. Check out our gallery of Victoria’s Secret Angels before and after Photoshop, as well as other celebrities who have been Photoshopped:

Folds of skin along Kroes' side have been smoothed out (1), along with veins in the crook of her arm (2) and the area around her armpit (3). Shadows have been deleted from her abs, making them look less toned (4). The nude underwear is gone (5).

 

 

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Big Brother winner Ben. Obviously very excited about his win.

2. Last night was a reality television producer’s dream, when a romantic proposal played out live during the Big Brother finale.

BB housemate Benjamin Norris proposed to his boyfriend after it was announced that he had won the reality show.

Ben – who was one of 16 housemates on the show – won $250,000 and shocked audiences when, after leaving the house, got down on one knee to ask his partner to marry him. Watch this video of the proposal. It’s surprisingly moving……

“This was a diamond that my great grandfather bought for my great grandmother and it was worn by my parents on their wedding day so it’s something that is a part of my family,” Norris said.

“Since I’ve met Ben all I have wanted is for him to be a part of my family. And no-one is going to tell us that sitting on the couch together at the end of the day pretending that we’re married that we’re not married.”

 

3. Melissa George – former Home and Away actress and star of The Slap – has a new boyfriend, French millionaire Jean-David Blanc. The Aussie actress, who previously dated business magnate Russell Simmons, dismissed talk of marriage but was adamant children would be in her future. Speaking to news.com.au, she stated:

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Melissa with her French millionaire boyfriend

“I would love my own kids,” she said. “That stuff is obvious.

“I am going to be a mother, absolutely obvious no matter how, when, what. I really am picking the right father for my child.

“It’s very simple.”

 

 

4. We had a very exciting day at Mamamia HQ watching the US election yesterday. Which makes us a lot like these celebrities who were also keeping a very close eye on the proceedings. Check out their election tweets below:

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Can’t get enough of the election? Completely besotted with Obama? Go here to see him and his family in pics. You can also go here to find out more about the election coverage (hint: there are theories that US news anchor Diane Sawyer was drunk when doing the news broadcast).

 

In other fluff news: 

- Months after her death, Whitney Houston’s new song has debuted. You can read more about it – and listen to it – here.

- Kristen Stewart has FINALLY talked about her relationship with Robert Pattinson – find out what she said here.

- Megan Fox kept the birth of her baby seriously under wraps – we didn’t find out about it until weeks after it actually happened. Here’s how she managed to keep the secret.

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  1. Jess

    Why is it that when a proud overweight girl posts a picture of her exposed stomach she is praised, but when a proud slim girl posts a picture of her exposed stomach she is condemned?

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  2. Kay

    Ill probably be torn apart for this and accused of being insensitive but I want to share my view. You know what Mamamia I think you lose support of the positive body image project when you are so nasty and judgmental to smaller body shapes. Take away your patronising capital letters shouting that NOBODY LOOKS LIKE THIS and implying that the model has an eating disorder or is alien. People do look like this I have friends who look like this! Friends who are hilarious and confident and when they run on the beach their thighs don’t touch and nothing jiggles. I am in the pre-baby era of life as are my friends but that doesn’t make their body shapes invalid, it’s not like you need to give birth before you’re a real human. And yes these friends eat and they drink alcohol but they also exercise, a normal amount. They travel and they’re smart and they don’t live on protein shakes. you are going too far. Those images of the models photoshopped before and after are so far from scandalous the changes are barely noticeable. And you know what that proves? These ladies ARE GORGEOUS and why aren’t we allowed to celebrate their beauty?! We have to bitch that they don’t really look like that it’s just photoshop and make nasty jokes about the fact they probably live on a rabbits diet. We have to wait for an overweight person to be as body confident as these ladies and then we can breathe out a sigh of relief and say YEHHHH we celebrate you because you’re big come here and make assumptions about models with us! In many instances photoshop is ridiculous but not always and all the talk about models now weighing 23% less than the average woman when they used to weigh 8% less is probably a result of the average woman putting on shitloads of weight! We are getting bigger! We are getting too big! More food is processed, more people need the convenience of fast take out/heat up meals and people claim less time for exercise. And guess what that’s actually not cool, getting bigger is not good for our health. And I appreciate the beautiful women in magazines they do make me body aware but not in a bad way. Just in a way that I feel if magazines were filled with ONLY larger women loving life I may start to think that’s what a body should look like, and feel comfortable eating a few extra pieces of cake cos its normal to have lots of stomach rolls and another chin. And we know there is no normal and there is no one way a body should look and I absolutely want people to love the body their in but when I do have kids I don’t want the pendulum swinging the other way and having them bombarded with you shouldn’t look like THIS (insert model) you should look like this (insert overweight person) they should look like whatever form their body takes when they eat a relatively balanced diet and exercise a moderate amount. They should look healthy and happy whether that appears big or small in the eyes of others is irrelevant. I am with you I want diversity I want all shapes and sizes represented but not at the cost of judging anyone who works hard or is naturally a smaller shape.

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    • Peta

      Well said – couldn’t agree more.

      Getting very sick of all the skinny bashing that happens on MM. By all means, promote diversity but don’t say that no-one looks like that. Because some people do. And they often work very hard for it. That’s also ok.

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    • Rin

      Completely agree! I am sick of this website taking skinny people as a personal insult, branding them unhealthy then posting an article that basically reads: “YAY! Obesity!”

      Anorexia Nervosa is a serious illness that affects less then 1% of the population with ties to mental illness. It is severely ignored medically (two beds for all adult sufferers) and the more we blame it on the fashion industry the more we discount it.

      Obesity on the other hand affects around more than half the population and instead you pat them on the back and tell them it is ok to be different.

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  3. J

    I’m glad I’m not the only one who doesn’t see this stomach photo as a bad thing. Much of it is the shadowing that makes it look slightly odd. I have always preferred the VS models over others that we commonly see, because they look fit-thin, not emaciated-thin. These women are gorgeous! I think our body image has become a bit warped in the recent years, to the point where anyone whose thighs don’t touch is branded too skinny. What?? Curves are gorgeous, but I reckon it comes down to proportions. And in my eyes, the VS models are fabulously in proportion – and although I’m envious, I also recognize that my body would look more in proportion too if I did the work for it :)

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  4. Mel

    Umm, lots of women have stomachs like that. Didn’t anyone watch the Olympics? I don’t, but I’m not going to get all outraged and huffy about it.

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  5. krazykat

    my stomach looks like that on most days…and i’ve given birth twice. sorry but i don’t get it…am i supposed to be ashamed for working out and not stuffing my face (once again…on most days). she looks perfectly healthy to me.

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  6. Rin

    But stomachs are supposed to be concave, when they breathe in and arch their backs like she obviously is in the photo.

    I gave birth six months ago and I can do that!

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  7. Alice

    She looks toned and fit, like an athlete. If this was posted by Steph Rice saying “competition ready” or something, would you have the same reaction? Or would you applaud her dedication? I know the goals are different (looking hot vs being fast) but they are produced by the same means.

    Meanwhile, the proposal had me in tears! So gorgeous!! And I love that Australia (or at least the vast majority) are now obviously so accepting of gay people – it’s clearly time to take the final step to indicate that by legitimising their relationships with marriage!!

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  8. Hannah

    I know it makes everyone feel better about themselves to think that people have to starve themselves to get like that, but some people are like that naturally and are healthy. I know because I’m one. It really frustrates me that people assume I starve myself or workout all day to stay slim: i really struggle to put on weight and am from a naturally muscular family so the weight I have is toned without doing much other than walking. My whole family’s the same.

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    • whatahooha

      when I meet people like you, I don’t assume you starve yourself, I assume you have different genes to mine, and the two of us are the beauty of the diversity of the human gene pool.
      but I’m one of those super sensible people. Don’t get too many these days.

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  9. Blunder Woman

    Mia my dear….we are but jealous of the Swan-o-tummy! lol

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  10. stolichnaya

    I’m normally the first to roll my eyes at the idolising of VS models but all I see in the Swanepoel photo is the stomach of a woman who’s worked incredibly hard to be in that kind of shape. She and the other VS models are currently training like fitness competitors to be ready for that show (ridiculous as it is, let’s be real) and instead of looking at her stomach as a disheartening reminder that my abs are still only half-visible, I’d prefer to use it as motivation. Today, I ran treadmill sprints until I had to lie on the gym floor to make the room stop spinning. Tomorrow, I’m upping the speed.

    Sometimes I think that because of our well meaning desire to try to walk back the body-image pressure women face, we’re in danger of dismissing commitment/effort/sweat as unhealthy obsession with an unrealistic ideal. No, most of us are not going to have the resources and genetics to ever look like a VS model. But clean eating and hard exercise does not make one a victim of the beauty myth.

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    • Me

      Sure – and that’s fine. I think it’s important to make the point though that there is an enormous quantity of time required working out and obsessing over your skin/hair/nails to look like that. If you have that time available to you, the go for it! But please realise without judgement that most women’s schedules don’t allow for that. For most of us, it’s just not possible.
      And you know what? I really don’t mind that I can’t. I’d hate to spend that many waking hours inside a gym anyway! Each to their own…

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  11. Ali

    OMG. Didn’t really watch BB, only a few snippets here and there but that proposal and those two gorgeous guys just made me bawl my little eyes out. Just beautiful!! Congrats to them both x x

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    • AquaFey

      That’s exactly how I felt when I watched it just then. The emotion is the same, the love is the same, the commitment is the same – why the hell shouldn’t they be “allowed” to get married!
      Cheers to you both, true love is a ridiculously beautiful thing xx

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  12. JK

    I don’t see anything wrong with Candice’s stomach. Yes, she is obviously very thin and I can only imagine how much work it takes to get a stomach that looks like that but she is a Victoria Secret model, it’s her job to look like that. And I don’t remember ever hearing anyone say that all women should look like this. Doesn’t everyone know that women who look like her are in the 0.01% of the population?

    She doesn’t sit at a desk for 9 hours a day like I do so why should I compare myself to her, we live in two different worlds. I look nothing like her but that doesn’t give me the right to attack her. If anything, good on her for having the discipline to look the way she does because t’s not easy. Mamamia, sometimes I feel like you’re really pushing it with these kinds of issues.

    I also thought you were pushing it with photoshop here, as far as I am aware there is nothing wrong with my sight, and I could hardly tell any difference between the before and after photoshop pictures. Who cares if they made a model’s hair fall behind her shoulder instead of in front of her shoulder or if they altered her armpit. Seriously, is this worth getting upset about? The point is their bodies really look like that so we’re not really being deceived.

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  13. beee

    I agree that VS doesn’t exactly portray the best body image messages but i think that photo above looks a lot more extreme than it seems. I personally am very fit and quite lean (IN A HEALTHY WAY!) and when I lean back my stomach sort of does that too. You can tell she’s leaning back in the photo and the other photos below show her belly looking less extreme (yes still very skinny I’m aware!). I know that they are thin, leggy models and VS and other companies are guilty of airbrushing extremes but I hate it how every single photo is then used as a terrifying example. Sorry I know people will disagree and I completely think that there should be more diversity in shows like VS, but I just hate the constant almost jealous rant that follows these sorts of things all the time.

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  14. chillax

    We loved big brother in our house. My kids and I all voted for Ben! We love him and his proposal made my kids scream with excitement and bought a tear to my eyes. I would love to meet him!!!

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  15. Kitten

    I haven’t watched the show this season but the above video brought me to (happy) tears… how beautiful!

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  16. Caz Gibson

    I know it’s fashionable to declare “Oh we NEVER watch BIG BROTHER – it’s crap and the “housemates ” are all morons !”
    We watched most of it this year and enjoyed it – it had a lot more integrity this time and the participants were mostly interesting in their own way.
    That’s because we’re “people watchers” and observing real people trying to have a real experience in an unreal environment is interesting to us – plus the psychological aspect is fascinating.

    We had tipped either Michael or Ben to win and thought that Ben was incredibly deserving – and the fact that he’s gay IS significant.
    It means that thousands of people accepted him for himself 1st and that his being gay was hardly an issue.
    We all consume people on TV like fast food, which is why if Channel 9 wants to “get some more mileage” out of creating “stars” of Ben, Michael, Josh, and Layla (in particular) – they’ll give them a show ASAP.
    We’ve been part of TV production and have friends that work on that show – most of them are probably now out of work.
    Reality TV has been a “mixed blessing” and cable TV is full of shows that I’d prefer didn’t exist………but we try to watch each one at least once because we always learn something.
    As long as the same team handles it – I hope Big Brother is able to return next year.

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  17. Anonymous

    Just fist pumping in dip down, like Delilah, that Estelle did not win :)

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  18. maggie

    Why is it unhealthy to aspire to be the best shape your body could possibly be? I am working towards this, because I want to be fit and healthy.

    I am doing it the healthy way, working out and eating right. I love it. Its the best I have felt my whole life.

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    • maggie

      I dont know why only half my comment posted.

      I noticed that the part of me saying that people (minus the concave part) do look like models/really fit people, because they work like hell to get there.

      Athletes, personal trainers etc Why is it so bad too look like this or want to?
      Considering the obesity epidemic, you think media would be supporting the ones trying to be fit an healthy. Not accusing them of being “un realistic role models”!

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      • Jackie

        First of all, it’s not unhealthy to aspire to be in the best shape or health that you can be. And great if you are taking a sensible approach. I am also working towards a more healthy lifestyle in a safe and enjoyable way. There are mulitple problems though with these sorts images.

        They equate super skinny with healthy which is absolutely not true. A thin person, including many models, may be thin but not fit or healthy (e.g. physically/cardiovascular fit, muscle tone and range, cholesterol etc). The general perception in society seems to be that anyone who does not look like a model is overweight and unhealthy. It is easy to forget that many people can be within healthy body size or even technically (based on dodgy BMI) overweight and still meet all indicators of being fit and healthy.

        The message that models get to this size by exercise and healthy eating alone is also not entirely true. Based on genetics alone most are naturally thin and incredibly tall with rapid metabolisms. They are naturally of a body frame and shape that is not representative of the majority of women. This is without even considering weight.

        The reason it is considered ‘bad to want to look like this’ is because it is not realistic to set these bodies as the ultimate goal. This is not just a media tag. For most people it actually can never be reached. Someone’s healthiest and sustainable point may well be a size 8, 10, 12, 14, 16… whatever fits within their frame, shape and functional ability (knowing that size is a crude measure!).

        Also from a psychological and behaviour perspective, while some may be able to draw motivation from such image; reputable, evidence based goal setting theory focuses on having achievable goals. Appropriate goals are linked with greater likelihood of success and longer term changes.

        It is interesting that you referred to the media in your post. Honestly countless books have and will continue to be written about the role the media plays in influencing perceptions of health and beauty. Surely the term ‘obesity epidemic’ is actually drawn from the media also.

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  19. Michelle

    I have never watched BB and never will……but WOW!!! That was beautiful, so full of love and laughter!!!!!!!!!!!!! Congratulations guys!!

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  20. Amanda maher

    Love, Love , Love -what fantastic Australian men these two are – I am proud !

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  21. kate

    So happy that Ben won, and so happy for him & his partner. I have to say though that I suspected all along that Ben would become the face of gay marriage in Australia – what do you know, he proposes live on tv!! I think we will be seeing a LOT more Ben & Ben in the future. Yay!!

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    • I Don't Really Believe

      I wonder if the producers knew of his intention beforehand and played the game (ie editing, showing percentages etc) to ‘help’ him win for the publicity it would bring.

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  22. ANONYMOUS

    I’m really proud that Ben recieved 40% of the votes, and expressed his love so openly with so much support from the blokey housemates, even kissing him on the cheek.

    I’m also really ashamed that there have been such horrible, homophobic comments posted on the BB facebook.

    AUSTRALIA, GET REAL.

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  23. Pink lady

    Why is it ‘surprisingly’ moving? Because they’re gay? I would have thought that a video of any man proposing to his partner would be quite moving, irrespective of their sexual orientation…?

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    • taramx

      Perhaps it’s surprisingly moving because it’s on an arguably trashy reality tv show?

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      • Alice

        Yes, but a genuine marriage proposal is always moving and gorgeous. It’s BB live so it’s not staged like it might be on the Kardasians or something. I agree that I found it really odd to say it was “surprisingly” moving. Can MM clarify?

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  24. buggles

    I cried when I watched this. Good on him for doing something so wonderful as to stand up in front of all those people and basically say I don’t care what anyone else thinks I love you and I want you in my life.

    Watch the proposal and the reaction by all those around and tell me how same-sex marriage could ever be a bad thing.

    Lets hope that one day in the not too distant future that these two will be able to legally marry.

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